{"id":164572,"date":"2024-05-22T07:48:01","date_gmt":"2024-05-22T07:48:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=164572"},"modified":"2024-05-22T07:48:45","modified_gmt":"2024-05-22T07:48:45","slug":"respuesta-hilarante-a-una-invitacion-de-boda","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/respuesta-hilarante-a-una-invitacion-de-boda\/","title":{"rendered":"Una mujer enloquece con la excusa de \"no puedo ir a tu boda porque tengo que dormir"},"content":{"rendered":"

While I was googling ideas for creative decorations that could be useful for my brother’s wedding event, I encountered an interesting testimony on Reddit, where a woman explained she RSVP\u2019d \u201cNo\u201d to her sister’s wedding<\/strong> porque coincide con su hora de dormir. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

I\u2019ve felt an itching curiosity to learn more <\/strong>sobre su historia y pegu\u00e9 los ojos a la pantalla.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

La novia estaba furiosa\u00a0<\/h2>\n\n\n
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Cr\u00e9dito: Reddit<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

Su hermana Hanna, la novia, se neg\u00f3 a hablar con ella tras el incidente del RSVP. El hecho de que su hermana saltarse la ceremonia de boda s\u00f3lo por su horario de sue\u00f1o<\/strong>...fue impactante, al menos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

La autora del post dio m\u00e1s detalles para explicar su razonamiento. Cont\u00f3 la historia de una larga lucha con insomnio cr\u00f3nico<\/strong> lo que hac\u00eda que su horario de sue\u00f1o fuera realmente inusual.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s as if she is continuously going through an international jet lag. Usually, she would fall asleep at dawn and wake up in the afternoon. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Explic\u00f3 adem\u00e1s que su hermana conoc\u00eda bien sus h\u00e1bitos de sue\u00f1o, pero segu\u00eda sin mostrar intenci\u00f3n de aceptar la situaci\u00f3n sin reacciones emocionales duras, grit\u00e1ndole por tel\u00e9fono.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cuando la mujer recibi\u00f3 la invitaci\u00f3n de boda, se alegr\u00f3 mucho por Hanna, se emocion\u00f3 al conocer los planes de una gran boda, pero entonces el calendario apareci\u00f3 como un gran obst\u00e1culo para su asistencia:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201c… there’s a wedding brunch at 10am, the ceremony is at noon, and then there’s an afternoon party. I asked Hanna if I could just come to the afternoon party (since I will be sleeping at 10am) and she got furious and started yelling over the phone about how since I’m her sister, I need to be there for the ceremony.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

She laughed and compared Hanna\u2019s expectations to asking someone on a 9-5 work schedule to be present at a ceremony at 2 am. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cIf she wanted me to be there for the whole thing, she needed to plan for a time when I could actually attend. I work a full time job as a freelancer, just not normal hours because of my insomnia, so it really bugs me when people act like my time is worth less than theirs.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Mam\u00e1 tambi\u00e9n estaba disgustada<\/h2>\n\n\n
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Cr\u00e9dito: Reddit<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

Su madre tambi\u00e9n se enfad\u00f3 e insisti\u00f3 en que cambiara su respuesta. Sin embargo, despu\u00e9s de todo lo ocurrido, sinti\u00f3 un deseo a\u00fan m\u00e1s fuerte de no asistir al acto. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

En lugar de disculparse con su hermana, esperaba que su hermana se disculpara con ella. A pesar de que se dio cuenta de que su punto de vista podr\u00eda no ser del todo correcto como:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cthis is the first big fancy wedding in our family and maybe I need to suck it up because it’s a tradition to have a morning breakfast or something.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Los comentarios sobre Reddit cambiaron su perspectiva<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Numerosos comentarios el puesto<\/a> le sugiri\u00f3 que fuera a ver al m\u00e9dico y que su perspectiva es un poco egoc\u00e9ntrica.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n

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\"comentarios
Cr\u00e9dito: Reddit<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

Another user was assuring her that she needs to see a sleep specialist, pointing out that if a wedding as a \u201cone-day event\u201d interrupts her life so much, it is a warning sign. <\/p>\n\n\n

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\"comentarios
Cr\u00e9dito: Reddit<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

Despu\u00e9s, modific\u00f3 en cierta medida su punto de vista. El primer seguimiento de la historia publicada revel\u00f3 que lleg\u00f3 a una conclusi\u00f3n de sentido com\u00fan y decidi\u00f3 disculparse con Hanna.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201c…I’m not a bridesmaid but I can still put on a dress and show up even if I am tired.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

She also became aware of the fact that she has a serious sleeping problem and decided to seek a sleep specialist\u2019s opinion and explore the roots of her strange sleeping patterns. Open talk with her mom gave her the chance to explain her opinion, but it also gave her a different perspective.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Por fin tom\u00f3 conciencia de lo anormal que es en realidad su ritmo de sue\u00f1o y dio las gracias a las personas cuyos comentarios cambiaron su percepci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cSERIOUSLY A BIG THANK YOU to everyone who gave me tips and ideas for what to search and what to ask my new sleep doctor once I find one with my mom.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

It wasn\u2019t revealed if she managed to smooth things out with her sister, but finally, being aware of her sleeping problem was a good starting point for a better life and relationships.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

While I was googling ideas for creative decorations that could be useful for my brother’s wedding event, I encountered an interesting testimony on Reddit, where a woman explained she RSVP\u2019d \u201cNo\u201d to her sister’s wedding because it overlaps with her sleep time.  I\u2019ve felt an itching curiosity to learn more about her story and glued…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":164575,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29814],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-164572","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29814,"label":"Stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/Woman-Goes-Crazy-Over-Cant-Come-To-Your-Wedding-For-I-Have-To-Sleep-Excuse-1024x576.jpg",1024,576,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29814,"name":"Stories","slug":"stories","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29814,"taxonomy":"category","description":"","parent":29651,"count":242,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29814,"category_count":242,"category_description":"","cat_name":"Stories","category_nicename":"stories","category_parent":29651}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/164572","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=164572"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/164572\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":164578,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/164572\/revisions\/164578"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/164575"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=164572"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=164572"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=164572"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}