{"id":16300,"date":"2020-07-13T14:10:25","date_gmt":"2020-07-13T14:10:25","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=16300"},"modified":"2022-01-04T16:45:45","modified_gmt":"2022-01-04T16:45:45","slug":"las-5-razones-mas-comunes-por-las-que-los-hombres-tienen-miedo-al-amor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/las-5-razones-mas-comunes-por-las-que-los-hombres-tienen-miedo-al-amor\/","title":{"rendered":"Las 5 razones m\u00e1s comunes por las que los hombres tienen miedo al amor"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2 class=\"numbered-headline reset\">Han sido gravemente heridos en el pasado<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-103878\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/sad-man-sitting-in-the-living-room.jpg\" alt=\"hombre triste sentado en el sal\u00f3n\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/sad-man-sitting-in-the-living-room.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/sad-man-sitting-in-the-living-room-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/sad-man-sitting-in-the-living-room-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/sad-man-sitting-in-the-living-room-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/sad-man-sitting-in-the-living-room-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Lo creas o no, los hombres tambi\u00e9n pueden salir mal parados. S\u00f3lo que nosotras, como mujeres, estamos en el otro lado de la ecuaci\u00f3n, as\u00ed que no nos damos cuenta.<\/p>\n<p>Sus corazones sangran igual que los nuestros y dejan cicatrices inevitables. As\u00ed que, para la pr\u00f3xima vez que quieran volver a intentarlo, habr\u00e1n levantado gruesos muros a su alrededor y no estar\u00e1n dispuestos a arriesgarse a que les vuelvan a hacer da\u00f1o.<\/p>\n<p>They become so focused on creating this tough image about themselves that nothing can touch them. They don\u2019t talk about their past much; they hardly ever talk about their emotions.<\/p>\n<p>Se encierran en s\u00ed mismos para que nadie pueda ver que est\u00e1n emocionalmente devastados.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Las mujeres los perciben como<a href=\"https:\/\/www.learning-mind.com\/cold-hearted-person\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> coraz\u00f3n fr\u00edo<\/a> cuando, en realidad, anhelan el amor tanto como nosotros, pero no est\u00e1n tan dispuestos a manifestarlo abiertamente.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">No est\u00e1n satisfechos con su situaci\u00f3n actual<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-103880\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/worried-man-in-deep-minds.jpg\" alt=\"hombre preocupado en mentes profundas\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/worried-man-in-deep-minds.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/worried-man-in-deep-minds-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/worried-man-in-deep-minds-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/worried-man-in-deep-minds-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/worried-man-in-deep-minds-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Existe esa imagen prehist\u00f3rica del hombre que es proveedor y protector; el que ser\u00e1 econ\u00f3micamente independiente y lo bastante fuerte como para enfrentarse a cualquier cosa que se interponga en su camino.<\/p>\n<p>If he is not in a good place emotionally, if he has some family issues, if he is currently unable to find work or he is working some dead-end job he wants to get out of, he won\u2019t even think about dating.<\/p>\n<p>La verdad es que simplemente sentir\u00e1 que no es suficiente. Su mente trabajar\u00e1 en resolver la situaci\u00f3n en la que se encuentra ahora, para poder estar en un lugar en el que sea capaz de tener citas y, en \u00faltima instancia, sentirse digno de amor.<\/p>\n<p>Querr\u00e1 aportar algo y sentirse igual a la mujer con la que sale.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Tienen un esp\u00edritu inquieto<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-103881\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/worried-man-holding-hand-on-the-head.jpg\" alt=\"hombre preocupado llev\u00e1ndose la mano a la cabeza\" width=\"800\" height=\"545\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/worried-man-holding-hand-on-the-head.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/worried-man-holding-hand-on-the-head-300x204.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/worried-man-holding-hand-on-the-head-768x523.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/worried-man-holding-hand-on-the-head-150x102.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Teme que el amor domestique su esp\u00edritu libre y le encadene. Teme que el inicio de una relaci\u00f3n signifique el fin de la libertad.<\/p>\n<p>Eso tambi\u00e9n podr\u00eda tener algo que ver con su relaci\u00f3n anterior o su miedo al compromiso en general.<\/p>\n<p>The bottom line is he will be considered a player regardless if circumstances made him like that or there is something in his spirit that doesn\u2019t allow him to settle.