{"id":164782,"date":"2025-01-30T21:30:00","date_gmt":"2025-01-30T20:30:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=164782"},"modified":"2025-01-29T10:37:38","modified_gmt":"2025-01-29T09:37:38","slug":"no-tengas-prisa-por-casarte-antes-de-los-treinta","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/no-tengas-prisa-por-casarte-antes-de-los-treinta\/","title":{"rendered":"20 razones para no casarse a los 30 (una incluso tiene que ver con la profesi\u00f3n)"},"content":{"rendered":"

Recuerdo una \u00e9poca en la que ten\u00eda 27 a\u00f1os y me encontr\u00e9 en medio de <\/strong>fiebre del matrimonio<\/em><\/strong>. Parec\u00eda que todo el mundo a mi alrededor hab\u00eda encontrado a su compa\u00f1ero de vida.<\/strong> Excepto yo. Todav\u00eda estaba recomponiendo mis piezas despu\u00e9s de una ruptura muy fea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Yo era indignado por el hecho de que todo el mundo menos yo lo ten\u00eda todo resuelto.<\/strong> Adem\u00e1s de todo eso, mi mejor amiga, Jessica, me llam\u00f3 para darme una noticia emocionante:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2013 \u201cI got engaged to Jason, he proposed yesterday. We are getting married next summer.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conoci\u00f3 a Jason cuando se mud\u00f3 a la costa Este, hace seis meses. \u00bfC\u00f3mo pasaron tan r\u00e1pido de conocerse a comprometerse? I was puzzled and couldn\u2019t understand the tremendous excitement about marriage.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Jessica se dio cuenta de que me sent\u00eda un poco agitado y me record\u00f3 mi declaraci\u00f3n de hace unos a\u00f1os, cuando a\u00fan est\u00e1bamos en el instituto:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2013 \u201cI will not get married before I\u2019m 30 and will have no kids before I\u2019m 35.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Realmente result\u00f3 as\u00ed: Me cas\u00e9 a los 31 a\u00f1os y di a luz a mi primer hijo a los 35. Como si hubiera escrito el escenario de mi trayectoria vital siendo a\u00fan adolescente.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

I\u2019m still happily married and based on the experiences of my divorced friends and my own, I can give you 20 reasons why you shouldn’t rush into marriage before your 30s. So hear me out!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. Explore yourself while you\u2019re in your 20s!<\/h2>\n\n\n
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People choose to get married at different ages and don\u2019t worry, it\u2019s perfectly fine. Of course you can\u2019t schedule a meeting with The One!<\/strong> Ocurre cuando es el momento adecuado.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sin embargo, tenga en cuenta que antes de comprometerse con alguien, primero debe con\u00f3cete a ti mismo<\/em>. Por lo tanto, tenga en cuenta su La veintena es el momento de explorar tu verdadera personalidad, tus necesidades y tus deseos.<\/strong> Allow yourself to find out what\u2019s really important to you. Don\u2019t compare yourself to others.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. Madurar tambi\u00e9n mejorar\u00e1 tu capacidad de comunicaci\u00f3n.<\/h2>\n\n\n
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After years of relationship experience, you\u2019ll be more mature in your expectations. Dejar\u00e1s de so\u00f1ar con <\/strong>Pr\u00edncipe Azul<\/em><\/strong> <\/strong>y prep\u00e1rate para abrazar a una persona de verdad con la que compartir los buenos momentos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, you\u2019ll know how to express yourself and your emotions. Sabr\u00e1s cu\u00e1ndo decir no a determinados comportamientos<\/strong> y poder determinar si la relaci\u00f3n merece la pena.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Tu confianza en ti mismo se disparar\u00e1 a los 30 a\u00f1os<\/h2>\n\n\n
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You\u2019ve already conseguido algunos logros en la vida y te dan una sensaci\u00f3n de confianza.<\/strong> You acquired a master’s degree, or got that desired promotion at work, maybe you\u2019ve finally moved to some place other than your hometown.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Now you\u2019re able to look after yourself and have more belief in your abilities. All the fracasos y \u00e9xitos pasados se convirtieron en los elementos de construcci\u00f3n de tu autoimagen.<\/strong>Eres capaz de ser sincero contigo mismo y con los dem\u00e1s.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. A los treinta y tantos sabes exactamente lo que quieres<\/h2>\n\n\n
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Las mujeres que contraen matrimonio a los 30 a\u00f1os tienen m\u00e1s probabilidades de seguir casadas por su mayor capacidad para tomar decisiones meditadas.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Los j\u00f3venes tienden a tomar decisiones imprudentes <\/strong>and often change their mind later. Some young couples get divorced after a first major fight. My mom would always say I will have better judgment when I get older and advised me to avoid rushed decisions, and it\u2019s really true.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. Perm\u00edtase vivir solo<\/h2>\n\n\n
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Sabes estar solo y disfrutar de tu propia compa\u00f1\u00eda. Las personas que son autoindulgentes no traer\u00e1n problemas de dependencia al matrimonio. <\/strong>y mantendr\u00e1 con \u00e9xito una relaci\u00f3n sana.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, you know how to keep your condo tidy, how to cook a dinner for yourself. You are buying your groceries, paying the bills, etc. After you\u2019ve mastered all of this on your own, doing it as a couple will be a breeze.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

