{"id":164918,"date":"2024-05-28T10:14:23","date_gmt":"2024-05-28T10:14:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=164918"},"modified":"2024-07-08T09:11:47","modified_gmt":"2024-07-08T09:11:47","slug":"el-poder-magico-del-micro-flirteo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/el-poder-magico-del-micro-flirteo\/","title":{"rendered":"La sutil magia del microflirteo que querr\u00e1s conocer a fondo"},"content":{"rendered":"

I\u2019ll be honest, I used to hate flirting and was bad at all kinds of love games. I thought it was just a waste of time. Until I met my hubby.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cuando nos conocimos, \u00e9l trabajaba para una empresa que estaba en una especie de asociaci\u00f3n con la m\u00eda, as\u00ed que los dos ten\u00edamos que interactuar mucho. Al principio, me enviaba se\u00f1ales contradictorias <\/strong>I would miss noticing (I\u2019m telling you, at the time I was bad at it), but he was tireless.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Durante nuestras reuniones de trabajo, aprovechar\u00eda la oportunidad para darme LA MIRADA<\/strong> de vez en cuando <\/strong>and then pretend that I wasn\u2019t in the room for the rest of the meeting. Other times he would start chatting about random things and then leave abruptly. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Me qued\u00e9 perplejo, pero luego empec\u00e9 a jugar. Al cabo de unas semanas, ya era una profesional del ligoteo. <\/strong>Long story short, we\u2019ve been together for years and still find lots of joy in flirting. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\"hombre<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Before I teach you how to become a flirting pro, I\u2019ll remind you that flirting is una parte inevitable de la experiencia de las citas<\/strong>. I know a possible rejection can be hurtful, but hey \u2013 sin riesgo no hay ganancia <\/em>A few times I too witnessed how the sting of rejection destroyed my confidence, but that\u2019s just life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If flirting seems frightening, you may wanna try its micro-version instead. I don\u2019t know if you might have heard about it, but there\u2019s a new dating trend \u2013 micro-flirting<\/strong>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

What on Earth is \u201cmicro-flirting\u201d?!<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

I know, I was puzzled too, but it\u2019s just una forma discreta, casi imperceptible de comprobar si alguien est\u00e1 interesado en ti<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Imagina que esperas en la cola de la cafeter\u00eda y el tipo que est\u00e1 detr\u00e1s de ti se burla de su elecci\u00f3n de caf\u00e9, entonces dice: <\/strong>Just kiddin\u2019!<\/em><\/strong> y gui\u00f1os.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

You can\u2019t say he\u2019s been hitting on you \u2013 he was just joking. Maybe te re\u00edste de su broma, pero tambi\u00e9n estabas <\/strong>simplemente educado<\/em><\/strong>,<\/strong> nothing more. If you didn\u2019t catch the play, he wouldn’t be hurt as it was nothing but a random microchat<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, if you continue chatting and joking, it\u2019s on. Micro-flirting is now in play.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\"hombre<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Expertos ligones<\/em> pondr\u00e1n los ojos en blanco, <\/strong>pero esta t\u00e9cnica ciertamente no es para ellos. Si ese tipo fuera un skilled flirter he wouldn\u2019t be so subtle. <\/strong>Maybe he\u2019d buy you his favorite type of coffee or even invite you to talk about coffee flavors at his table. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Los expertos en citas dir\u00e1n que es s\u00f3lo ligar en min\u00fasculas. (Such a funny trope! \ud83d\ude04) <\/strong>A mi modo de ver, el microflirteo es lo mismo que el flirteo pero m\u00e1s cauteloso, y m\u00e1s entre l\u00edneas<\/em>. Trate de imaginar coqueteando con un peque\u00f1o disfraz.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Finalmente, t\u00f3matelo como una jugada coqueta, y \u00a1aseg\u00farate de jugar bien! <\/strong>Also, make sure not to overplay \u2013 don\u2019t be too hard to get! Now you\u2019re probably wondering: \u201cBut how do I know if this micro-flirting of yours is for me?\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Well, if you\u2019re shy, then guuurl, this technique is made for you! <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\"mujer<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Estar ansioso y normalmente no ten\u00eda mucha confianza en mi encanto y mi aspecto, el microflirteo me parec\u00eda perfecto. <\/strong>para m\u00ed. Cuando lo prob\u00e9 por primera vez, me sorprendi\u00f3 la cantidad de atenci\u00f3n que recib\u00ed y mi autoestima se waaay<\/em> mejor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s popular among young people too. I found out my 19-year-old cousin loves it. Sarah admits disfruta jugando sin la carga ni el miedo al rechazo. <\/strong>Ese miedo suele ser el mayor obst\u00e1culo a la hora de ligar, as\u00ed que esta versi\u00f3n m\u00e1s segura parece m\u00e1s adecuada. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00bfQuieres ser un profesional del microflirteo?<\/strong> Stay with me and read on. You\u2019ll know how to recognize the microsignos<\/em> y todas las sutiles t\u00e9cnicas no verbales. Comprueba si tu chico lo es:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. Establecer contacto visual siguiendo la regla de los 3 segundos<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
\"hombre<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

