{"id":164714,"date":"2024-05-23T13:51:02","date_gmt":"2024-05-23T13:51:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=164714"},"modified":"2024-05-23T13:51:02","modified_gmt":"2024-05-23T13:51:02","slug":"senales-que-indican-si-tienes-pareja","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/senales-que-indican-si-tienes-pareja\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00bfNo est\u00e1s seguro de si tu relaci\u00f3n se est\u00e1 asentando? Presta atenci\u00f3n a estas se\u00f1ales"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u00bfAlguna vez has escuchado a tu amiga hablar de su novio o marido y has pensado: <em>\u201cOh God, she could do much better than that.\u201d<\/em> S\u00ed, <strong>no est\u00e1s solo<\/strong>. Nueve de cada diez veces es probable que tuvieras raz\u00f3n porque te diste cuenta de patrones que hab\u00edan <em>bandera roja<\/em> escrito por todas partes.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mi madre siempre sol\u00eda decir:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>\u201cNever settle for a man because you feel sorry for him or you\u2019re scared of being alone.\u201d<\/em> D\u00e9jame decirte que esa mujer ten\u00eda toda la raz\u00f3n. Lo juro, \u00a1alguien deber\u00eda darle un programa de entrevistas!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Por supuesto, nadie quiere conformarse, pero a menudo nos perdemos en <strong>el laberinto de las experiencias t\u00f3xicas<\/strong>. This sometimes happens because we don\u2019t even notice that right away. It looks like the famous phrase that <em>el amor nos ciega<\/em> \u00a1es verdad despu\u00e9s de todo!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Si estas se\u00f1ales de alarma te suenan, \u00a1corre!<\/h2>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/man-and-woman-holding-phones-and-looking-at-each-other.jpg\" alt=\"hombre y mujer sosteniendo tel\u00e9fonos y mir\u00e1ndose el uno al otro\" class=\"wp-image-164750\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/man-and-woman-holding-phones-and-looking-at-each-other.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/man-and-woman-holding-phones-and-looking-at-each-other-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/man-and-woman-holding-phones-and-looking-at-each-other-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/man-and-woman-holding-phones-and-looking-at-each-other-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/man-and-woman-holding-phones-and-looking-at-each-other-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/man-and-woman-holding-phones-and-looking-at-each-other-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/man-and-woman-holding-phones-and-looking-at-each-other-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/man-and-woman-holding-phones-and-looking-at-each-other-1200x801.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>Gracias a Dios por TikTok porque <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@ladylikelifeshop\/video\/7359344007589383470\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">@ladylikelifeshop<\/a> shared her view on what the most common red flags are, that can actually help you realize whether you\u2019re settling or not!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You know those couples who caption their pictures: \u201cWe had our ups and downs, it wasn\u2019t always easy\u2026\u201d Yeah, think twice before saying they are <em>\u201ccouple goals\u201d<\/em> y una inspiraci\u00f3n.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Lo explica @ladylikelifeshop:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>\u201cLife is hard and life can happen to your relationship. Your relationship should not be hard.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>I wish I realized this earlier! Even if we had a hard period with someone, it\u2019s important to know the reasons behind it.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tal vez experimentamos algunos <strong>dificultades fuera de nuestra relaci\u00f3n<\/strong>como la p\u00e9rdida de un ser querido, una enfermedad o cualquier otra cosa que haya sucedido de forma inesperada.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Things we don\u2019t have control over can occur sometimes, and that is fine.<\/strong> The problem is when you\u2019re miserable <em>porque<\/em> of your relationship! I ain\u2019t judging, we\u2019ve all been there.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The woman continues to explain how she doesn\u2019t agree with people saying that the first year of marriage is the hardest because it shouldn\u2019t be. The first thing I thought when she said that was \u2013 say it louder for the people in the back!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Hay formas de evitarlo, como <strong>asegurarse de conocer realmente a la persona<\/strong> con la que pasar\u00e1s el resto de tu vida. Esto deber\u00eda ser l\u00f3gico, \u00bfverdad?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>En otro <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@ladylikelifeshop\/video\/7358611873559825706\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">TikTok<\/a>, she listed some of the red flags in a relationship that aren\u2019t talked about enough. To be honest, when I watch videos like this one, I sometimes feel like she\u2019s describing my past relationships (maybe we should make a support group?).