{"id":1643,"date":"2020-04-21T09:57:57","date_gmt":"2020-04-21T09:57:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=1643"},"modified":"2022-02-07T10:57:43","modified_gmt":"2022-02-07T10:57:43","slug":"los-hombres-se-alejan-en-los-primeros-compases","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/los-hombres-se-alejan-en-los-primeros-compases\/","title":{"rendered":"Por qu\u00e9 los hombres se alejan en las primeras etapas"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00bfQu\u00e9 le pasa al sexo \"fuerte\"? A veces parece que huyen de todo con tanta facilidad.<\/p>\n

\u2026 and they call women the weaker sex\u2026<\/p>\n

Comprender a los hombres<\/a> can sometimes be harder than understanding women, but we don\u2019t complain that much, do we?<\/p>\n

It\u2019s just that we\u2019re left wondering what the hell went wrong for the rest of our lives more than we should, but it\u2019s not that big of a deal.<\/p>\n

La cuesti\u00f3n aqu\u00ed es: \u00bfPor qu\u00e9 se alejan los hombres?<\/a> en las primeras etapas? \u00bfPor qu\u00e9 todo es arco iris y sol durante un tiempo y luego se quedan en blanco de repente?<\/p>\n

\u00bfQu\u00e9 ha pasado? <\/em>Let\u2019s imagine you were on a date or it\u2019s been a few dates now and he seemed OK-ish or even as if he had a great time and then he disappeared. No phone call, no text, not a sound from him.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not that you se volvi\u00f3 demasiado pegajoso<\/a>; you didn\u2019t have the time to. It can\u2019t be that you read the signs wrong; you\u2019ve been out there for a while already and you know dating.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not that your clothes were too much; we\u2019ve passed that period a long time ago.<\/p>\n

1. He pulled away because you didn\u2019t really click<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

At first, one may think \u2018this is it\u2019, but there must\u2019ve been something different happening in his head.<\/p>\n

He might appear as if he\u2019s interested and then he changed his mind all of a sudden, but didn\u2019t bother telling you.<\/p>\n

2. He pulled away because he didn\u2019t like you<\/h2>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

Nosotros, los humanos, tendemos a crear cosas en nuestra cabeza que en realidad no existen.<\/p>\n

Tal vez le gustaste, pero no lo suficiente como para entablar una relaci\u00f3n contigo. \u00bfCu\u00e1ntas veces tu imaginaci\u00f3n lo ha arruinado todo?<\/p>\n

You saw things way better than they actually were. He didn\u2019t fancy you as relationship material and you stated clearly that you didn\u2019t want to be friendzoned, so now you\u2019re nowhere.<\/p>\n

3. Se alej\u00f3 porque su entusiasmo desapareci\u00f3<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Puede que esperara el momento perfecto (y usted realmente lo ten\u00eda), pero al cabo de un tiempo, su entusiasmo desapareci\u00f3.<\/p>\n

He didn\u2019t feel as thrilled to see you como al principio<\/a>. He wasn\u2019t into going on dates with you and he didn\u2019t want to spend any more time with you.<\/p>\n

When that \u2018whatever\u2019 feeling got to him, he decided to disappear as well.<\/p>\n

4. He pulled away because he\u2019s scared of you<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

\u00a1Hombres, asustados, como si...! <\/em>You have to admit, it\u2019s the age of Wonder Woman and you might be way out of his league.<\/p>\n

No tienes problemas para mantenerte y lo \u00fanico que necesitas de \u00e9l es respeto y amor.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re not dependent on him and you wouldn\u2019t be under any circumstances.<\/p>\n

It could be the case that he doesn\u2019t know how to behave or how to handle such a strong female, so he\u2019s left with only one option\u2014to pull away.<\/p>\n

In his head, it\u2019s better to leave without a word than to stay embarrassed. It\u2019s a poor decision, but there is nothing you can do about it.<\/p>\n

5. Se alej\u00f3 porque no hay puntos en com\u00fan<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

You\u2019re just from two different planets and it\u2019s hard to find any similarities.<\/p>\n

You listen to Adam Levine, while he\u2019s more of a country type, or you enjoy jumping into unknown situations and discovering new things by yourself, while he\u2019s a \u2018play-it-safe\u2019 type of a guy.<\/p>\n

Normalmente, los polos opuestos se atraen<\/a>, but it\u2019s not a must. It could be that in your case, the scenario was totally different and there was no other option for him but to pull away.<\/p>\n