<\/p>\n<p>Una relaci\u00f3n es algo que requiere tiempo, esfuerzo e inversi\u00f3n y algunos hombres simplemente no est\u00e1n dispuestos a darlo en este momento.<\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t mean they are going to hold on to that opinion forever.<\/p>\n<p>Puede que a\u00fan sean inmaduros y necesiten m\u00e1s aventuras que algo permanente. Probablemente <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/conseguir-que-un-hombre-se-comprometa-usando-psicologia-inversa\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">escriba a<\/a> alg\u00fan d\u00eda, pero ese d\u00eda a\u00fan no ha llegado.<\/p>\n<p>RELACIONADO: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/senales-de-que-tiene-miedo-de-lo-mucho-que-le-gustas\/\">25 Se\u00f1ales de que le asusta lo mucho que le gustas (sin darse cuenta)<\/a><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">No est\u00e1n dispuestos a comprometerse<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-103884\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/serious-mindful-man-looking-at-distance.jpg\" alt=\"hombre serio atento mirando a lo lejos\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/serious-mindful-man-looking-at-distance.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/serious-mindful-man-looking-at-distance-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/serious-mindful-man-looking-at-distance-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/serious-mindful-man-looking-at-distance-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/serious-mindful-man-looking-at-distance-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Los hombres pueden ser muy protectores con su espacio. Tienen sus propios intereses, amigos y una rutina en la que est\u00e1n atrapados, y tienen miedo si entran en una relaci\u00f3n que les desequilibre.<\/p>\n<p>They don\u2019t want to lose game nights with their friends, beer nights every other night, They are in their comfort zones and they are unwilling to leave.<\/p>\n<p>They don\u2019t want to lose their spontaneity and perks of caring just for themselves.<\/p>\n<p>This type of man wants to do whatever he wants whenever he wants and he doesn\u2019t want to accommodate to fit anybody\u2019s schedule.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Son buscadores de la perfecci\u00f3n<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-103885\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/handsome-serious-man-posing.jpg\" alt=\"hombre guapo y serio posando\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/handsome-serious-man-posing.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/handsome-serious-man-posing-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/handsome-serious-man-posing-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/handsome-serious-man-posing-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/handsome-serious-man-posing-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>O, en otras palabras, est\u00e1 tan sumido en la fobia al compromiso que buscar\u00e1 cualquier excusa para alejarse cuando las cosas se pongan un poco m\u00e1s serias.<\/p>\n<p>Rezar\u00e1 por tus defectos s\u00f3lo para no ser rechazado.<\/p>\n<p>Por lo tanto, que te critique no tiene nada que ver contigo, sino con \u00e9l.<\/p>\n<p>Tiene baja autoestima y no est\u00e1 disponible emocionalmente y no hay nada que puedas hacer para cambiar su forma de ser.<\/p>\n<p>Hagas lo que hagas y no importa si te ajustas a sus est\u00e1ndares de perfecci\u00f3n, siempre encontrar\u00e1 una cosa irrelevante m\u00e1s con la que estar disgustado.<\/p>\n<p>Volver\u00e1 tu amor contra ti, s\u00f3lo para poder escapar de cualquier tipo de compromiso.<\/p>\n<p>Bajo ninguna circunstancia debes culparte o tratar de satisfacer sus necesidades. Agradece porque se fue.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-103877\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/5-Most-Common-Reasons-Why-Men-Are-Scared-Of-Love-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Las 5 razones m\u00e1s comunes por las que los hombres tienen miedo al amor\" width=\"448\" height=\"700\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/5-Most-Common-Reasons-Why-Men-Are-Scared-Of-Love-pinterest.jpg 448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/5-Most-Common-Reasons-Why-Men-Are-Scared-Of-Love-pinterest-192x300.jpg 192w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/5-Most-Common-Reasons-Why-Men-Are-Scared-Of-Love-pinterest-150x234.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 448px) 100vw, 448px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>They have been badly hurt in the past Believe it or not, man can get hurt badly, too. It\u2019s just that we, as women, are on the other side of the equation, so we fail to realize it. Their hearts bleed just as ours and leave inevitable scars. So, by the next time they want&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":103887,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16300","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/5-Most-Common-Reasons-Why-Men-Are-Scared-Of-Love.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? 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