{"id":164926,"date":"2024-05-28T11:19:59","date_gmt":"2024-05-28T11:19:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=164926"},"modified":"2024-05-28T11:19:59","modified_gmt":"2024-05-28T11:19:59","slug":"camareros-comparten-consejos-para-ligar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/camareros-comparten-consejos-para-ligar\/","title":{"rendered":"Camareros comparten consejos probados que mejorar\u00e1n tu juego de ligar"},"content":{"rendered":"

The art of flirting isn\u2019t something we are born with. However, it seems like some people are just talento natural para ganarse el coraz\u00f3n de los dem\u00e1s<\/strong>. Los camareros son uno de ellos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Trabajar en diferentes bares durante mis veinte a\u00f1os me ense\u00f1\u00f3 algunas habilidades \u00fatiles para la vida. Desde manejar el caos hasta ligar con cualquier chico que me guste, I\u2019ve learned it all. <\/strong>I\u2019ve also seen it all. Drunk people, strangers passionately kissing, provocative looks, failed dates but also really successful ones.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

De ver a tanta gente ligar, creo que incluso tengo ese talento que me permite adivinar si van a tener suerte en los primeros minutos de su cita. Creo que es una experiencia universal para todos los camareros.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I realized this when I went to a bar the other night. I started chatting with Mia who works there about my experience of working at a bar and we had so many same stories and situations we\u2019ve been in.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Solicitamos un trabajo para ganar algo de dinero, pero en realidad acabamos siendo expertos en citas y ligues. Lo que concluimos al final es que lo bueno de ligar es que los mismos consejos sirven para todos<\/strong>. Believe me, we tested them all and figured out which ones were the best. Sharing is caring, so let\u2019s dive in.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Un buen contacto visual es el punto de partida<\/h2>\n\n\n
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\"pareja<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

Tanto si est\u00e1s en tu primera cita como si quieres ligar con alguien que te gusta, el contacto visual es la mejor manera de llamar su atenci\u00f3n<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Of course, you don\u2019t want to stare into their soul but make sure they know you noticed them. If you are having a conversation and only looking around, it will look like you\u2019re not interested and that\u2019s not what you want.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Un look coqueto es todo lo que necesitas para llegar donde quieres<\/strong>. If you\u2019re afraid you would look like a serial killer choosing their next victim, try smiling gently as well, it helps!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

La confianza es la clave<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Una buena dosis de confianza puede hacer que hasta el mayor de los tontos parezca el mejor de los encantadores. La gente segura de s\u00ed misma atrae a todo el mundo<\/strong> como un maldito im\u00e1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Si conf\u00edas en que eres un buen tipo o una buena mujer que merece la pena tener a su lado, lo m\u00e1s probable es que ellos tambi\u00e9n lo piensen. Al menos, ese pensamiento dar\u00e1 vueltas en su cabeza sin que se den cuenta. Fake it \u2018till you make it!<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Un toque ligero puede llevarte lejos<\/h2>\n\n\n
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\"hombre<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

El tacto es un juego muy peligroso, \u00a1y por eso tan emocionante! Puede llevarte muy lejos muy r\u00e1pidamente (si entiendes lo que quiero decir, cara de gui\u00f1ote<\/em>).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mia estuvo de acuerdo conmigo cuando llegamos a este tema y dijo:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cI remember my date with this guy who was really attractive. I knew subtle touch here and there was a way to go. He would tell me a joke and I touched his shoulder while laughing. I used his knee to help me get down from the bar stool. These tiny little moments are so powerful. And let me tell you, it definitely got me to my final destination!\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Touch can also be tricky because it\u2019s very easy to cross someone\u2019s boundary. So always make sure to prestar atenci\u00f3n a su lenguaje corporal<\/strong>. Si se sienten inc\u00f3modos, aunque s\u00f3lo sea un segundo, deber\u00edas parar y dejarlo para otro momento.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

They don\u2019t need to know your full life story<\/h2>\n\n\n
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\"hombre<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

Siempre hay que ser un poco misterioso cuando se conoce a gente nueva. Elija bien sus palabras<\/strong> y contarles lo justo para mantenerles interesados e impacientes por saber m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Una noche que estaba trabajando en el bar, entr\u00f3 un hombre. Mir\u00f3 nerviosamente su tel\u00e9fono y luego mir\u00f3 el reloj varias veces. Me di cuenta de que estaba esperando a alguien. \u201cStarting strong, I see. Important date tonight?\u201d <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

He breathed out like he was relieved and confirmed. He quickly started venting about his most recent problems at work and in life like I have tattooed \u201cpsychologist\u201d on my forehead. I listened and offered some advice, but I didn\u2019t tell him much about myself<\/strong> aparte de algunas cosas b\u00e1sicas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The next time he came to the bar, he wasn\u2019t waiting for anyone. He told me that he found me way more interesting than his date and that he couldn\u2019t stop thinking about me<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI didn\u2019t even get your name! So now you owe me your name and a phone number.\u201d<\/em>brome\u00f3 mientras me entregaba un papel y un bol\u00edgrafo. Y as\u00ed, amigos m\u00edos, es como se hace.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Los mensajes coquetos crean ambiente<\/h2>\n\n\n
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\"mujer<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

You maybe don\u2019t pay much attention to your texts, but this could be a great moment to start doing it. Good texts before your date can really help you to set the mood right when you meet. Try to make everything you write sound a bit flirty and don\u2019t be afraid to let them know you like them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Lo peor que podr\u00edas hacer es enviar respuestas secas<\/strong> to their messages, but it\u2019s not good either when you\u2019re too annoying and don\u2019t let them breathe.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mia comparti\u00f3 conmigo la historia de su cita fallida:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cMy friends wanted to connect me with one guy saying we could be a good match. So I decided to give them the green light and they gave him my number. After a day or two he sent me a text asking to meet me. I thought he would at least break the ice with some fun conversation so I could at least know what I was getting myself into. He just sent me the location and time and told me to meet him there. It felt like he was setting up a meeting with his colleague!\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Resumiendo, nunca sali\u00f3 con \u00e9l ni confi\u00f3 su vida amorosa a sus amigos. Quiero decir, \u00bfsaldr\u00edas con un desconocido que s\u00f3lo te env\u00eda la hora y la ubicaci\u00f3n y nada m\u00e1s? Yo tampoco.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Flirting is just a fun game and that\u2019s exactly how you should approach it. Sea juguet\u00f3n y divertido<\/strong>probar cosas diferentes, y vea qu\u00e9 funciona mejor para usted<\/strong>. S\u00e9 t\u00fa mismo, pero ten cuidado de no pasarte de la raya e intenta disfrutar del proceso.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

The art of flirting isn\u2019t something we are born with. However, it seems like some people are just naturally talented in winning the hearts of others. Bartenders are one of them. Working at different bars in my twenties really taught me some useful life skills. From handling chaos to picking up any guy I like,…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":164929,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-164926","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/Bartenders-Share-Proven-Tips-That-Will-Step-Up-Your-Flirting-Game-1024x678.jpg",1024,678,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","parent":29643,"count":442,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29648,"category_count":442,"category_description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","cat_name":"dating tips","category_nicename":"dating-tips","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/164926","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=164926"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/164926\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":164935,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/164926\/revisions\/164935"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/164929"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=164926"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=164926"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=164926"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}