{"id":16467,"date":"2020-09-15T11:49:43","date_gmt":"2020-09-15T11:49:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=16467"},"modified":"2022-02-24T00:49:16","modified_gmt":"2022-02-24T00:49:16","slug":"o-me-quieres-o-no-me-quieres-esto-casi-es-una-tortura","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/o-me-quieres-o-no-me-quieres-esto-casi-es-una-tortura\/","title":{"rendered":"O me quieres o no me quieres, este \"casi\" es una tortura"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Un minuto me acercas y al siguiente me alejas. \u00bfSabes c\u00f3mo me hace sentir? \u00bfTe das cuenta de que est\u00e1s jugando con mi mente y mi coraz\u00f3n?<\/p>\n<p>Ans\u00edo consistencia. Odio esto de ir y venir. Pasamos tiempo juntos y todo va genial.<\/p>\n<p>You are into me I am into you. You are kind, loving and the sweetest man alive while we are together and when we are apart, you don&#8217;t even bother to check up on me.<\/p>\n<p>Y tan pronto como veas que me alejo, t\u00fa... <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/no-persigas-a-menos-que-estes-listo-para-atrapar\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">pers\u00edgueme<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Odio eso. Odio los juegos. Odio que s\u00f3lo me desees cuando tienes miedo de perderme. Cuando estoy distante.<\/p>\n<p>I need more than words and empty promises. I need more than, \u201cLet things be. \u201c, \u201cEnjoy the moment don&#8217;t stress about tomorrow \u201c, \u201cAren\u2019t you happy with the way things are now?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>No, ahora no soy feliz. Necesito que me digas d\u00f3nde estamos. Ya he o\u00eddo todas las excusas y estoy cansado de o\u00edrlas.<\/p>\n<p>If you care for me as much as you say you do, I don&#8217;t see anything stopping you but <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/senales-de-que-tiene-miedo-de-lo-mucho-que-le-gustas\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">tu propio miedo<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-121849\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/young-woman-outdoors-thinking.jpg\" alt=\"mujer joven al aire libre pensando\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/young-woman-outdoors-thinking.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/young-woman-outdoors-thinking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/young-woman-outdoors-thinking-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/young-woman-outdoors-thinking-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/young-woman-outdoors-thinking-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/young-woman-outdoors-thinking-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/young-woman-outdoors-thinking-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/young-woman-outdoors-thinking-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You are full of \u2018what ifs\u2019. And so am I. I am scared too.<\/p>\n<p><em>\u00bfY si me haces da\u00f1o? \u00bfY si todo sale mal? \u00bfY si encuentras a otra persona? \u00bfY si me rompes el coraz\u00f3n como nunca nadie lo hizo?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>You know what? I am tired of what-ifs too. We can\u2019t know what the future will bring. What if we are great together? <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>\u00bfY si tenemos algo real y lo perdemos por culpa de los miedos? Pero estoy dispuesto a arriesgarme. Estoy dispuesto a dejar de lado mis miedos. \u00bfEst\u00e1s dispuesto a hacer lo mismo?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Espero que s\u00ed. Porque<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/es-hora-de-que-te-pongas-las-pilas-porque-ella-no-te-va-a-esperar-mucho-mas\/\"> I won\u2019t wait much longer<\/a>. I think I\u2019ve waited for more than enough.<\/p>\n<p>I feel like I\u2019ve been here already with somebody else and I don\u2019t want to repeat the same scenario\u2014he one that involves a half-assed man, half-assed promises, and half-assed love.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t want to go through that again. It\u2019s not that I don\u2019t care for you. I really do.<\/p>\n<p>Like I never cared for anyone before but you have to realize that I can\u2019t <a href=\"https:\/\/www.huffingtonpost.com\/2014\/02\/17\/settling-relationship_n_4777120.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">conformarse con menos<\/a> de lo que merezco.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-121851\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-sitting-on-sofa-at-home-deep-in-thoughts.jpg\" alt=\"mujer sentada en el sof\u00e1 de su casa sumida en sus pensamientos\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-sitting-on-sofa-at-home-deep-in-thoughts.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-sitting-on-sofa-at-home-deep-in-thoughts-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-sitting-on-sofa-at-home-deep-in-thoughts-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-sitting-on-sofa-at-home-deep-in-thoughts-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-sitting-on-sofa-at-home-deep-in-thoughts-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-sitting-on-sofa-at-home-deep-in-thoughts-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-sitting-on-sofa-at-home-deep-in-thoughts-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-sitting-on-sofa-at-home-deep-in-thoughts-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>I learned my lessons in the past. I don\u2019t want to look back and see you as one more lesson. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Espero que seas m\u00e1s. S\u00e9 que puedes ser m\u00e1s. S\u00e9 que podemos ser incre\u00edbles juntos. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Somehow, I sense you feel it too\u2014you just haven\u2019t admitted it to yourself. I hope you will before it\u2019s too late. Before I give up on us.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>S\u00f3lo necesito que me tomes en tus brazos y me digas que est\u00e1s totalmente dentro. Entonces podremos ir poco a poco. Un paso a la vez.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00f3lo necesito saber que eres m\u00eda. Que puedes llamarme con orgullo tu novia o presentarme a tus amigos.<\/p>\n<p>Que est\u00e1s dispuesto a apostar y poner todo lo que tienes en nosotros.<\/p>\n<p><strong>As\u00ed que decide. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/si-no-puedes-amarme-bien-hazte-a-un-lado-para-que-otro-pueda\/\">Either you want me or you don\u2019t<\/a>. I don\u2019t want to be stuck in the middle with you anymore. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Odio esta situaci\u00f3n. Parece una tortura. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>It\u2019s not making me happy or complete. I hate the \u201calmost\u201d love you are giving me. I hope you will realize that I deserve more than almost. We are better than \u201calmost\u201d.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-121838\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/You-Either-Want-Me-Or-You-Dont-This-Almost-Is-Torture-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"O me quieres o no me quieres, este &quot;casi&quot; es una tortura\" width=\"467\" height=\"700\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/You-Either-Want-Me-Or-You-Dont-This-Almost-Is-Torture-pinterest.jpg 467w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/You-Either-Want-Me-Or-You-Dont-This-Almost-Is-Torture-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/You-Either-Want-Me-Or-You-Dont-This-Almost-Is-Torture-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 467px) 100vw, 467px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You are pulling me close one minute and you are pushing me away the next one. Do you know how that makes me feel? Do you realize you are messing with my mind and my heart? I crave consistency. I hate this back and forth thing you do. We spend time together and everything is&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":121850,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16467","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/You-Either-Want-Me-Or-You-Dont-This-Almost-Is-Torture-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16467","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16467"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16467\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/121850"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16467"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16467"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16467"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}