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-tiktok wp-block-embed-tiktok\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<blockquote class=\"tiktok-embed\" cite=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@julie_anna_j\/video\/7358611873559825706\" data-video-id=\"7358611873559825706\" data-embed-from=\"oembed\" style=\"max-width:605px; min-width:325px;\"> <section> <a target=\"_blank\" title=\"@julie_anna_j\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@julie_anna_j?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">@julie_anna_j<\/a> <p><a title=\"coser\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/stitch?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">1TP5Puntada<\/a> with @eringibney let\u2019s talk about it! Part gossip, part advice \ud83e\udd2a<\/p> <a target=\"_blank\" title=\"\u266c original sound - julie_anna_j\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/music\/original-sound-7358612010721987374?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">\u266c original sound &#8211; julie_anna_j<\/a> <\/section> <\/blockquote> <script async src=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/embed.js\"><\/script>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Por desgracia, fue v\u00edctima de lo mismo de lo que nos advierte. Como dir\u00eda Pitbull: <em>\u201cBelieve me, been there, done that.\u201d<\/em> Admiti\u00f3 que tambi\u00e9n <strong>didn\u2019t realize she was settling in her previous long-term relationship until they broke up.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s like we all magically see all the <strong>se\u00f1ales de advertencia<\/strong> despu\u00e9s de salir de la relaci\u00f3n. Explic\u00f3 la primera se\u00f1al:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>\u201cWhen you are compatible with someone, you will barely ever fight, and when you disagree over something it\u2019s a totally different type of disagreement because there is no resentment anywhere.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>Adem\u00e1s de esto, @ladylikelifeshop menciona que <strong>it\u2019s never right if someone wants to change you<\/strong>. No para que seas mejor persona, sino para que literalmente cambies tu personalidad, tu forma de vestir, etc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Another thing that\u2019s very important is to <strong>make sure you\u2019re on the same page <\/strong>when it comes to your plans. It\u2019s something you should discuss at the beginning of your relationship. As she said:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>\u201cYou have to be able to live in a way that is compatible with your goals, both of you, without having to nag him every single day, or it will not work.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>I couldn\u2019t agree more with her tips! Maybe she can join my mom on a talk show, or maybe the two of them can lead our support group?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Una relaci\u00f3n sana trae paz, no caos<\/h2>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/couple-in-love.jpg\" alt=\"pareja enamorada\" class=\"wp-image-164751\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/couple-in-love.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/couple-in-love-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/couple-in-love-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/couple-in-love-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/couple-in-love-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/couple-in-love-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/couple-in-love-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/couple-in-love-1200x801.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>I\u2019ve never been more thankful for social media and TikToker <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@oldsoulentries\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">@oldsoulentries<\/a> \u00a1es parte de la raz\u00f3n! A\u00f1adi\u00f3 una perspectiva adicional basada en su propia experiencia personal.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kristen tuvo la oportunidad de ver ejemplos de buenas y malas relaciones y, por tanto, fue muy estricta (como debe ser) a la hora de encontrar a su pareja perfecta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Quer\u00eda estar segura <strong>she didn\u2019t lower her standards<\/strong> s\u00f3lo por el hecho de estar en una relaci\u00f3n. \u00a1Creo que alguien deber\u00eda darle ya un trofeo a esta mujer!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>En su <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@oldsoulentries\/video\/7358823483192724778?embed_source=%3Bnull%3Bembed_name&amp;refer=embed&amp;referer_url=www.dailydot.com%2Fnews%2Fhow-to-tell-if-youre-settling%2F&amp;referer_video_id=7358823483192724778\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">v\u00eddeo<\/a>, Kristen added that she didn\u2019t understand couples who were saying that \u201cmoving in stage\u201d is not all colors and rainbows because she couldn\u2019t relate. Apparently, God has its favorites! As she said:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>\u201cIf you are with the right person I genuinely believe it\u2019s like having a sleepover with your best friend every single day. We just laugh, we have fun together, we accomplish and tackle things together. If you are questioning things and if you\u2019re not having fun living with this person\u2026that\u2019s probably a big sign that you might be settling.