{"id":164712,"date":"2024-05-23T12:41:17","date_gmt":"2024-05-23T12:41:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=164712"},"modified":"2024-07-08T09:10:32","modified_gmt":"2024-07-08T09:10:32","slug":"la-mejor-manera-de-ligar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/la-mejor-manera-de-ligar\/","title":{"rendered":"La ciencia ha descubierto la forma m\u00e1s eficaz de ligar y no es lo que piensas"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A lot of people think that good looks are all it takes to have someone crazy about you. If you are one of them, I bet you\u2019ll change your mind until the end of this article!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Recuerdo la primera vez que estuve loca por alguien. Me enamor\u00e9 perdidamente de un tipo. Probablemente pienses que era popular y ten\u00eda ese encanto y apariencia de Brad Pitt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Well, he was actually the complete opposite, a chubby guy with curly hair and glasses, a huge computer geek. That\u2019s how everyone knew him. How did I fall in love with him? That\u2019s what everyone wondered.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The answer is pretty simple \u2013 he was funny as hell! The type of funny that makes you cry happy tears and leaves you with a stomachache.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Siempre supo hacerme sonre\u00edr, incluso en mis peores momentos de tristeza. Eso era m\u00e1s que suficiente para m\u00ed<strong>...tener a alguien con quien poder re\u00edrme de todas mis preocupaciones.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Turns out, science backs this up! To find out the science behind humor, the best way to use it and if that\u2019s a universal tactic that works on everyone, continue reading! I have the answers!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Arrasa con tu humor<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/man-and-woman-laughing.jpg\" alt=\"hombre y mujer riendo\" class=\"wp-image-164715\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/man-and-woman-laughing.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/man-and-woman-laughing-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/man-and-woman-laughing-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/man-and-woman-laughing-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/man-and-woman-laughing-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/man-and-woman-laughing-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/man-and-woman-laughing-1080x716.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/man-and-woman-laughing-1200x795.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Este <a href=\"https:\/\/journals.sagepub.com\/doi\/full\/10.1177\/14747049221088011\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">estudiar<\/a> es la prueba de que <strong>el humor es el arma secreta para ligar<\/strong>. No wonder I\u2019ve fallen for the guy! Looks like physical appearance is not that important as long as they can make you laugh! The main author of the study explains:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cPeople think that humor, or being able to make another person laugh, is most effective for men who are looking for a long-term relationship. It\u2019s least effective for women who are looking for a one-night stand. But laughing or giggling at the other person&#8217;s jokes is an effective flirtation tactic for both sexes.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Este hallazgo confirma que tener sentido del humor es una ventaja para ambos sexos, especialmente cuando buscan relaciones duraderas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Lo que tambi\u00e9n descubrieron es que <strong>algunos<\/strong> <strong>a los hombres les encantan las mujeres que se r\u00eden de sus chistes<\/strong> mientras que las mujeres del otro extremo prefieren a los chicos que saben hacerlas re\u00edr. Sorprendente, \u00bfverdad?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Who knew my laughing could get me a man? So remember ladies, if you don\u2019t have anything funny to say, at least giggle at his jokes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It also appears that it doesn\u2019t matter if you are in your 20s or 50s, Catholic or Christian, looking for a fling or to settle down \u2013 <strong>el humor funciona con todo el mundo<\/strong>\u00a1! Dijeron los investigadores:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cIndividual differences in age, religiosity, extroversion, personal attractiveness and preferences for short-term sexual relationships had little or no effect on how effective respondents considered the various flirting tactics to be.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Si a\u00fan no est\u00e1s convencido de que deber\u00edas trabajar tus chistes para la pr\u00f3xima cita, la ciencia que hay detr\u00e1s de la risa te har\u00e1 plantearte definitivamente la comedia stand-up como profesi\u00f3n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">So, what\u2019s the magic behind laughing?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Aunque nuestro cerebro y nuestro cuerpo puedan parecer complicados, el simple acto de re\u00edr puede marcar una gran diferencia. Cuando te r\u00edes, tu cuerpo empieza a producir <strong>c\u00f3ctel de hormonas del bienestar<\/strong> como la oxitocina, la serotonina y la dopamina, que inundan tu torrente sangu\u00edneo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">En <strong>causan felicidad y te dan la sensaci\u00f3n de cercan\u00eda<\/strong> a la persona responsable de causar este caos (positivo) en tu cuerpo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">These hormones are basically guilty of making that guy look more attractive than he actually is. It\u2019s like all of a sudden, he transforms from Shrek to Prince Charming!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Someone tells a joke, you think it\u2019s funny and laugh, and the next thing you know, baby names and wedding dresses keep popping up in your head. Pretty crazy, right?&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Encontrar a alguien atractivo porque es gracioso tambi\u00e9n tiene algo que ver con el hecho de que <strong>usted<\/strong> <strong>can\u2019t fake being humorous<\/strong>. Ser verdaderamente ingenioso requiere inteligencia y creatividad, que son las cosas que nos atraen de los dem\u00e1s.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">S\u00e9 inteligente y cuidadoso con las bromas<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/man-and-woman-flirting.jpg\" alt=\"hombre y mujer flirteando\" class=\"wp-image-164718\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/man-and-woman-flirting.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/man-and-woman-flirting-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/man-and-woman-flirting-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/man-and-woman-flirting-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/man-and-woman-flirting-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/man-and-woman-flirting-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/man-and-woman-flirting-1080x716.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/man-and-woman-flirting-1200x795.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Lo importante a la hora de utilizar el humor como estrategia para ligar es usarlo correctamente. Puede <strong>hacer que tu cita se sienta muy bien o profundamente ofendida<\/strong>. This is why you need to consider what you\u2019re joking about and in which way.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It\u2019s easier to joke when you know a person well, what he or she finds funny and where is <strong>the border you don\u2019t want to cross<\/strong>. For example, you wouldn\u2019t want to joke about something the person is sensitive about or has some insecurities.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A couple of years ago I ran into a charming guy at my friend\u2019s party. He was very extroverted and easy to like. It all went great until he poked fun at one overweight girl.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Me cabreaba y me devolv\u00eda a aquellos horribles momentos en los que ten\u00eda el mismo aspecto y todo el mundo se burlaba de m\u00ed. Todav\u00eda recuerdo que <strong>sensaci\u00f3n bien conocida en mi est\u00f3mago.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>En<\/strong> <strong>la chispa desapareci\u00f3 inmediatamente<\/strong> y me sent\u00ed fatal el resto de la noche.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Bromear a tu costa puede ser un buen comienzo<\/strong> when you meet someone for the first time. It not only shows them you\u2019re funny but also confident and not insecure about what you are joking about.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">As\u00ed que recuerda, <strong>el humor es una poderosa herramienta para ligar<\/strong> <strong>pero s\u00f3lo cuando se utiliza correctamente.<\/strong> Primero tantea el terreno y luego hazles re\u00edr hasta que se orinen o ens\u00e9\u00f1ales el anillo de compromiso.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A lot of people think that good looks are all it takes to have someone crazy about you. If you are one of them, I bet you\u2019ll change your mind until the end of this article! I remember the first time I was crazy about someone. Oh, I fell hard for this guy. 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