\u2013 \u201cYou mean at my dead-end job. Same old hustle. Had 0 intellectual problems.\u201d<\/em> La iron\u00eda atravesaba el aire.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2013 \u201cAre you being sarcastic or what?\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2013 \u201cNo, Chris, I\u2019m dead serious.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2013 \u201c\u2026\u201d <\/em>Le dirijo una larga mirada con un interrogante flotante.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2013 \u201cYou obviously have no idea about the real-life problems.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2013 \u201cWhat do you mean by that?!\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2013 \u201cLittle miss project manager has so many tasks to complete, oh poor you.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n I would become quiet, unsure of what to say next. I\u2019ve felt uncomfortable but then I would think he might feel insecure as I get more paid and my job is kind of more respectful. He was just a campesino<\/em>. Yo intentaba animarle cambiando de tema pero su humor segu\u00eda igual.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Chica, cr\u00e9eme, \u00a1quieres saltarte este tipo de relaci\u00f3n en tu vida!<\/strong> It\u2019ll give you nothing but the ugly feeling in your stomach, get on your nerves, and make you feel confused for no reason at all.<\/p>\n\n\n\n As\u00ed que aseg\u00farate de responder a estas preguntas con sinceridad. Si responde s\u00ed<\/em><\/strong> too many times, then immediately start creating an escape plan \u2013 you\u2019ve been dating a toxic insecurity. So let’s start with the first sign: is he\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cOh don\u2019t mention it, I was just very lucky.\u201d<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n Se siente inc\u00f3modo cuando le haces un cumplido. Los cumplidos a veces provocan ansiedad en las personas inseguras. Cualquier intento de elogiarlo se convertir\u00e1 en una broma.<\/strong> You won\u2019t get a \u201cthank you\u201d, either.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Also, he is hard on compliments towards others\u2019 accomplishments. Envious, and unconfident, he secretly always compares himself to others.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Sin embargo, presta atenci\u00f3n, puede que no sea consciente de sus cualidades<\/strong>no necesariamente inseguro.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cI\u2019ve never seen someone peeling the orange in that way, do it like this, it\u2019s easier.\u201d<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n His expectations are high and he\u2019s sometimes unable to appreciate himself. Nor you. He wants you to be perfect, too. He Rara vez hace cumplidos y, en cambio, destaca los defectos o las carencias.<\/strong> A veces incluso criticar\u00e1 tu aspecto.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Esta persona no puede alegrarse por sus victorias.<\/strong> No te apoyar\u00e1 cuando intentes tener \u00e9xito en algo o mejorar de alguna manera. Sus logros son ignorados o minimizados.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Los hombres inseguros est\u00e1n frustrados y enfadados as\u00ed que menospreciarte les da una sensaci\u00f3n de poder<\/strong>. Tambi\u00e9n puedes esperar que arroje sombra sobre tus habilidades.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cReal men don\u2019t cry.\u201d<\/em><\/strong> <\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n Showing emotions feels unpleasant, as he believes he\u2019d appear weak if he showed his sensitive side, or god forbid cried. He\u2019s also afraid of not being accepted for who he is.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Mature, confident men are not ashamed of showing their emotions as they\u2019re in touch with their vulnerable side.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cIt\u2019s not my fault you are not a good listener. And you seem bored when I talk.\u201d<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n Al ser tan inseguro es incapaz de mantener una relaci\u00f3n sana. Adem\u00e1s, no se da cuenta de todos los efectos secundarios que su inseguridad transmite a los dos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n My ex was blind to notice the impact his self-doubt had on our relationship. If he\u2019d thought about resolving his self-confidence issues maybe today he wouldn’t be my ex.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cYou don\u2019t like my choices, too bad I\u2019m not good enough for you. \u201c<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n Other people\u2019s validation is his food. It fills an internal emptiness he feels. On the other hand, a la menor insinuaci\u00f3n de cr\u00edtica, se pone en modo defensa.<\/strong> It\u2019s taken as a personal attack and crushes his ego.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Intenta convencerle de que trabaje su autoimagen y ay\u00fadale a aceptarse y quererse a s\u00ed mismo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cIf it wasn\u2019t for the stupid traffic jam, I wouldn\u2019t be late for a meeting. Yeah, I left on time, what do you mean?\u201d<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n El individuo insano es incapaz de manejar las emociones relacionadas con el fracaso y el \u00e9xito.<\/strong> Cada error le provoca ansiedad y se siente atacado. As\u00ed que pasa la culpa a un objeto o a una persona.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Incluso when succeeding he can\u2019t simply enjoy it.<\/strong> It feels like he’s losing ground, he thinks he did not deserve success, and he might even struggle with imposter syndrome.<\/p>\n\n\n\n En lugar de intentar aceptar las emociones, opta por cerrarse.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cHe was so blatantly flirting with you! Gay? He\u2019s just pretending so he can come closer to you.\u201d<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n He gets very upset when you talk to other men, explaining how it\u2019s them he doesn\u2019t trust. Siempre cree que todos los hombres coquetean contigo.<\/strong> and usually gets mad when you\u2019re off to any place where there are men. Like the gym, for example.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Las charlas con tus amigos varones se convertir\u00e1n en una amenaza a sus ojos. Har\u00e1 comentarios sobre tu atuendo, sobre todo si sueles llevar ropa ajustada. Tiene la paranoia de que todos los hombres se fijen en ti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cYou must be joking, I only had a couple of drinks!\u201d<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n Cada vez que sal\u00edamos, mi ex se pon\u00eda muy achispado.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Cuando es incapaz de aceptar qui\u00e9n es, busca formas de escapar de la realidad.<\/strong> He\u2019ll create a better version of himself with alcohol, psychoactive substances, gambling, or some other addiction.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Any sign of addiction \u2013 woman, be ready to run.<\/strong> Trust me, you don\u2019t need an addict in your life!<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cSorry, I\u2019m not in the mood today. I just need some alone time.\u201d<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n Every now and then, he goes into a hermit mode and you\u2019re not able to reach him. The lack of confidence makes him scared to go out and face other people.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Nunca le gusta hablar de sus estados de \u00e1nimo bajos, y en el momento en que intentes abordar un tema ser\u00e1 como abrir la puerta del infierno<\/strong>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Si intentas hablar, puede que te inunde con palabras duras. Su \u00fanico objetivo ser\u00e1 hacerte da\u00f1o y eludir\u00e1 cualquier responsabilidad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n As\u00ed que, querida, \u00a1aseg\u00farate de aprender de mis errores!<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Tard\u00e9 varios meses en darme cuenta de que yo no era el problema. Ser demasiado solidario y lleno de comprensi\u00f3n me escandalizar\u00eda con reacciones cargadas de comentarios venenosos.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Despu\u00e9s de una de tantas peleas, \u00a1me di por vencida y segu\u00ed adelante! Al instante me sent\u00ed m\u00e1s ligera y por no decir m\u00e1s feliz y aliviada.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Long time ago I dated a man, and boy did he know how to make me feel awful countless times. I would end up wondering what I did or said to make him upset. 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2. \u00bfPerfeccionista competitivo, propenso a criticar?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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3. \u00bfEmocionalmente inmaduro?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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4. \u00bfDemasiado inseguro para notar sus efectos secundarios?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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5. \u00bfNecesita elogios y odia que le critiquen?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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6. \u00bfMiedo tanto al fracaso como al \u00e9xito?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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7. \u00bfMuchos celos? <\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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8. \u00bfEncuentra un lugar seguro en la adicci\u00f3n?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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9. \u00bfPropenso a la alienaci\u00f3n?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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