{"id":16494,"date":"2020-03-15T13:31:21","date_gmt":"2020-03-15T13:31:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=16494"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:04:59","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:04:59","slug":"3-senales-de-que-no-eres-mas-que-su-chica-de-rebote","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/3-senales-de-que-no-eres-mas-que-su-chica-de-rebote\/","title":{"rendered":"3 se\u00f1ales de que no eres m\u00e1s que su chica de rebote"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Si tu novio ha salido recientemente de una relaci\u00f3n duradera, es perfectamente normal que te preguntes si las cosas han terminado realmente entre los dos.<\/p>\n<p>You know that most people take time to get over a relationship and to find someone else and that scares you. You don\u2019t know if your boyfriend has given himself enough time to grieve his past relationship and to process the break-up before he met you.<\/p>\n<p>On the other hand, the relationship between the two of you is going great, so you simply don\u2019t know what to think. Has he really gotten over his past relationship or <a href=\"https:\/\/www.thetalko.com\/15-signs-hes-faking-hes-moved-on\/\" rel=\"noopener\">is he just faking that he\u2019s moved on<\/a> con su vida?<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfTe est\u00e1 utilizando para superarla y ponerla celosa o de verdad est\u00e1 preparado para algo serio? Estas son todas las preguntas que te rondan por la cabeza, pero las respuestas no aparecen por ning\u00fan lado.<\/p>\n<p>As\u00ed que, si tienes dudas sobre si sirves s\u00f3lo como chica de rebote a tu novio, aqu\u00ed tienes 3 se\u00f1ales claras de que es as\u00ed.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">1. Su ex novia sigue formando parte de su vida<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>It is perfectly normal for an ex-couple to stay in friendly relations and it\u2019s the same with your boyfriend and his ex-girlfriend. The fact that they\u2019ve stayed on good terms doesn\u2019t have to mean anything.<\/p>\n<p>But it\u2019s one thing if they are polite to each other when they accidentally meet and another if they call each other for some reason. If she still has an active role in his life, it is quite likely that things between the two of them are not quite over.<\/p>\n<p>If your boyfriend still hangs out with his ex or with her friends and family on a regular basis, it is possible that he\u2019s still not ready to move on with his life and that he wants to stay in hers, one way or another.<\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t expect him to pretend like she and everyone around her were never a part of his life but if he acts like the two of them never ended things, it should ring alarm bells for you.<\/p>\n<p>Otra cosa que puede servirte como bandera roja es el hecho de que se cruce constantemente con su ex novia.<\/p>\n<p>Is it really a coincidence, due to the similar habits they developed while they were in a relationship, or maybe he has an urge to see her but doesn\u2019t want to admit it, so he makes it all look like a coincidence?<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">2. Habla de ella todo el tiempo<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Si tu pareja ha mantenido una relaci\u00f3n duradera con alguien, tienes que aceptar que esa persona fue una parte importante de su vida.<\/p>\n<p>Therefore, you shouldn\u2019t be bothered if he mentions her from time to time, when she is relevant to some event from his past which he wants to share with you. But it doesn\u2019t mean that he ought to talk about her all the time.<\/p>\n<p>Si \u00e9l sigue mencionando a su ex novia sin ninguna raz\u00f3n en absoluto, que puede ser una de las se\u00f1ales que usted est\u00e1 atascado en un <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/11-senales-de-que-estas-atrapado-en-una-relacion-de-rebote-malsana\/\">relaci\u00f3n de rebote malsana<\/a>. This can mean that he probably thinks about her all the time and can\u2019t help but mention her.<\/p>\n<p>Si constantemente sientes que te compara con ella y si sientes que necesitas competir con los fantasmas de su pasado, no eres m\u00e1s que su chica de rebote, sin duda.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">3. Est\u00e1 demasiado ansioso por mostrarte en p\u00fablico<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Cuando conoces a un chico que quiere que vuestra relaci\u00f3n sea lo m\u00e1s p\u00fablica posible, sueles tom\u00e1rtelo como una gran se\u00f1al. Piensas que es <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/5-cosas-que-el-hombre-ama-con-locura\/\">locamente enamorado de ti<\/a> y que est\u00e1 orgulloso de tener una novia as\u00ed y que quiere que todos los que le rodean tambi\u00e9n lo sepan.<\/p>\n<p>But this isn\u2019t always such a good sign. Every relationship has its own pace and if your boyfriend wants to move things too fast, you need to ask yourself what he is trying to prove and to whom.<\/p>\n<p>He\u2019s been introducing you to all of his friends and family and he keeps posting pictures of the two of you all over social media but is it possible that he is only trying to make his ex-girlfriend jealous? Does he invest more energy in making your relationship look good from the outside rather than improving it for real?<\/p>\n<p>If this is the case, it is likely that your boyfriend just wants his ex-girlfriend\u2019s attention. He doesn\u2019t choose which ways to get it and he is ready to do whatever it takes just so she finds out that he is completely over her.<\/p>\n<p>La cruda verdad es que puede que s\u00f3lo seas su herramienta para restregarle su nueva felicidad por la cara.<!--\/codes_iframe--> <!--codes_iframe--> <!--\/codes_iframe--><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>If your boyfriend has recently gotten out of a long-term relationship, it is perfectly normal for you to wonder whether things are really over between the two of them. You know that most people take time to get over a relationship and to find someone else and that scares you. 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