{"id":16364,"date":"2020-03-14T10:51:42","date_gmt":"2020-03-14T10:51:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=16364"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:21:51","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:21:51","slug":"esto-es-lo-que-parece-caer-en-la-relacion-correcta","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/esto-es-lo-que-parece-caer-en-la-relacion-correcta\/","title":{"rendered":"As\u00ed es caer en la relaci\u00f3n adecuada"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><b>You can&#8217;t plan it.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> It doesn&#8217;t happen overnight but rather over a long period of time where you don&#8217;t even realize it\u2019s happening. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You&#8217;ve been waiting maybe even years and you&#8217;ve been wondering when it will come to you. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Everyone seems to be happy in their relationships but after surviving abusive relationships (or maybe even just one) you&#8217;re drained to the point where you can&#8217;t seem to recognize the right relationship, even if the man of your dreams is standing right in front of you. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Pero cr\u00e9eme, algunas cosas son m\u00e1s que obvias.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Firstly, you won&#8217;t believe that it&#8217;s happening. <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You won&#8217;t trust him when he says that he&#8217;ll love you and treat you the way you deserve. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Most probably you&#8217;ll try to push him away just to see if he&#8217;s going to actually stick around.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>He&#8217;ll try so hard.<\/b> <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/7-razones-que-merecen-ser-perseguidas\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Un hombre que te ama va a perseguirte<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> as much as he needs in order to convince you that he&#8217;s actually serious about your relationship. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There won&#8217;t be anything you will be able to do to scare him off. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You can tell him your whole life story, the story that broke you, and you can make sure he knows that you&#8217;ll need a long time to heal. But it won&#8217;t frighten him, because you&#8217;re all he wants.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>You&#8217;ll start believing him.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Este es el punto m\u00e1s importante. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Cuando empieces a <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.relrules.com\/10-signs-you-should-trust-the-guy-youre-with\/\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">conf\u00eda en \u00e9l<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> y su lealtad, finalmente est\u00e1s admitiendo que lo amas. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">No matter how many times you told yourself that you wouldn&#8217;t fall in love again, it happened. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You&#8217;re letting him into your world, into your life and you&#8217;re letting him see all the broken parts that you were hiding before. He&#8217;ll just be standing by your side, holding the pieces while you put yourself back together.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Love. You&#8217;ll start to love loving someone again.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When he&#8217;s near you you&#8217;ll feel safe, like there&#8217;s nothing that can break you two apart because you&#8217;ve both found the one person you want to be with for the rest of your life.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> You&#8217;ll start to communicate on a higher level, and even though communication might be a problem from time to time, you will both have a special way of telling each other that you&#8217;re sorry or that you appreciate each other.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Tus amigos ver\u00e1n la diferencia en ti.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> A simple girls\u2019 night out may seem like something usual but when you&#8217;re there with your friends, they&#8217;ll see that you&#8217;re reborn and that you&#8217;re finally happy. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ser\u00e1n felices junto a ti. Tu forma de sonre\u00edr har\u00e1 que todos a tu alrededor sonr\u00edan de coraz\u00f3n. Tu energ\u00eda ha cambiado y llevas alegr\u00eda all\u00e1 donde vas.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>El proceso de curaci\u00f3n se ha vuelto m\u00e1s r\u00e1pido.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> We both know that you&#8217;ve been broken and that <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/7-signs-youre-ready-new-relationship-surviving-abuse\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">sobreviviendo a todos esos abusos<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> means that you are a strong fighter with a lot of bruises but that&#8217;s history. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You&#8217;re recovering and you feel it in every aspect of your life. You&#8217;re doing everything you set your mind to and you start seeing that you don&#8217;t even think about your abuser anymore. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This is the point where you actually know that it truly is the right relationship because he helped you heal. He was there for you and he went through all the ups and downs that you couldn&#8217;t bear by yourself together with you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>You can&#8217;t see the end.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> The best part about the right relationship is not only that you don&#8217;t want it to end but you also can&#8217;t see the end of it. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As much as you try to envision you two breaking up, it won&#8217;t happen.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> You&#8217;re meant to be together and you&#8217;ll both grow together and love each other. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There is no end to your happiness and it feels so unfamiliar but still so beautiful. That&#8217;s what falling into the right relationship feels like.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-47492\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/This-Is-What-Being-Broken-Really-Means-Because-Its-More-Than-A-Heartbreak-12-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"As\u00ed es caer en la relaci\u00f3n adecuada\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/This-Is-What-Being-Broken-Really-Means-Because-Its-More-Than-A-Heartbreak-12-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/This-Is-What-Being-Broken-Really-Means-Because-Its-More-Than-A-Heartbreak-12-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/This-Is-What-Being-Broken-Really-Means-Because-Its-More-Than-A-Heartbreak-12.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You can&#8217;t plan it. It doesn&#8217;t happen overnight but rather over a long period of time where you don&#8217;t even realize it\u2019s happening. You&#8217;ve been waiting maybe even years and you&#8217;ve been wondering when it will come to you. Everyone seems to be happy in their relationships but after surviving abusive relationships (or maybe even&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":16365,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29621],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16364","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-healthy-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29621,"label":"healthy relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/almos-bechtold-434176-unsplash.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29621,"name":"healthy relationship","slug":"healthy-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29621,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Explore this part of our site to learn how to recognize and nourish healthy patterns in your relationships and let go of the negative ones with ease.","parent":29620,"count":254,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29621,"category_count":254,"category_description":"Explore this part of our site to learn how to recognize and nourish healthy patterns in your relationships and let go of the negative ones with ease.","cat_name":"healthy relationship","category_nicename":"healthy-relationship","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16364","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16364"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16364\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/16365"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16364"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16364"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16364"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}