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-tiktok wp-block-embed-tiktok\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<blockquote class=\"tiktok-embed\" cite=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@oldsoulentries\/video\/7358823483192724778\" data-video-id=\"7358823483192724778\" data-embed-from=\"oembed\" style=\"max-width:605px; min-width:325px;\"> <section> <a target=\"_blank\" title=\"@oldsoulentries\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@oldsoulentries?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">@oldsoulentries<\/a> <p>What \u201cdon\u2019t settle\u201d actually means!! @Lady Like Life Store such a great explanation <a title=\"mentalidad\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/mindset?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">#mindset<\/a> <a title=\"gratitudemindset\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/gratitudemindset?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">1TP5Gratitud<\/a> <a title=\"relaci\u00f3nconsejo\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/relationshipadvice?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">1TP5Relaci\u00f3nconsejo<\/a> <a title=\"relaciones\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/relationships?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">1TP5Relaciones<\/a> <\/p> <a target=\"_blank\" title=\"\u266c sonido original - Kristen \ud83c\udf1e\ud83c\udf3f\ud83c\udf0e\ud83c\udf3b\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/music\/original-sound-7358823768191437610?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">\u266c original sound &#8211; Kristen \ud83c\udf1e\ud83c\udf3f\ud83c\udf0e\ud83c\udf3b<\/a> <\/section> <\/blockquote> <script async src=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/embed.js\"><\/script>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Kristen contin\u00faa explicando que el <strong>el secreto de una relaci\u00f3n o matrimonio duradero y saludable<\/strong> es asegurarte de que tu otra mitad sabe<strong> <\/strong>cu\u00e1nto los aprecias. Ella dijo:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>\u201cI think that gratitude and expressing gratitude to the other person every single day is like the biggest connection point you can have. It never gets old, you can never do too much!\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>Sus seguidores estuvieron de acuerdo con ella y compartieron tambi\u00e9n sus experiencias (algunos dir\u00edan traumas). Un usuario escribi\u00f3 algo que deber\u00edamos poner en los libros:&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>\u201cYour partnership should be your refuge and bring you peace! If it doesn\u2019t, they\u2019re not the right one.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>A fin de cuentas, <strong>respetarse a s\u00ed mismo<\/strong> <strong>tambi\u00e9n es la ra\u00edz de una buena asociaci\u00f3n.<\/strong> Si toleras constantemente comportamientos t\u00f3xicos s\u00f3lo para poder tener esa cita el s\u00e1bado, \u00a1entonces necesitas revisarte!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Cambi\u00e1ndonos a nosotros mismos a mejor, tambi\u00e9n podemos cambiar nuestras vidas. Los dem\u00e1s pueden amarnos plenamente, s\u00f3lo <strong>cuando nos amamos de verdad a nosotros mismos.<\/strong> Ese es el ingrediente secreto para un amor sano.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Have you ever listened to your friend talk about her boyfriend or husband and thought: \u201cOh God, she could do much better than that.\u201d Yeah, you are not alone. Nine times out of ten you were probably right because you noticed patterns that had red flag written all over it.&nbsp; My mom always used to&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":164749,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29814],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-164714","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29814,"label":"Stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/Not-Sure-If-You-Are-Settling-In-Your-Relationship-Watch-Out-For-These-Signs-1024x576.jpg",1024,576,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29814,"name":"Stories","slug":"stories","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29814,"taxonomy":"category","description":"","parent":29651,"count":242,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29814,"category_count":242,"category_description":"","cat_name":"Stories","category_nicename":"stories","category_parent":29651}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/164714","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=164714"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/164714\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":164752,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/164714\/revisions\/164752"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/164749"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=164714"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=164714"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=164714"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}