{"id":164980,"date":"2024-05-30T08:33:09","date_gmt":"2024-05-30T08:33:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=164980"},"modified":"2024-07-08T09:12:31","modified_gmt":"2024-07-08T09:12:31","slug":"por-que-el-matrimonio-es-tan-dificil","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/por-que-el-matrimonio-es-tan-dificil\/","title":{"rendered":"El matrimonio es dif\u00edcil porque esperamos que sea coser y cantar"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cI\u2019m getting married!\u201d<\/em><\/strong> Esos d\u00edas gritaba a todo el mundo y ense\u00f1aba extasiada mi anillo de compromiso. Pasaron unos meses y lleg\u00f3 el gran d\u00eda, estaba tan emocionada y aliviada al mismo tiempo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Por fin se hab\u00eda acabado el interminable juego del amor, y yo hab\u00eda ganado. Borr\u00e9 todas las aplicaciones de citas y me alegr\u00e9 mucho de haber dejado de conocer gente nueva y de tener citas dif\u00edciles. Al tener tambi\u00e9n una exitosa carrera en finanzas, pens\u00e9 Lo ten\u00eda todo calculado <\/em><\/strong>(\u00a1Y me equivoqu\u00e9!).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cuento de hadas<\/strong> <\/em><\/strong>influencias colorearon mi visi\u00f3n del futuro<\/strong> (\u2026<\/strong>y vivieron felices para siempre<\/em><\/strong>r <\/strong>\ud83d\ude00), and did not prepare me for the stark reality. You’ll be amused to hear about the first two weeks of my marriage after the honeymoon!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWho are you and what have you done to my hubby!\u201d<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"hombre<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

I couldn\u2019t recognize the grumpy face on a Monday morning<\/strong> apresur\u00e1ndome a salir del ba\u00f1o para que \u00e9l pudiera ducharse. Nos desencaden\u00e1bamos con facilidad y nos pele\u00e1bamos por las cosas m\u00e1s insignificantes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Por ejemplo: Yo me quedaba hasta tarde y hasta el m\u00e1s m\u00ednimo ruido, como servir un vaso de agua, le imped\u00eda dormir. Tambi\u00e9n discut\u00edamos por la comida: a m\u00ed me gustaba el br\u00f3coli, \u00e9l lo detestaba, etc\u00e9tera.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00bfQu\u00e9 pas\u00f3 con el hombre tranquilo y comprensivo con el que sol\u00eda salir?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Para abreviar, s\u00f3lo dir\u00e9 que llam\u00e9 a mi amiga abogada y le ped\u00ed que me aconsejara sobre c\u00f3mo puedo anular mi matrimonio si as\u00ed lo decido.<\/strong> Jajaja, esos d\u00edas parecen tan divertidos ahora.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Despu\u00e9s de darle muchas vueltas, segu\u00eda sin tener ni idea de c\u00f3mo hacerlo funcionar. As\u00ed que ped\u00ed consejo a algunas parejas experimentadas de mi familia y me dijeron que cualquier relaci\u00f3n requiere esfuerzo y compromiso<\/strong>especialmente el que llamamos matrimonio.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI need a marriage manual\u201d<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

I still believe new couples really need a marriage manual. Yeah, and the exam too \u2013 it should be part of the ceremony: everyone would first have para mostrar sus habilidades matrimoniales<\/strong>. They would be allowed to proceed with the vows only if they passed the \u201cexam\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I\u2019m just kidding! On the other hand, I wouldn\u2019t complain if someone handed me some useful instructions at the time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

That way, I would know how to communicate our disagreements properly. I would convince my husband to stop leaving dirty socks all over the place. He would be able to unpack the toothpaste properly \u2013 la caja ir\u00eda al cubo de la basura en lugar de dejarla sobre el fregadero.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Adem\u00e1s, ser\u00eda capaz de ense\u00f1arle a fregar los platos despu\u00e9s de cenar por s\u00ed mismo, sin que yo tuviera que gritarle para record\u00e1rselo. No solo eso, sino que tambi\u00e9n sabr\u00eda convivir con mis defectos y mis lados buenos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cIt has to age well!\u201d<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"Pareja<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Everyone\u2019s personality is quite complex and he might have some funny habits you\u2019re unable to spot before you spend several years living together. Then you\u2019ll need to learn to accept some and talk openly about others. Necesitas paciencia y mucho trabajo, querida.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Est\u00e9 preparado para embrace all sides of his unique personality, and learn to live with those you can\u2019t change.<\/strong> As long as your relationship is based on solid foundations, mutual respect, and love, you\u2019ll overcome the challenges, grow together, and evolve into compatible life partners.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

El matrimonio debe sentirse como un puerto tranquilo o un santuario de las preocupaciones, el estr\u00e9s y las luchas cotidianas<\/strong>. That kind of support is not easy to achieve \u2013 it requires time, effort, and huge commitment.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Lo creas o no, con el tiempo, mi marido y yo nos adaptamos bien a nuestra vida juntos <\/strong>(it wasn\u2019t easy, trust me).<\/strong> A veces cerraba los ojos al verle dejar los platos sucios en la encimera de la cocina. Se compr\u00f3 tapones para los o\u00eddos, as\u00ed que pude disfrutar despreocupadamente de las tardes de tiempo para m\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hace poco encontr\u00e9 un Correo electr\u00f3nico:<\/a> en Quora en el hilo \u201cYou don’t truly know a person until they don’t get what they want?\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Una mujer llamada Tesrallyn comparti\u00f3 su opini\u00f3n sobre lo que significa conocer de verdad a alguien. Debo admitir que me sorprendi\u00f3 la perspicacia que deber\u00eda ser tan obvia: las personas suelen tener la cara p\u00fablica y la privada.<\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n\n

So we all behave in one way when interacting with coworkers or people on the street \u2013 that\u2019s the public face. Then there\u2019s the private face shown only to close people and family. To my surprise there is the third type as well \u2013 the lover’s face revealed only to your significant other<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Despu\u00e9s de mi experiencia de casarme sin haber vivido juntos antes, debo estar totalmente de acuerdo con su consejo:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cBefore you marry anyone, I recommend living with them for at least a year, before you go through with the wedding. Why? To make sure that you can stand living with them the rest of your life. To see if there\u2019s red flags you may have missed before, because you were too busy being in love to see them (how does he treat animals? children? etc.)\u201d<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Al menos para saltarse la desagradable sorpresa, a\u00f1adir\u00eda yo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Me encantar\u00eda conocer su opini\u00f3n. As\u00ed que no dudes en comentar nuestro P\u00e1gina de Facebook<\/a>.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

\u201cI\u2019m getting married!\u201d I screamed to everyone on those days and showed off my engagement ring ecstatically. Fast forward a few months and the big day was there, I was so excited and relieved at the same time. An endless game of love was finally over, and I won. I deleted all the dating apps…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":164984,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29623],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-164980","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-marriage"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29623,"label":"marriage"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/Marriage-Is-Hard-Because-We-Expect-It-To-Be-A-Breeze-1024x576.jpg",1024,576,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29623,"name":"marriage","slug":"marriage","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29623,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Establishing a happy marriage is not an easy task. Learning how to recognize red flags and deal with issues will help you make your marriage successful.","parent":29620,"count":474,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29623,"category_count":474,"category_description":"Establishing a happy marriage is not an easy task. Learning how to recognize red flags and deal with issues will help you make your marriage successful.","cat_name":"marriage","category_nicename":"marriage","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/164980","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=164980"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/164980\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":164985,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/164980\/revisions\/164985"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/164984"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=164980"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=164980"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=164980"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}