{"id":164585,"date":"2024-05-22T08:17:18","date_gmt":"2024-05-22T08:17:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=164585"},"modified":"2024-05-22T08:17:20","modified_gmt":"2024-05-22T08:17:20","slug":"el-post-de-un-hombre-en-reddit-desata-la-polemica","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/el-post-de-un-hombre-en-reddit-desata-la-polemica\/","title":{"rendered":"La publicaci\u00f3n de este hombre en Reddit desata la pol\u00e9mica. \u00bfSus expectativas son razonables o no?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Antes de empezar a vivir con mi novio, me asegur\u00e9 de dejar claras mis expectativas<\/strong> and confirm we were on the same page. I told him directly that if he thinks I am going to do absolutely everything around the house, this isn\u2019t going to work. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

He assured me that I shouldn\u2019t worry and that todo el trabajo se dividir\u00eda a partes iguales<\/strong> no matter what. Although this should be common sense in the 21st century, it still seems like some men just can\u2019t wrap their heads around it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s funny and sad at the same time that we are currently closer to having flying cars (believe it or not, they are being tested) than men doing as many house chores as women. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Todav\u00eda se espera que las mujeres lo hagan todo<\/h2>\n\n\n
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Cr\u00e9dito: Reddit<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

Un hombre en Reddit quer\u00eda saber si estaba siendo poco razonable por querer que su novia hiciera todas las tareas de la casa, incluso recogiendo su ropa y revisando su correo.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Su novia acaba de terminar la residencia m\u00e9dica y tiene dos meses libres hasta que empiece a trabajar a tiempo completo como m\u00e9dico. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Seg\u00fan \u00e9l, ha sido vivir su mejor vida <\/strong>and therefore should do more work. He says she\u2019s spending her morning studying (\u00bfes esta la mejor vida de la que habla?<\/em>) para su nuevo trabajo, ir al gimnasio y correr con su perro.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ella sigui\u00f3 trabajando como de costumbre y, al parecer, eso le sorprendi\u00f3, ya que lleg\u00f3 a Reddit<\/a> para ver si estaba exagerando. Escribi\u00f3:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cHowever she hasn\u2019t started contributing more to the household. I mean she still cooks and cleans every day but she still expects me to wash the dishes and she won\u2019t pick up my clothes after I have returned from work. The other day I left a bunch of my mail on the table and when I returned it was left unopened, I asked her why she didn\u2019t look through it and she told me she\u2019s not my secretary.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Esta parte indign\u00f3 a los usuarios de Reddit que dejaron m\u00e1s de mil comentarios airados<\/strong> y dieron sus honestas opiniones. Tan honestas, que Reddit bloque\u00f3 el post para evitar m\u00e1s comentarios debido al exceso de violaciones de las normas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Las finanzas se dividen pero las tareas no<\/h2>\n\n\n
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Cr\u00e9dito: Reddit<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

Muchos afirmaron que es actuando incre\u00edblemente infantil<\/strong> y como coment\u00f3 un usuario: <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cDeliberately misrepresenting the situation in order to make it seem as though she’s being dreadfully self-indulgent when in reality, she isn’t doing any less than she ever did, and is in fact doing more.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

At the beginning, he mentioned that they split rent and share all costs 50-50. All I\u2019m hearing is that sigue contribuyendo econ\u00f3micamente<\/strong> even if she\u2019s not making any money at the time. So if finances are split equally, why wouldn\u2019t the chores be as well? He also added:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cI have been hinting that she should be picking up more chores now that she\u2019s unemployed but she says that she\u2019s not my housekeeper, she does more than half of the chores and since my workload has not increased I should be able to do mine.\u201d <\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Muchos los usuarios aplaudieron a la novia<\/strong> por manejar la situaci\u00f3n diciendo que ya hab\u00eda pasado por un infierno durante la residencia m\u00e9dica. Tambi\u00e9n estuvieron de acuerdo en que deber\u00eda tomarse su merecido descanso antes de asumir grandes responsabilidades como m\u00e9dico.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

What seems to have hurt his ego is her comment that she didn\u2019t go to medical school just to be someone\u2019s live-in maid, like this isn\u2019t simply stating facts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Las mujeres dedican 49 minutos diarios a la limpieza<\/h2>\n\n\n
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Cr\u00e9dito: Reddit<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

Encuesta sobre el empleo del tiempo en Estados Unidos<\/a>, proporcion\u00f3 informaci\u00f3n sobre c\u00f3mo emplean su tiempo los estadounidenses. Revel\u00f3 que durante el a\u00f1o 2022 las mujeres dedicaron casi una hora de media de su tiempo a limpiar la casa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Los datos sobre salario medio por hora<\/a> hacen evidente que las mujeres realizan alrededor de $6K m\u00e1s de trabajo no remunerado <\/strong>que los hombres sobre una base anual.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This statistic just confirms what we as women already know since we are experiencing it firsthand. So ladies, don\u2019t let a man tell you that you should do all the work. If he doesn\u2019t want to contribute, que contrate a un ama de llaves<\/strong>. I know I wouldn\u2019t mind!<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Before I first started living with my boyfriend, I made sure to set my expectations clear and confirm we were on the same page. I told him directly that if he thinks I am going to do absolutely everything around the house, this isn\u2019t going to work.  He assured me that I shouldn\u2019t worry and…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":164587,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29814],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-164585","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29814,"label":"Stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/This-Mans-Reddit-Post-Sparks-Controversy-Are-His-Expectations-Reasonable-Or-Not-1024x576.jpg",1024,576,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29814,"name":"Stories","slug":"stories","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29814,"taxonomy":"category","description":"","parent":29651,"count":242,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29814,"category_count":242,"category_description":"","cat_name":"Stories","category_nicename":"stories","category_parent":29651}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/164585","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=164585"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/164585\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":164590,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/164585\/revisions\/164590"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/164587"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=164585"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=164585"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=164585"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}