{"id":164997,"date":"2024-05-31T07:45:51","date_gmt":"2024-05-31T07:45:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=164997"},"modified":"2024-05-31T07:45:52","modified_gmt":"2024-05-31T07:45:52","slug":"la-abuela-se-nego-a-hacer-de-canguro-gratis","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/la-abuela-se-nego-a-hacer-de-canguro-gratis\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00bfDebe exigirse a los abuelos que hagan de canguro gratis?"},"content":{"rendered":"

My best childhood days always return me to the same place \u2013 my grandparents\u2019 house. I can still remember the coziness of their old armchair next to the fireplace. The sound of fire cracking and the smell of freshly baked cookies will forever be engraved in my mind.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pas\u00e9 bastante tiempo all\u00ed y me di cuenta de que mis abuelos ser\u00edan ricos hoy si les pagaran cada vez que me cuidan<\/strong>! I am sure they did it out of love, but still\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00bfSab\u00eda que alrededor de 60% de los abuelos de EE.UU. cuidan regularmente de sus nietos?<\/strong><\/a> Aunque esto no resulte chocante, el hecho de que menos del 8% de ellos cobran por ello <\/strong>\u00a1seguro que s\u00ed!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Todo el mundo sabe que lo que m\u00e1s quiere a sus beb\u00e9s en el mundo entero. Sin embargo, imag\u00ednate criar a tus hijos, trabajar duro toda tu vida y, cuando por fin te jubilas, alguien espera que hagas de canguro gratis.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I would be one pissed-off grandma no matter how much I love those kids, that\u2019s for sure! One woman started a whole discussion on the internet\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00bfSoy razonable por esperar que mi madre haga de canguro gratis?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Imagina un d\u00eda en el que los usuarios de Reddit se pongan por fin de acuerdo sobre alg\u00fan tema. Podr\u00eda parecer otro episodio de Misi\u00f3n imposible<\/em>, but we are living in that moment right now. I know, I also couldn\u2019t believe it! Wonder what\u2019s the topic?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Una mujer se volvi\u00f3 hacia Reddit<\/a> para obtener una opini\u00f3n sobre un drama familiar. Aparentemente, su madre se neg\u00f3 a cuidar de su reci\u00e9n nacido<\/strong>. Grandmother said she was too old for that and had already done her part by raising her children (preach). This didn\u2019t sit right with a woman so she wrote:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cShe also added that if I really wanted this baby, then maybe I should have thought about staying home like she did to take care of it while my partner goes to work and provides for us like a “traditional” family, and that if she and my dad were able to work it out, so can we.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Mam\u00e1 explic\u00f3 que las cosas son dif\u00edciles despu\u00e9s de la pandemia y que can\u2019t survive on one income<\/strong> so she needs to go back to work. When you\u2019re the one making more money, you can\u2019t afford to be a stay-at-home mom. She continued:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cI as the higher breadwinner, have an internal obligation to go back to work since not only I have the most at stake, I also make the most to keep our family afloat. We are currently in a small, 1-bedroom apartment in a metropolitan area, and would need to save money to move to a 2-bedroom once the baby grows up in a couple of years as we will need more space.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Grandma couldn\u2019t say no to her daughter after all, but pidi\u00f3 que le pagaran por hacer de canguro.<\/strong> Adem\u00e1s, quer\u00eda que le proporcionaran todo lo que el beb\u00e9 pudiera necesitar, como una silla de coche, un cochecito y mucho m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Termin\u00f3 el post preguntando:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cSo, AITA for wanting my mom, who again is at home all day long (trust me, she does not do anything besides watch TV and cook meals), to take care of my baby for free while me and my partner try to fix our finances?\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Ella lo pidi\u00f3, \u00a1y los usuarios de Reddit cumplieron!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The final Reddit\u2019s verdict is that\u2026<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Grandparents are not obligated to take care of their grandchildren! Even though they might have a lot of free time on their hands it doesn\u2019t mean they should spend it on working. And I totally agree!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Esas personas trabajaron toda su vida y se ganaron su jubilaci\u00f3n, as\u00ed que que hagan lo que quieran con su tiempo libre.<\/strong> If they want to sleep all day long and do nothing, it\u2019s their choice! One user wrote:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cIt\u2019s generous of her to be willing to do it for pay, and you have the gall to be mad she won\u2019t do it for free? She is entitled to spend her life and free time however the hell she wants. It\u2019s not her fault you\u2019re in debt and decided to have a baby you can\u2019t afford.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Mucha gente juzg\u00f3 a la madre por no asumir la responsabilidad y prepararse econ\u00f3micamente antes de tener un hijo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00a1Los ni\u00f1os son caros! Estudios<\/a> demostrar que el coste de criar a un ni\u00f1o en 2024 rondar\u00e1 los $306.924<\/strong> para familias con ingresos medios. \u00a1Y esto s\u00f3lo hasta que el ni\u00f1o tenga 17 a\u00f1os! As\u00ed que si est\u00e1s pensando en tener hijos, \u00a1pi\u00e9nsatelo dos veces!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Although all grandparents love spending time with their grandchildren (this is universal, right?), we need to understand their point of view too! We shouldn\u2019t be entitled to think we have free daycare just because our parents are retired and \u201chave nothing better to do\u201d. Trust me, they do.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If there\u2019s a simple, single solution to most of the problems humans face, it must be communication! Debate abierto sobre nuestras expectativas<\/strong> con nuestra pareja y familia antes de tomar grandes decisiones puede ahorrarnos muchos quebraderos de cabeza. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00bfCu\u00e1l es su veredicto sobre esta cuesti\u00f3n? Comparta su opini\u00f3n en los comentarios.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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