The truth is, it would be way less painful if you\u2019d had closure or a final goodbye.<\/p>\n

It would\u2019ve saved you from wondering what went wrong. Maybe it\u2019s not about the pain, but more about what is decent.<\/p>\n

6. He pulled away because he\u2019s too anxious to put himself out there<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

It may sound incredible, but people are fighting their anxiety on a daily basis and sometimes it\u2019s just too much to handle.<\/p>\n

You are an incredible person and he did the best he could to get you to go out on a date with him, but it\u2019s way too much stress for him.<\/p>\n

Although he\u2019d love to continue whatever the two of you started, it\u2019s much easier for him to just give up.<\/p>\n

7. He pulled away because he\u2019s a player<\/h2>\n

\"hombre
\nAnd that\u2019s what players do. He got you interested and now he wants you to chase him.<\/p>\n

Quiere que le llames, que te preguntes d\u00f3nde est\u00e1 y por qu\u00e9 no te devuelve la llamada.<\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t do anything wrong, it\u2019s just the way he is and the best thing you can possibly do is to just leave the things as they are.<\/p>\n

8. He pulled away because he\u2019s a fuckboy<\/a><\/h2>\n

\"Hombre<\/p>\n

Nunca plane\u00f3 nada serio contigo<\/a>s\u00f3lo quer\u00eda tener una fase contigo y luego pasar a su pr\u00f3xima v\u00edctima.<\/p>\n

Este tipo de hombres nunca sientan la cabeza, pero a\u00fan peor que eso, cuando se van, se van sin dar un cierre.
\nEsta puede ser la raz\u00f3n por la que se apart\u00f3 en una fase temprana.<\/p>\n

9. Se alej\u00f3 porque consigui\u00f3 lo que quer\u00eda<\/h2>\n

\"foto<\/p>\n

Nobody\u2019s judging, it\u2019s up to you how far you want to go. If he got what he wanted, that might be the reason he pulled away in the early stages.<\/p>\n

He\u2019d do it the moment he got what he wanted, regardless of how long you decided to wait.<\/p>\n

10. Se alej\u00f3 porque tiene miedo de ser utilizado<\/h2>\n

\"hombre
\nPodr\u00eda darse el caso de que nunca se molestara en ofrecerse a pagar nada o que afirmara que esperaba que fuera \u00e9l quien pagara todo.<\/p>\n

Also, if you said that you expected the guys you date to spoil you and to often buy you gifts so they\u2019d get boyfriend privileges, no wonder he pulled away.<\/p>\n

11. He pulled away because he didn\u2019t want to get broken again<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Tal vez te le apareciste como una mujer fatal y \u00e9l vio que lo mirabas s\u00f3lo como una herramienta para conseguir lo que necesitabas.<\/p>\n

Mientras \u00e9l estaba a la caza de su alma gemela, t\u00fa parec\u00edas ser una de esas women who doesn\u2019t settle<\/a> and he realized he\u2019d only get broken if he spent more time with you.<\/p>\n

12. Se alej\u00f3 porque se asust\u00f3 de las expectativas<\/h2>\n

\"foto<\/p>\n

Quiz\u00e1 sea m\u00e1s fan de un flirteo<\/a> que una relaci\u00f3n. Y tal vez quer\u00eda mantener las cosas picantes, pero nunca quiso comprometerse de verdad.<\/p>\n

With commitment comes big responsibilities and certain expectations he\u2019d have to fulfill as your boyfriend and in most cases, men run away from those kinds of things.<\/p>\n

Whatever the reason may be, you at least deserved an explanation. He shouldn\u2019t have left you wondering what went wrong and he should\u2019ve had the decency to be upfront.<\/p>\n

So don\u2019t you dare blame yourself or spend endless nights wondering what went wrong.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s time to stop questioning what YOU did wrong and understand that it can\u2019t be your fault when he didn\u2019t even give you two a chance. If he pulled away in the early stages, it\u2019s his loss, not yours.<\/p>\n

He didn\u2019t get to know you well enough because he decided to give up early.<\/p>\n

Te deja pregunt\u00e1ndote qu\u00e9 sali\u00f3 mal y te pasas horas rebobinando la pel\u00edcula en tu cabeza para ver qu\u00e9 hiciste mal.<\/p>\n

Wouldn\u2019t it be better if he could just \u2018man up\u2019 and say what\u2019s on his mind?<\/p>\n

There was no other date, there was no phone call or anything because he\u2019s a quitter. And because of this, he doesn\u2019t deserve you anyway.<\/p>\n

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