\u00bfSu enamoramiento mirarte con picard\u00eda<\/strong> or use the 3-second rule? You can\u2019t miss it: he looks at you once, looks away, and then within 3 seconds looks at you again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. Acercarse<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Si aprovecha la oportunidad para acercarse a ti y utiliza el lenguaje corporal para transmitir atractivo<\/strong> o una invitaci\u00f3n<\/strong>, he\u2019s probably micro-flirting. Or even if he discreetly touches you \u2013 that might be a sign too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Burlarse de ti<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Juguetonamente se burla de ti por tus erratas o torpezas.<\/strong> Si sus bromas son desenfadadas y un poco cursis debe ser un indicio de microflirteo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. Emisi\u00f3n de se\u00f1ales microfaciales<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
\"hombre<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

\u00a1\u00bfMicro-esto, micro-eso, y ahora algunas se\u00f1ales microfaciales a las que seguir la pista?!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

As\u00ed que si nota se\u00f1ales como levantar las cejas, gui\u00f1ar un ojo, morderse los labios o sonre\u00edr disimuladamente<\/strong> \u2013 there you are. Even a subtle facial expression of sweet nervousness might be a signal of micro-flirting.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. Entrevistarle<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

En cuanto se topa contigo se pone en modo entrevista y sigue haciendo un mont\u00f3n de preguntas. <\/strong>On the outside it seems like a random chat, but on the inside \u2013 a safe way to stare at you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cu\u00e9ntame las ventajas y los inconvenientes del microflirteo.<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

One of the main flaws of micro-flirting is that it\u2019s a veces tan sutil que pasa desapercibido.<\/strong> You may think you\u2019ve pitched the hook but he will have no idea and will miss out. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tambi\u00e9n, como una forma muy vaga de mostrar inter\u00e9s, puede parecer poco claro y cr\u00edptico.<\/strong> Confundir\u00e1 tus se\u00f1ales no verbales y el subtexto con que eres amable, no coqueta. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

El microflirteo puede ser una forma divertida de interactuar en el trabajo o una buena manera de expresar cortes\u00eda en situaciones sociales. La falta de un significado claro <\/strong>impedir\u00e1 cualquier conclusi\u00f3n s\u00f3lida de que realmente est\u00e1s interesada en \u00e9l.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This applies to you too; it doesn\u2019t mean every smiling, friendly person you meet is micro-flirting with you. That el camarero es quiz\u00e1s muy bueno en su trabajo <\/strong>y una persona genuinamente agradable.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sin embargo, si ves potencial en esta tendencia de flirteo aseg\u00farate de hacer un buen uso del microflirteo. It\u2019s only the initial hook but soon you\u2019ll need to level up to old-fashioned flirting.<\/strong> Ligar siempre es un S\u00cd, ya sea micro o macro.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I\u2019ll be honest, I used to hate flirting and was bad at all kinds of love games. I thought it was just a waste of time. Until I met my hubby. When we met, he was working for a company that was in some kind of partnership with mine, so the two of us had…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":164924,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-164918","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/Subtle-Magic-Of-Micro-Flirting-You-Wanna-Know-Everything-About-1024x576.jpg",1024,576,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","parent":38,"count":426,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29614,"category_count":426,"category_description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"love talks","category_nicename":"love-talks","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/164918","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=164918"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/164918\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":164925,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/164918\/revisions\/164925"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/164924"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=164918"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=164918"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=164918"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}