{"id":164648,"date":"2024-05-22T12:25:54","date_gmt":"2024-05-22T12:25:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=164648"},"modified":"2024-07-08T09:09:36","modified_gmt":"2024-07-08T09:09:36","slug":"el-hermano-del-novio-se-niega-a-ser-su-padrino","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/el-hermano-del-novio-se-niega-a-ser-su-padrino\/","title":{"rendered":"El hermano del novio renuncia a ser padrino despu\u00e9s de que la novia maltratara sin piedad a su mujer"},"content":{"rendered":"

A long time ago I came across an outrageous testimony of a man who withdrew the decision to be the best man at his brother\u2019s wedding, several days before the event. He couldn\u2019t assess if his reaction was justified or whether he had betrayed his sibling.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00fa tambi\u00e9n debes estar conmocionado y pensar \u00bfC\u00f3mo pudo hacerle esto a su hermano?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pero espera a o\u00edr el resto de la historia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00bfUna ni\u00f1era para la esposa?<\/h2>\n\n\n
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Fuente: Reddit<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n

Un hombre comparti\u00f3 su historia en el canal Reddit AITA<\/a> (the perfect place to get unbiased opinions if you’re struggling to decide if your actions are justified or not). He deleted the post in the meantime but comments remained, so it\u2019s easy to piece the puzzle together and get the detalles de la historia<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

As\u00ed que al principio hab\u00eda aceptado ser el padrino de su hermano. Los novios invitaron a invitados a partir de los 12 a\u00f1os. Su la lista de invitados tambi\u00e9n inclu\u00eda a personas con ni\u00f1os peque\u00f1os<\/strong> so they\u2019ve arranged an additional room for children, and the babysitter as well.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Two days before the wedding, during the rehearsal dinner, the man learned his brother and SIL (sister-in-law) assumed his wife should stay in the kids’ venue together with a babysitter. That way he would be able to relax and enjoy the wedding without the need to \u201cfeed her or anything\u201d<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Explic\u00f3 adem\u00e1s que su mujer ten\u00eda una enfermedad<\/strong> que la hac\u00eda lenta para responder o entender lo que dec\u00edan los dem\u00e1s. A veces necesitaba ayuda para comer, as\u00ed que \u00e9l le cortaba la comida en trozos peque\u00f1os. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

All this did not make her unsuitable to sit at an adult’s table. As he explained:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cThis doesn’t mean she’s nothing and she’s a smart, capable woman.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Una presi\u00f3n familiar<\/h2>\n\n\n
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Fuente: Reddit<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n

El hombre se sorprendi\u00f3 al enterarse de que su hermano y su cu\u00f1ada hab\u00edan decidido maltratar a su esposa discapacitada de una manera tan irrespetuosa.<\/strong> Seguro que se enfad\u00f3 mucho y se ech\u00f3 atr\u00e1s como padrino.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

En la familia se puso furiosa<\/strong> y empez\u00f3 a enviar mensajes de texto, tratando de hacerle cambiar de opini\u00f3n. Los comentarios a continuaci\u00f3n mostraban c\u00f3mo la mayor\u00eda de los lectores apoyaron su decisi\u00f3n<\/strong> y conden\u00f3 el comportamiento de sus padres.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cI’d guess OPs parents are trying to avoid the embarrassment for THEM of explaining why the best man isn’t there. Sounds to me like pretty typical religious raised previous generation. Avoid the uncomfortable situation at all costs.\u201c<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

A la gente le repugnaba el capacitismo<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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La gente en los comentarios compart\u00eda su opini\u00f3n y admit\u00eda que har\u00edan y esperar\u00edan lo mismo de sus parejas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cI would absolutely disown any relative that tried to treat me like OPs family did his wife. If my spouse didn’t stick up for me, I would disown them too. OP did right by his wife. OPs family is awful.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Algunos se\u00f1alaban que su hermano y SIL estaban infantilizando a su mujer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201c<\/strong>This is one of the most insensitive things I\u2019ve ever read on here, by far. They absolutely did try to treat your wife like a literal child because of her disability, regardless of the reason. Just because it\u2019s \u201cher day\u201d doesn\u2019t give them the right to insult you and your wife like that.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Todos estuvieron de acuerdo en que era un comportamiento inaceptable, y el hombre hizo bien en retirar su decisi\u00f3n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cI would be absolutely appalled and heartbroken if someone looked at my spouse like that. This is beyond disgusting behavior. She has a delay. She is NOT a child and for them to even <\/strong>pista<\/em><\/strong> that she may be better suited for the children\u2019s venue so you can have a \u201cbetter time\u201d makes my blood boil for you.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

\u00bfCu\u00e1l es su opini\u00f3n al respecto? historia<\/a>? What would you do if you were in this man\u2019s shoes?<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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