{"id":164936,"date":"2024-05-28T11:31:17","date_gmt":"2024-05-28T11:31:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=164936"},"modified":"2024-05-28T11:31:17","modified_gmt":"2024-05-28T11:31:17","slug":"como-ligar-en-instagram","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-ligar-en-instagram\/","title":{"rendered":"C\u00f3mo ligar en Instagram y conseguir una cita"},"content":{"rendered":"

Okay, let\u2019s get real. We often use Instagram as a dating app. There, I said it! I am sorry, Mark Zuckerberg, it is what it is.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You sometimes find yourself stalking someone\u2019s profile, analyzing their pictures and stories while trying to figure out how to talk to them. Well, you\u2019re not alone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This is a reality for many people, but don\u2019t worry, I got your back! Just listen to me and dominar\u00e1s tus formas de deslizarte en sus DMs y permanecer all\u00ed. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

S\u00e9 que todo el concepto de Instagram puede ser un poco complicado porque un paso en falso puede llevarte a \u201cseen land\u201d<\/em> o peor a\u00fan, una lista de bloqueo. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sin embargo...mis t\u00e1cticas de coqueteo en Instagram me aseguraron un hombre...<\/strong> so I think I know what I\u2019m talking about! But before we start, I have a question! What does your IG profile look like?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. Tu perfil es una ventana a tu vida<\/h2>\n\n\n
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\"morena<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

Try to look at your profile from someone else\u2019s perspective and see if you would accept your request in their place. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

La primera impresi\u00f3n siempre importa y esta podr\u00eda ser tu \u00fanica oportunidad de llamar su atenci\u00f3n<\/strong> or a reply back. If you don\u2019t have a profile picture of yourself, your bio is empty, and your profile is locked, don\u2019t expect them to accept your request. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Personally, when I get a request from someone with a profile like that, I don\u2019t even think twice but decline it immediately. So make sure your profile looks attractive, and if they do accept your request, don\u2019t like all of their pictures immediately just because you\u2019re excited, take it slow.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. Rel\u00e1jate con likes<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Calm down, I get you, you don\u2019t know how to get their attention. Trust me, there are better ways to do it than attacking the like button. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong. Liking a few of their recent photos is a great way to get noticed at first but Tambi\u00e9n puede resultar molesto o incluso extra\u00f1o.<\/strong>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

He tenido situaciones en las que a los chicos les gustaban todas mis fotos en un lapso de un par de minutos, y eso que siempre ten\u00eda una colecci\u00f3n bastante grande de publicaciones. Peor a\u00fan ser\u00eda que les gustaran en mitad de la noche, eligiendo solo las que hab\u00eda publicado mientras estaba en la playa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Honestly, it\u2019s giving Joe Goldberg energy. Don\u2019t be that guy that will end up in a girls’ group chat as a \u201cespeluznante acosador de medianoche<\/em>\u201d. Instead, play it cool, and if you wouldn\u2019t bother someone like that when you meet them in person, then why do it online?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Act\u00faa como lo har\u00edas en la vida real<\/h2>\n\n\n
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\"mujer<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

If you saw someone you like in public, would you approach them and start harassing them, saying inappropriate things? Well, let\u2019s hope not! <\/p>\n\n\n\n

People can get weird on social media because they get too comfortable and give themselves more freedom. Don\u2019t hide behind your profile and think you suddenly became someone else and then give completely different energy in person.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Recuerde siempre que just because it\u2019s an online world, it doesn\u2019t mean it\u2019s not real<\/strong>. Being genuine and respectful will take you further than pretending you are something you\u2019re not.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I once went on a date with someone who seemed perfect over messages. However, when we finally met in person he was a weirdo and even attacked the waiter just because he didn\u2019t put ice in his drink! Safe to say I was shocked and never went out with him again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. Don\u2019t force things<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The best flow is the natural flow and honestly, this goes for everything in your life. My friends and I would often try to figure out what is the logic behind someone who repeatedly sends you a follow request and just doesn\u2019t give up.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Si lo negu\u00e9 ayer y 10 veces antes, \u00bfpor qu\u00e9 crees que he cambiado de opini\u00f3n? Esto s\u00f3lo puede hacerte m\u00e1s repulsivo<\/strong>y no al rev\u00e9s. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Lo mismo ocurre con la mensajer\u00eda. \u00bfTe metes en sus DMs pero te dejan en visto o s\u00f3lo te dan respuestas sin salida? Por favor, coge el cartel. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. Las palabras amables pueden abrir una puerta de hierro<\/h2>\n\n\n
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\"Mujer<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

Este es sin duda el lema de mi vida. Seg\u00fan mi experiencia, y esto vale para todos los aspectos de la vida, las palabras cuidadosamente elegidas a menudo consiguen lo que uno quiere<\/strong>. S\u00f3lo hay que saber elaborarlas de la manera adecuada.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

As\u00ed es como me reserv\u00e9 una cita con quien quisiera, \u00a1y al final hasta me cas\u00e9 con un chico que conoc\u00ed en IG!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I wouldn\u2019t just react with a fire emoji on his selfie, I took it to the next level. I would wait for him to post something about things he did or loved and then take it as a chance to start a conversation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cOmg! I didn\u2019t know you also loved that TV show. It\u2019s my favorite!\u201d<\/em> Something like this would always keep a conversation going for quite a while. It\u2019s also proven that la gente est\u00e1 m\u00e1s dispuesta a responderle cuando usted<\/strong> h\u00e1gales una pregunta<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So instead of only congratulating them for their achievement, ask them to tell you more about that experience. You can even ask for advice on something they\u2019re good at. If people like something, then it must be talking about themselves.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Recuerde siempre keep it casual and don\u2019t be too pushy<\/strong>. Los peque\u00f1os errores pueden costarte muy caros. Puede parecer que hay que vigilar muchas cosas, pero la pr\u00e1ctica hace al maestro.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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