{"id":164959,"date":"2024-05-29T09:17:51","date_gmt":"2024-05-29T09:17:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=164959"},"modified":"2024-05-29T09:17:51","modified_gmt":"2024-05-29T09:17:51","slug":"5-formas-de-exagerar-las-aplicaciones-de-citas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/5-formas-de-exagerar-las-aplicaciones-de-citas\/","title":{"rendered":"5 incre\u00edbles formas de sacar partido a las apps de citas que desear\u00edas haber conocido antes"},"content":{"rendered":"

Oh, recuerdo c\u00f3mo me emocion\u00e9 cuando descubr\u00ed Tinder en 2014. Estaba tan emocionada por empezar por fin a conocer hombres de una forma tan pr\u00e1ctica<\/strong>. Desde ese d\u00eda, la historia de mis citas se ha dividido en dos \u00e9pocas: antes del barrido y despu\u00e9s.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Por fin,<\/em> Pens\u00e9, no m\u00e1s p\u00e9rdidas de tiempo en cenas con hombres que resultar\u00edan ser un desajuste. <\/em>I didn\u2019t want to spend hours getting all dressed up and then end up on a failed date. But entonces tambi\u00e9n fracas\u00e9 en el buen uso de Tinder.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Me gustar\u00eda deslizar a la izquierda, deslizar a la derecha, emparejado innumerables veces,<\/strong> and kept changing my bio and photos, but all the men I\u2019ve met there ended up being simplemente mal<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Luego, en 2015, prob\u00e9 Bumble. Me gust\u00f3 porque estaba hecha para empoderar a las mujeres. Solo las mujeres pudieron iniciar una conversaci\u00f3n enviando el primer mensaje<\/strong>y esa era la raz\u00f3n principal por la que me hab\u00eda descargado la aplicaci\u00f3n. Una vez m\u00e1s, segu\u00ed deslizando el dedo a izquierda y derecha, pero el Sr. Perfecto tampoco estaba all\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I kept trying different apps, and soon after would delete them. But I wasn\u2019t planning to give up. During my quest for the perfect online dating solution I also read some research. The results showed that a huge percent of la gente usa aplicaciones para encontrar pareja<\/strong>. S\u00f3lo un peque\u00f1o n\u00famero de usuarios estaba interesado en ligar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bueno, si la mayor\u00eda de nosotros estamos buscando una pareja rom\u00e1ntica \u00bfpor qu\u00e9 no conseguimos encontrar uno?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hoy en d\u00eda, las aplicaciones de citas han sido utilizadas masivamente por millones de personas en todo el mundo. Chica, \u00bflo sab\u00edas? tenemos acceso a 59 millones de usuarios de aplicaciones de citas y 1500 aplicaciones de citas entre las que elegir?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

