{"id":164753,"date":"2024-05-24T09:36:32","date_gmt":"2024-05-24T09:36:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=164753"},"modified":"2024-05-24T09:36:34","modified_gmt":"2024-05-24T09:36:34","slug":"hombre-incapaz-de-cuidar-solo-de-sus-hijos","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/hombre-incapaz-de-cuidar-solo-de-sus-hijos\/","title":{"rendered":"Acusan a un hombre de \"culpabilizar\" a su mujer por no cuidar solo de sus hijos"},"content":{"rendered":"

Whenever my man starts complaining about how he\u2019s exhausted, I start rolling my eyes tan fuerte, que creo que veo mi cerebro.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

La fea verdad es m\u00e1s que evidente: Las mujeres realizan la mayor\u00eda de las tareas relacionadas con el hogar y el cuidado de los ni\u00f1os.<\/strong> <\/em><\/strong>Todas las investigaciones demuestran que las mujeres hacen la mayor parte del duro<\/em> trabajo, incluso cuando ambos c\u00f3nyuges tienen un empleo a tiempo completo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cuando hay ni\u00f1os alrededor, la cosa pasa a otro nivel. Como si no bastara con amamantar, alimentar, ba\u00f1ar, vestir, etc., con el tiempo, las madres se convierten en las gestoras de proyectos de todas las actividades familiares<\/strong>Tambi\u00e9n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hacen malabarismos con fechas importantes, horarios, listas de la compra, etc. Su cerebro es una base de datos de gran cantidad de informaci\u00f3n<\/strong> e.g. the size of children\u2019s shoes or clothes, types of medicines to be used for allergies, diarrhea or fever treatment, and what needs to be fixed or replaced around the house.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Podr\u00eda seguir enumerando todas las funciones que desempe\u00f1amos y todas las cargas que llevamos a nuestras espaldas<\/strong>, but gurl, you already know this, don\u2019t you?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Instead, I\u2019ll tell you una impactante historia real<\/strong>sobre una mujer a la que le pidieron que ayudara a su marido con los ni\u00f1os, despu\u00e9s de que \u00e9l pasara dos semanas descansando en Hawai. \u00a1Sola!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00bfTe sacrificar\u00edas para que tu hombre pueda disfrutar de Hawai a solas?<\/h2>\n\n\n
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\"un
Cr\u00e9dito: Reddit<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

A man in his 30s shared his story on the subreddit \u201cr\/AITA<\/a>\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Explic\u00f3 que su salario es la principal fuente de ingresos de su familia, ya que \u00e9l es quien tiene un trabajo a tiempo completo, mientras que su mujer, Lisa, ama de casa, trabaja a tiempo parcial, haciendo y vendiendo joyas en su tienda de Etsy. Tienen tres hijos menores de cinco a\u00f1os.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

En un momento dado, se le concedi\u00f3 una bonificaci\u00f3n en el trabajo y hizo un trato con su mujer para gastarse el dinero en unas vacaciones de dos semanas en Hawai, solo, <\/strong>y descansar bien. Durante ese tiempo Lisa deb\u00eda quedarse en casa cuidando de los ni\u00f1os.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The wife can\u2019t catch a break!<\/h2>\n\n\n
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\"un
Cr\u00e9dito: Reddit<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n
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“When I returned, Lisa was exhausted and I initially agreed to take the kids for the afternoon so she could have some time to herself and unwind.”<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

His plan to take over the kids so she can rest was tossed out by a cousin\u2019s invitation for the whole family to join a barbecue party.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Un hombre fue emocionado por la oportunidad de ver a su primo<\/strong> (a quien estaba muy unido) y algunos amigos de la infancia. Convenci\u00f3 a Lisa para ir<\/strong> all\u00ed (aunque ella se opusiera abiertamente a la idea), prometi\u00e9ndole que se lo pasar\u00eda muy bien en la barbacoa y que \u00e9l cuidar\u00eda de los ni\u00f1os.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

He wasn\u2019t capable of taking care of his OWN kids?!<\/h2>\n\n\n
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\"comentarios
Cr\u00e9dito: Reddit<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

Despu\u00e9s de alg\u00fan tiempo, se dio cuenta sus hijos se estaban volviendo salvajes<\/strong>gritos, peleas, lloriqueos y saltos por todas partes. Los m\u00faltiples intentos de hacer que se calmaran fueron infructuosos, ya que los ni\u00f1os se limitaron a ignorar sus palabras.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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“I repeatedly walked over to Lisa to ask her to give me a hand with the kids, each time she declined and said I agreed to watch them and this is her downtime.”<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

He got mad and started yelling at his wife to come and help. His tone and choice of words made Lisa angry as well, so she reminded him of his promise. She pointed out she wasn\u2019t very glad to come there in the first place, as she needed time to rest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The man argued that he hadn\u2019t seen these people for ages and asked his wife not to make a scene while forgetting he started the scene himself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The scene didn\u2019t go unnoticed:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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 “A few people overheard us and we caught a few comments about Lisa being a lazy mom who only wanted to pawn her kids off on me\/she’s taking advantage of me.”<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Lisa se ech\u00f3 a llorar y poco despu\u00e9s entr\u00f3 en el coche y se march\u00f3.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u00e1s tarde esa noche, cuando lleg\u00f3 a casa con los ni\u00f1os, el marido intent\u00f3 suavizar las cosas explicando que le costaba mucho controlar a los ni\u00f1os y que necesitaba un poco de ayuda por parte de ella.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Lisa, de nuevo le record\u00f3 \u00e9l disfrutaba de sus dos semanas de descanso en Hawai mientras ella se ocupaba sola de los ni\u00f1os.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Adem\u00e1s, estaba decepcionada por la falta de su apoyo mientras otras personas hablaban mal de ella. Era al menos injusto dejar que otras personas la insultaran, despu\u00e9s de haberse sacrificado para que \u00e9l pudiera descansar como es debido.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

La comunidad de Reddit se indign\u00f3 con su mal comportamiento<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

La gente en Reddit le juzgaba masivamente por ser tan insensible y ego\u00edsta. Estos pocos comentarios resumen su opini\u00f3n general sobre sus actos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cThe two weeks on Hawaii by himself were insane already. What kind of partner does that? And then generously give her one Saturday off, except not really?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

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\"una
Cr\u00e9dito: Reddit<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

You\u2019re a pathetic excuse for a father and husband. I hope Lisa leaves you. She can do so much better.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

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\"comentar
Cr\u00e9dito: Reddit<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

\u201cThat woman is a saint. How she deals with him is beyond me.\u201d<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Whenever my man starts complaining about how he\u2019s exhausted, I start rolling my eyes so hard, I think I see my brain. The ugly truth is more than obvious: women do most of the chores related to household and child care. Every research proves women do most of the hard work, even when both of…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":164759,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-164753","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/Man-Gets-Accused-Of-Guilt-Tripping-His-Wife-After-Failing-To-Take-Care-Of-The-Kids-Alone-1024x576.jpg",1024,576,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/164753","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=164753"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/164753\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":164762,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/164753\/revisions\/164762"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/164759"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=164753"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=164753"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=164753"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}