6. Ahora eres capaz de gestionar el dinero con sensatez<\/h2>\n\n\n
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It’s been a long time since tu madre dej\u00f3 de ser tu directora financiera<\/strong>. Now, you\u2019re the only one responsible for your spending or saving decisions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Aprender a administrar el dinero puede ser dif\u00edcil<\/strong>pero esos tiempos han quedado atr\u00e1s, \u00bfverdad? A estas alturas, ya sabes c\u00f3mo organizar bien tu vida y tu dinero.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

7. Sobrevivir a todos los desenga\u00f1os te hizo muy duro<\/h2>\n\n\n
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Oh, todas esas noches oscuras del alma<\/strong>\u2026 Well guess what, that\u2019s all past now. Whatever happens, you can handle it while still standing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cuando recuerda tus golpes emocionales empiezas a reirte<\/strong>. Now you know better! Being in your 30s rocks, doesn\u2019t it?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

8. Tu carrera tiene una direcci\u00f3n<\/h2>\n\n\n
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Ya tienes experiencia en tu trabajo, sabes bien a qu\u00e9 atenerte y tus obligaciones est\u00e1n bastante claras. Se acabaron los tiempos de competir y demostrar tu val\u00eda. Esto te dejar\u00e1 con suficiente energ\u00eda y tiempo para centrarse en su familia.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

You\u2019ve also aprendi\u00f3 a formar parte del equipo <\/strong>and it\u2019s quite a usable skill in marriage or any other relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

9. Los 30 te hacen sentir m\u00e1s aut\u00e9ntico y conocedor<\/h2>\n\n\n
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In our 20\u2019s, tendemos a reflejar los patrones de comportamiento de nuestros amigos \u00edntimos<\/strong>, fulfill others\u2019 expectations be it family or society, and sometimes lose ourselves along the way. Muchos de nosotros desconectamos de nuestro yo aut\u00e9ntico.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

When you\u2019re more mature, empiezas a prestar atenci\u00f3n a tus impulsos internos<\/strong>, te sientes libre de hacer lo que quieras y no te averg\u00fcenzas de tu verdadera personalidad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

10. You\u2019re finally done with one-night-stands<\/h2>\n\n\n
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Oh, aquellos d\u00edas parecen tan lejanos. Ahora buscas v\u00ednculos m\u00e1s profundos y estratificados con los hombres.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

En lugar de las apariencias f\u00edsicas, valoras a una persona a un nivel m\u00e1s hol\u00edstico.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

11. Construyes un s\u00f3lido sistema de apoyo<\/h2>\n\n\n
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By the time you\u2019re in your 30s, you\u2019ve established strong, long-lasting friendships. You\u2019ve figured out who is truly there for you<\/strong> y que s\u00f3lo era un conocido pasajero. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When you have a strong sense of belonging outside your romantic life, you\u2019re less likely to rely on your partner for every emotional need. This balance makes relationships stronger and healthier.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

12. Entiende el significado de compromiso<\/h2>\n\n\n
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In your 20s, everything is about you. What you want, what you feel, what you believe is right. And that\u2019s okay\u2014self-discovery is part of growing up. But with age comes the understanding that relationships aren\u2019t about winning or losing; they\u2019re about meeting halfway.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

By 30, you\u2019ve had enough experiences to entiende que nadie es perfecto, y eso te incluye a ti.<\/strong> You know when to hold your ground and when to let things go. Marriage thrives on compromise, and by waiting, you\u2019ll enter it with the right mindset.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

13. Tienes mejor control emocional<\/h2>\n\n\n
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Los a\u00f1os de juventud suelen estar llenos de altibajos emocionales, a veces por cosas insignificantes. Un mensaje de texto malinterpretado o una llamada no devuelta pueden sumirte en una espiral. Pero a medida que creces, aprendes a gestionar mejor tus emociones.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

By your 30s, you don\u2019t jump to conclusions as quickly. You don\u2019t let anger, jealousy, or insecurity dictate your actions.<\/strong> En su lugar, aborda los problemas con paciencia y l\u00f3gica. Esta estabilidad emocional crea una base mucho m\u00e1s sana para una relaci\u00f3n de pareja duradera.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

