{"id":164944,"date":"2024-05-29T07:53:10","date_gmt":"2024-05-29T07:53:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=164944"},"modified":"2024-05-29T07:53:12","modified_gmt":"2024-05-29T07:53:12","slug":"por-que-la-generacion-z-esta-por-encima-de-las-aplicaciones-de-citas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/por-que-la-generacion-z-esta-por-encima-de-las-aplicaciones-de-citas\/","title":{"rendered":"La generaci\u00f3n Z dice adi\u00f3s a las aplicaciones de citas y da la bienvenida a la b\u00fasqueda de pareja a la vieja usanza\u00a0"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I\u2019m so over dating apps! Seriously. I mean, how many times do I need to swipe left, swipe right, go on these meaningless dates, and then end with heartbreak or just wasted time?!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I sometimes feel as if I\u2019m just in this <strong>bucle sin fin de las mismas experiencias<\/strong> with the same people, and it never stops! It\u2019s like every time I know the exact order of things that will happen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Me harto de hacer swipe, entonces por fin veo a un chico guapo, hacemos match, hablamos un rato, <strong>Me hago ilusiones y luego resulta ser una gran nada<\/strong>\u00a1! Uf, me cabreo s\u00f3lo de pensarlo.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This may sound crazy, but sometimes I think that it wouldn\u2019t be so bad to return to times when your parents would just find you a spouse and you would get married and that\u2019s it. End of the story.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>My parents would probably even find someone more decent for me than I would, considering my past choices\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pensaba que estaba sola en este sufrimiento. Sin embargo, despu\u00e9s de despotricar sobre el odio a las citas en l\u00ednea, \u00a1mis amigos vinieron con recibos!&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">\u201cDamn it with the swiping already! I need a break.\u201d<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/young-worried-woman-looking-at-phone.jpg\" alt=\"mujer joven y preocupada mirando el tel\u00e9fono\" class=\"wp-image-164945\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/young-worried-woman-looking-at-phone.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/young-worried-woman-looking-at-phone-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/young-worried-woman-looking-at-phone-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/young-worried-woman-looking-at-phone-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/young-worried-woman-looking-at-phone-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/young-worried-woman-looking-at-phone-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/young-worried-woman-looking-at-phone-1080x716.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/young-worried-woman-looking-at-phone-1200x795.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>I feel like we all relate to this, right? It\u2019s just tiring to get excited over someone who seems promising at first just to end up being nothing close to what you imagined.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A <a href=\"https:\/\/www.forbes.com\/health\/dating\/dating-app-fatigue\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">encuesta<\/a> realizado por Forbes revel\u00f3 que casi <strong>80% de los usuarios de la Generaci\u00f3n Z dicen estar agotados por las aplicaciones de citas.<\/strong> I mean, how wouldn\u2019t we be?! With so many options to choose from, it almost feels like you have a mile-long buffet with nothing that just tastes right.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Even though you might feel like dating apps will help you settle down, sometimes it\u2019s actually the opposite. It\u2019s easy to get <strong>abrumado por demasiadas opciones<\/strong>. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.soulmatesunlimited.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Judith Gottesman<\/a>dice la entrenadora de citas y casamentera:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>\u201cIf you just go on date after date after date it feels like endless possibilities, but you\u2019re actually more likely to burn out sooner because you\u2019re just going on a bunch of random bad dates having negative experiences, and wasting a lot of time and money.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>I once had my obsessive Tinder era. I constantly kept matching with people, talking, and going on dates. You\u2019d think I would\u2019ve found my prince by now. Well\u2026not really. The only thing I ended up with was empty social batteries and lost hope in my love life. Sounds familiar?&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">\u201cI\u2019m sick of playing games. I want something real.\u201d<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Oh boy, I heard this one too many times. It\u2019s frankly quite annoying when you want that genuine connection and they just want\u2026nothing.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Also, let\u2019s be honest. Gen Z tends to overthink everything, and I really mean, <em>todo<\/em>! From the way we respond to messages, and emojis we are using to how fast we should reply, it\u2019s simply too much.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Let\u2019s just agree that at this point <strong>it\u2019s so much easier to just meet someone in real life<\/strong> y hablar con ellos in situ.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>My friend would make a whole damn strategic plan on when she would send a message based on the other person&#8217;s response time. If she dedicated this time and energy to her studies, I bet she would have a PhD by now!&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And don\u2019t even get me started on <strong>gente que finge querer algo serio<\/strong> while in reality, they\u2019re just there for the ride. When you go through this multiple times, it can really affect you and your sanity.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">\u201cMy love life isn\u2019t the only one suffering. It\u2019s my mental health too.\u201d<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/worried-woman-texting.jpg\" alt=\"mujer preocupada enviando mensajes de texto\" class=\"wp-image-164947\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/worried-woman-texting.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/worried-woman-texting-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/worried-woman-texting-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/worried-woman-texting-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/worried-woman-texting-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/worried-woman-texting-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/worried-woman-texting-1080x716.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/worried-woman-texting-1200x795.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Muchos de mis amigos (incluido yo) se han vuelto t\u00edmidos e inseguros desde que tienen citas por Internet. \u00bfTodos los rechazos y los est\u00e1ndares incre\u00edbles que tienen algunas personas? S\u00ed, lo s\u00e9 todo.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Seg\u00fan la misma encuesta,<strong> \u2018ghosting\u2019, poor connection, disappointment, and rejection<\/strong> fueron algunas de las principales razones por las que la Generaci\u00f3n Z ha terminado con las aplicaciones de citas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Aunque esto suena bastante racional, \u00a1Hinge revel\u00f3 algo m\u00e1s! Su <a href=\"https:\/\/hinge.co\/press\/2024-GenZ-Report\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">informe<\/a> establece que <strong>el miedo a ser cringe es una de las principales preocupaciones de la Generaci\u00f3n Z<\/strong>. Don\u2019t judge though, every generation has its challenges. I guess being cringe is ours.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But seriously now, dealing with these things can really be hard on some people. Sometimes it\u2019s easier to just delete the app and save yourself from misery.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">\u201cI don\u2019t trust people online.\u201d<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>When you consider the world we live in, how could you trust anyone? I don\u2019t even feel safe walking down the street, let alone meeting someone I\u2019m not even sure it\u2019s the person saying they are.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>La encuesta tambi\u00e9n revel\u00f3 que<strong> 38% de los usuarios admitieron haber sido catfished y 18% de ellos han estado expuestos a alg\u00fan tipo de abuso<\/strong>. Entonces, \u00bfalguien puede culparnos de problemas de confianza?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s hard navigating the online world nowadays, especially with the rise of AI technologies that often bring more bad than good. I once matched with a guy whose every picture was AI-generated. He said he was 25 but he was actually in his 50s! Imagine the shock.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This is why meeting through a matchmaking agency can bring you peace of mind knowing they verify who you\u2019re meeting with.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Teniendo en cuenta la reciente <a href=\"https:\/\/www.wokewaves.com\/posts\/gen-z-rejects-dating-apps-seeking-authentic-connections#:~:text=The%20growing%20disillusionment%20with%20these,Z%20makes%20up%20only%2026%25\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">informe<\/a> y el hecho de que <strong>s\u00f3lo el 26% de los usuarios de servicios de citas en l\u00ednea son de la Generaci\u00f3n Z<\/strong>Creo que las agencias de b\u00fasqueda de pareja tienen un futuro brillante.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Now, I know what you\u2019re thinking. How could we possibly be more into traditional dating when we\u2019re basically living online? Well, that right there might be your answer.&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I\u2019m so over dating apps! Seriously. 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