So, why did people start being overwhelmed (at least!) and state they\u2019re fed up with dating apps Porque se ha convertido en un trabajo duro, igual que las citas normales.<\/em><\/strong> <\/em>But it doesn\u2019t have to be that way!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cA profile is not an ad, a profile is a window.\u201d<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Mi coach de citas dice que tu perfil debe destacar qui\u00e9n eres realmente y qu\u00e9 buscas. No hace falta que presumas de tus logros. Dating apps are not LinkedIn for God\u2019s sake!<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Otro experto en citas, Lily Womble<\/a>dice que la gente intenta utilizar muchas aplicaciones diferentes y luego, a veces, se enfrentan a spam, acoso o insultos y acaban borrando la aplicaci\u00f3n<\/strong>. Enumera los errores m\u00e1s comunes y nos aconseja sobre c\u00f3mo sacar el m\u00e1ximo partido a las aplicaciones de citas:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. \u00bfCuanto m\u00e1s, mejor?<\/h2>\n\n\n
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If you think your chances of finding love will be multiplied by dating hard, you\u2019re wrong! Deja de jugar a los n\u00fameros. <\/strong>Si sales como un loco todo el d\u00eda, \u00a1puedes sufrir una sobrecarga cognitiva!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Yo sol\u00eda cometer el mismo error y en alg\u00fan momento, todo fue una gran confusi\u00f3n<\/strong>. Believe me, you don’t need that. I\u2019d mistaken one date with another, replied to the wrong men, and couldn’t remember who\u2019s who.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Los antrop\u00f3logos dir\u00edan “The brain is not well built to choose between hundreds or thousands of alternatives.” <\/strong>Have you ever heard of something called \u201cdecision fatigue”?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You spend a day deciding what to wear, which way to go, what tasks to prioritize at work\u2026 You don\u2019t wanna push yourself into deciding over 20,000 matching profiles<\/strong> en aplicaciones de citas. A menos que quieras quemarte.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. Tantas aplicaciones de citas, \u00bfqu\u00e9 elegir?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Date smart, not hard! Choose one or two dating apps and invest your energy in them. These are the most popular ones and I\u2019ve tried \u2018em all \ud83e\udd18!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tinder<\/strong> es bueno para hacer conexiones r\u00e1pidas. Si quieres saltarte los mensajes no deseados prueba Bumble<\/strong> ya que t\u00fa, al ser MUJER, tienes m\u00e1s el control.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Con vistas a Si quieres ir m\u00e1s all\u00e1 de un simple swipe, echa un vistazo a mis favoritos: Match, OkCupid o Hinge.<\/strong>. You\u2019ll find a wide base of possibilities, but the downside of Match and OkCupid is that you can\u2019t filter inactive users.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ConoceMindful <\/strong>es un sitio de citas peque\u00f1o, pero que te permite establecer contactos significativos y, adem\u00e1s, promete una selecci\u00f3n de coincidencias.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Too much swiping, I can\u2019t do it anymore!<\/h2>\n\n\n
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Don\u2019t overdate yourself! Put your phone down when you feel overwhelmed. Limit your swiping to 20-30 minutes a day.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I remember how I\u2019d over swipe, sacrificando mi tiempo de sue\u00f1o por mi interminable b\u00fasqueda del amor.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Esc\u00fachame: \u00a1desactiva las notificaciones! Estar alerta todo el tiempo puede ser estresante.<\/strong> It\u2019s not worth it, believe me! Maybe you\u2019ll have fewer matches but at least they will have more potential for a quality connection.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tambi\u00e9n, change the course \u2013 you need only a few, not many matches.<\/strong> Si va mal, deja de perder el tiempo y pasa a otro usuario.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. \u00a1Qu\u00e9 conversaci\u00f3n tan in\u00fatil!<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

\u00bfCansado de conversaciones triviales que no llevan a ninguna parte? Corta al instante cualquier conversaci\u00f3n sin sentido.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Siempre estaba lleno de esperanza y me enga\u00f1ar\u00eda pensando que una charla sin sentido llevar\u00eda a una cita <\/strong>and a date would lead to a dream relationship\u2026 Trust me it won’t. Don\u2019t waste time like I did.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Omitir la mensajer\u00eda destinada al fracaso, intenta hacer preguntas profundas y m\u00e1s intelectuales<\/strong>como The thing you\u2019re doing right now\u2026 does it spark joy? What do you think, is there an afterlife?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Su La pregunta est\u00e1 dise\u00f1ada para filtrar a los usuarios que no encajan bien<\/strong> y entabla una conversaci\u00f3n m\u00e1s profunda con quienes est\u00e1n en la misma longitud de onda que t\u00fa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. No paro de pasar el dedo pero nada...<\/h2>\n\n\n
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La verdad es que algunas personas en las aplicaciones de citas no est\u00e1n buscando el amor, est\u00e1n buscando un amigo por correspondencia. <\/strong>Oh chico, yo era como un im\u00e1n para ese tipo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

We\u2019d keep texting each other week after week, but he\u2019d show no interest in meeting me in person<\/strong>. I can\u2019t understand why I was unable to spot the obvious \u2013 he was not looking for a date.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

As\u00ed que, si te encuentras enviando mensajes de texto durante d\u00edas y no ves ning\u00fan fecha <\/em>en tu calendario despu\u00e9s de una o dos semanas, \u00a1date por vencido! Don\u2019t waste your time on a pen pal! <\/strong>Termina la comunicaci\u00f3n educadamente y sigue adelante.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Oh, I remember how I felt thrilled when I discovered Tinder in 2014. I was so excited to finally start meeting men in such a handy way. Since that day, the history of my dating has split into two eras: before the swipe and after. Finally, I thought, no more wasted time on dinners with…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":164962,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-164959","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/5-Incredible-Ways-To-Get-Most-Out-Of-The-Dating-Apps-You-Wish-You-Had-Known-Before-1024x678.jpg",1024,678,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","parent":29643,"count":442,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29648,"category_count":442,"category_description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","cat_name":"dating tips","category_nicename":"dating-tips","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/164959","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=164959"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/164959\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":164966,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/164959\/revisions\/164966"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/164962"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=164959"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=164959"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=164959"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}