{"id":164488,"date":"2022-05-20T20:07:00","date_gmt":"2022-05-20T20:07:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=164488"},"modified":"2024-05-20T20:08:40","modified_gmt":"2024-05-20T20:08:40","slug":"4-siempre-haces-esto-que","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/4-siempre-haces-esto-que\/","title":{"rendered":"4. \"Siempre haces esto\/lo otro\"."},"content":{"rendered":"<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/Young-happy-couple-talking-together-sitting-on-a-sofa-1.jpg\" alt=\"Pareja joven y feliz hablando sentada en un sof\u00e1\" class=\"wp-image-164489\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/Young-happy-couple-talking-together-sitting-on-a-sofa-1.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/Young-happy-couple-talking-together-sitting-on-a-sofa-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/Young-happy-couple-talking-together-sitting-on-a-sofa-1-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/Young-happy-couple-talking-together-sitting-on-a-sofa-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/Young-happy-couple-talking-together-sitting-on-a-sofa-1-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/Young-happy-couple-talking-together-sitting-on-a-sofa-1-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/Young-happy-couple-talking-together-sitting-on-a-sofa-1-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/Young-happy-couple-talking-together-sitting-on-a-sofa-1-1200x801.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Cuando empiezas una discusi\u00f3n con esto, inmediatamente le est\u00e1s acusando de algo, dando a entender que siempre hace algo mal.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Esa no es la forma de mantener una conversaci\u00f3n sana y s\u00f3lo har\u00e1 que \u00e9l elija la v\u00eda defensiva.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Instead of making sweeping accusations, focus on the thing in question and the present. If he has to defend himself all the time, he\u2019s just not going to take it that much longer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div id=\"hide-grow-widget\"><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When you start an argument with this, you are immediately accusing him of something, implying that he always does something wrong. That is not the way to have a healthy conversation and it will only make him choose the defensive route. Instead of making sweeping accusations, focus on the thing in question and the present&#8230;.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-164488","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-blog"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":1,"label":"Blog"}]},"featured_image_src_large":false,"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":1,"name":"Blog","slug":"blog","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":1,"taxonomy":"category","description":"","parent":0,"count":497,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":1,"category_count":497,"category_description":"","cat_name":"Blog","category_nicename":"blog","category_parent":0}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/164488","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=164488"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/164488\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":164490,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/164488\/revisions\/164490"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=164488"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=164488"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=164488"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}