{"id":16401,"date":"2020-05-14T14:28:16","date_gmt":"2020-05-14T14:28:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=16401"},"modified":"2021-11-12T17:34:27","modified_gmt":"2021-11-12T17:34:27","slug":"9-cosas-que-pasan-cuando-estas-soltero-y-arrasas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/9-cosas-que-pasan-cuando-estas-soltero-y-arrasas\/","title":{"rendered":"9 cosas que pasan cuando est\u00e1s soltero y arrasas"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">1. Te conviertes en un fechador selectivo<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>You don&#8217;t go on a lot of dates anymore because you have been on too many that looked like a bad horror story and you are not about to go through that again.<\/p>\n<p>Pero cuando tienes una cita, te gusta evaluar la situaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>That came naturally because you\u2019ve had your share of fuckboys and toxic guys for one lifetime. You would much rather stay home relaxing and watching Grey&#8217;s Anatomy than deal with some player.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">2. You haven&#8217;t sworn off men but you are not stressing about being single<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Te cuesta entender a las mujeres que se obsesionan con encontrar al elegido. Te diste cuenta de que cuanto m\u00e1s te obsesionas, m\u00e1s lejos est\u00e1s de conseguir lo que quieres.<\/p>\n<p>You learned to value your alone time; you regained your lost confidence and you learned to wait for someone who will show you why it hasn&#8217;t worked with anybody else before him.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">3. Aprendiste a ser tu propia prioridad<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>In the past, you used to put everybody else&#8217;s needs before your own. Let&#8217;s face it\u2014you were a doormat and you couldn&#8217;t put up with it anymore.<\/p>\n<p>Pero aprendiste que ese no es el camino hacia la felicidad, as\u00ed que empezaste a ponerte a ti primero.<\/p>\n<p>No, no est\u00e1s siendo ego\u00edsta. Simplemente te has dado cuenta de que tienes que apreciarte, mimarte y cuidarte.<\/p>\n<p>La gente que te rodea aprende de tu ejemplo y te tratar\u00e1 como t\u00fa te tratas a ti mismo.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">4. Te volviste muy protector con tus mercanc\u00edas<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Te has vuelto muy protector con tu cama y te gusta aprovechar todo el espacio que te proporciona. A\u00fan no est\u00e1s preparado para compartirla con nadie.<\/p>\n<p>You like your space and time and you don&#8217;t let just anybody disturb them. You learned to appreciate your inner peace and demand the respect you deserve.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">5. Te has acercado a personas que significan mucho para ti.<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Tus amigos y tu familia siempre fueron tu prioridad, pero tienes m\u00e1s tiempo para ellos desde que eres <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/being-single\/\">solo<\/a>. Su amor es puro e incondicional.<\/p>\n<p>They always had your back and they will always be there for you\u2014not to mention that time with them is something which brings you enormous joy, and that\u2019s exactly what you need.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">6. Te mimas mucho<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Hiciste tu propio <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/lista-de-cosas-que-hacer-antes-de-morir\/\">lista de cosas que hacer antes de morir<\/a> y pusiste ah\u00ed todas las cosas que siempre quisiste hacer pero nunca llegaste a hacer. Decidiste trabajar mucho y descansar y divertirte a\u00fan m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n<p>Te has dado cuenta de que no hay mejor momento que ahora para ser feliz y de que eres la persona adecuada para ello. As\u00ed que vive, aprende, sonr\u00ede, viaja, sue\u00f1a y haz lo que demonios quieras hacer con tu vida.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">7. Ahora conoces la diferencia entre estar solo y sentirse solo<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Has estado en una relaci\u00f3n que te ha hecho sentir m\u00e1s solo de lo que nunca podr\u00edas sentirte estando solo. Por supuesto, estar solo no siempre es tan bueno, pero tampoco lo es estar en una relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>All you know now is that you don&#8217;t want to sleep next to someone and feel lonely. You would much rather wait for someone you deserve than settle for somebody wrong.<\/p>\n<p>Has aprendido que estar solo no da tanto miedo como sentirse solo.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">8. You discovered what it&#8217;s like to be single and fabulous<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>You create your own happiness. You do whatever you want when you want it. You don&#8217;t have to fit your needs to fit somebody else.<\/p>\n<p>You don&#8217;t need to accommodate anybody. You discovered how self-love can be one of the most rewarding feelings.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">9. Te descubriste a ti mismo<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>El tiempo a solas es exactamente lo que te recet\u00f3 el m\u00e9dico. Has aprendido un par de cosas sobre ti mismo y parece que lo seguir\u00e1s haciendo el resto de tu vida, porque est\u00e1s lleno de sorpresas.<\/p>\n<p>La vida te hizo m\u00e1s fuerte y m\u00e1s audaz.<\/p>\n<p>Aprendiste a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.joinonelove.org\/learn\/yes-trust-gut-heres\/\" rel=\"noopener\">conf\u00eda en tu instinto<\/a> y conf\u00eda en esas banderas rojas que encuentres por el camino. En definitiva, te has dado cuenta de que eres incre\u00edble por dentro y por fuera.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-16403 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/template-za-pin-47.jpg\" alt=\"9 cosas que pasan cuando est\u00e1s soltero y arrasas \" width=\"467\" height=\"700\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/template-za-pin-47.jpg 467w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/template-za-pin-47-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/template-za-pin-47-683x1024.jpg 683w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 467px) 100vw, 467px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>1. You become a selective dater You don&#8217;t go on a lot of dates anymore because you have been on too many that looked like a bad horror story and you are not about to go through that again. But when you do go out on a date, you like to assess the situation. 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