14. Ve las banderas rojas con m\u00e1s claridad<\/h2>\n\n\n
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When you\u2019re young, it\u2019s easy to brush off warning signs in relationships. You believe people will change, that love is enough, or that time will fix things. But life teaches you that ignoring red flags always leads to heartbreak.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A los 30, conf\u00edas en tus instintos. If something feels off, you don\u2019t ignore it. <\/strong>You recognize toxic patterns and know when to walk away. This awareness ensures that when you do settle down, it\u2019s with someone who truly deserves you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

15. Tiene m\u00e1s estabilidad financiera<\/h2>\n\n\n
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Your 20s are often a financial rollercoaster. You\u2019re figuring out how to budget, dealing with student loans, and maybe even struggling to make ends meet. But by your 30s, you\u2019ve built a more stable financial foundation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A marriage is not just about love\u2014it\u2019s also about cosas pr\u00e1cticas como la gesti\u00f3n del dinero.<\/strong> Financial stress is one of the biggest causes of marital problems. By waiting until you\u2019re more financially secure, you reduce the chances of money-related conflicts in your marriage.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

16. Sabes gestionar mejor los conflictos<\/h2>\n\n\n
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In your younger years, an argument can feel like the end of the world. You might storm off, give the silent treatment, or say things you regret. But by your 30s, you\u2019ve learned healthier ways to navigate conflicts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You understand that disagreements don\u2019t mean the relationship is doomed. Escuchas m\u00e1s, reaccionas menos y te centras en las soluciones <\/strong>en lugar de demostrar un punto. Este nivel de inteligencia emocional refuerza cualquier relaci\u00f3n a largo plazo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

17. Desarrollas un mayor sentido de la independencia<\/h2>\n\n\n
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In your 20s, you might still rely on your parents or a partner for certain aspects of your life. But by 30, you\u2019ve become fully independent. You make your own decisions, support yourself, and handle life\u2019s ups and downs on your own terms.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This independence means that when you do get married, it\u2019s a choice, not a necessity. You\u2019re not settling for someone just because you need help,<\/strong> compa\u00f1\u00eda o apoyo financiero. Los eliges porque realmente complementan tu vida.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

18. Aprecias m\u00e1s las peque\u00f1as cosas<\/h2>\n\n\n
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When you\u2019re younger, you might dream of grand romantic gestures\u2014flashy proposals, extravagant trips, and movie-style love stories. But as you mature, you realize that true love is found in the small, everyday moments.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A los 30 a\u00f1os, valoras a un compa\u00f1ero que recuerda c\u00f3mo te tomas el caf\u00e9,<\/strong> que te env\u00eda mensajes de texto para comprobar si has llegado bien a casa y que te apoya de forma silenciosa y significativa. El matrimonio se basa en estos sencillos actos de amor, y esperar te ayuda a reconocer su importancia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

19. Tienes objetivos vitales m\u00e1s claros<\/h2>\n\n\n
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In your 20s, your priorities might shift constantly. One day, you want to travel the world; the next, you\u2019re considering a career change. Your dreams and ambitions are still taking shape, which can make it hard to align with someone else\u2019s vision for the future.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A los 30, tienes una idea m\u00e1s clara de lo que quieres. <\/strong>You know if you want kids, where you want to live, and what kind of life you want to build. This clarity ensures that when you marry, it\u2019s with someone who shares your long-term goals.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

20. Te sientes realmente preparado<\/h2>\n\n\n
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Perhaps the biggest reason to wait until your 30s is the simplest\u2014you\u2019ll feel ready. Not because society tells you it\u2019s time or because all your friends are doing it, but because you genuinely want to.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

There\u2019s no rush. Love isn\u2019t a race. When you reach your 30s, you\u2019ll know in your heart that you\u2019re marrying for the right reasons,<\/strong> no s\u00f3lo para marcar un hito en la vida. Y eso, m\u00e1s que nada, es lo que hace que un matrimonio dure.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So girl, now you have the reasons to let it all age well. Don\u2019t rush things out!<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I remember a time when I was 27 and found myself in the middle of marriage fever. It seemed everyone around me had found their life partner. Except for me. I was still putting my pieces together after a very ugly breakup. I was outraged by the fact everyone else but me had it all…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":164788,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29623],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-164782","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-marriage"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29623,"label":"marriage"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/10-Reasons-Not-To-Rush-Into-Marriage-Before-Your-30s-One-Is-Even-Career-Related-1024x576.jpg",1024,576,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29623,"name":"marriage","slug":"marriage","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29623,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Establishing a happy marriage is not an easy task. Learning how to recognize red flags and deal with issues will help you make your marriage successful.","parent":29620,"count":474,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29623,"category_count":474,"category_description":"Establishing a happy marriage is not an easy task. Learning how to recognize red flags and deal with issues will help you make your marriage successful.","cat_name":"marriage","category_nicename":"marriage","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/164782","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=164782"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/164782\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":194119,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/164782\/revisions\/194119"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/164788"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=164782"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=164782"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=164782"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}