{"id":165019,"date":"2024-05-31T15:59:22","date_gmt":"2024-05-31T15:59:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=165019"},"modified":"2024-05-31T15:59:22","modified_gmt":"2024-05-31T15:59:22","slug":"preguntas-de-la-generacion-z-dating-millennials","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/preguntas-de-la-generacion-z-dating-millennials\/","title":{"rendered":"Una mujer de la Generaci\u00f3n Z se cuestiona su decisi\u00f3n de salir con millenials tras recibir este mensaje"},"content":{"rendered":"

Recuerdo una vez que estaba chateando con un millennial. Era horrible enviando mensajes de texto, sin emojis, gifs, \u00a1nada! Siempre estaba tratando de descifrar sus sentimientos detr\u00e1s de los mensajes<\/strong> que me enviaba. Es seguro decir que nunca pude relajarme del todo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Although there wasn\u2019t much chemistry going on, I decided to go out with him and give him a chance because he seemed sweet. God, I made such a mistake.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I never expected a few years of age gap would be such a challenge! He didn\u2019t understand any of the slang I\u2019m used to saying so I spent half of our date just explaining Gen Z terms to him. I felt like a fricking dictionary!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And just imagine my pain when he said he never used TikTok. Great, I thought, now I can\u2019t even reference viral trends and he won\u2019t understand my humor!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

As\u00ed que s\u00ed, despu\u00e9s de esta fecha me di cuenta de que maybe Gen Z and millennials aren\u2019t so compatible<\/strong> after all. However, it turns out I\u2019m not alone in this thought\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cIs he a bad texter or is he 35?\u201d<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Una creadora de TikTok, Elizabeth Castaldi dividi\u00f3 internet con sus 7 segundos de v\u00eddeo<\/a>\u00a1! Ella fue a una cita con un hombre de 35 a\u00f1os y termin\u00f3 conmocionada tras recibir su mensaje al d\u00eda siguiente<\/strong>. Imag\u00ednate despertarte al d\u00eda siguiente de tu cita todo emocionado s\u00f3lo para recibir este mensaje:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cHey, had fun last night. Have a good day.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n

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\"mujer<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

Yeah, I would be confused too, but maybe that\u2019s only because I\u2019m Gen Z too? Well, after all, un simple emoji nunca hace da\u00f1o a nadie<\/strong>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Honestly, he had me in the first half. But then what\u2019s with this passive-aggressive second sentence? I feel like even the emoji wouldn\u2019t be able to save it from sounding so formal.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Elizabeth caus\u00f3 todo el guerra entre la Generaci\u00f3n Z y los millennials<\/strong> in the comments! Her peers related to her saying he\u2019s texting with that pap\u00e1 energ\u00eda<\/em>. Algunas incluso compartieron sus luchas de intentos desesperados por descifrar los mensajes de sus novios millennials.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Otros, sin embargo, se pusieron del lado de sus compa\u00f1eros milenarios:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201c35 here. I see no issue with that. Because it’s what I send. I want to gauge if you had a good time. To set up another date.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

They also said she shouldn\u2019t overthink it because it\u2019s simply the way they text everyone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Este TikTok tambi\u00e9n fue una llamada de atenci\u00f3n porque algunas personas se dieron cuenta de que se estaban haciendo mayores ya que they genuinely didn\u2019t understand what was wrong<\/strong> con el mensaje.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Muchos millennials en los comentarios (benditos sean) fueron incluso lo suficientemente valientes como para aceptar su destino y simplemente pedir consejo sobre c\u00f3mo enviar mejor los mensajes de texto. Los usuarios de la generaci\u00f3n Z, por supuesto, salvaron el d\u00eda con todos sus consejos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ya que Elizabeth intrig\u00f3 a todo el mundo con su vida amorosa, \u00a1era justo dar a los dem\u00e1s una continuaci\u00f3n de su historia!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Despu\u00e9s de todo, algunos textos no son tan dif\u00edciles de descifrar<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

She admitted she didn\u2019t mind the first message as much but she was confused if he wanted to see her again. Without waiting for her date to break the ice, ella<\/strong> sigui\u00f3 el consejo de sus seguidores y le invit\u00f3 a salir<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

En este punto, me convert\u00ed en tan invertido, pero por suerte, ella comparti\u00f3 otra TikTok<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n

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\"manos<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

Tras expresarle su deseo de verle el mi\u00e9rcoles, \u00e9l respondi\u00f3:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cNext week might be a little crazy with work as I have some deals closing. Basically not sure I\u2019d be able to make it to RI. So maybe we play it by ear a little.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Okay, let\u2019s address the elephant in the room \u2013 \u201cplay it by ear\u201d<\/em>? I mean, who speaks like that to their date?! This is probably Gen Z speaking out of me, but still\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Despu\u00e9s de ver esta conversaci\u00f3n, sus seguidores finalmente se pusieron de acuerdo<\/strong> \u2013 he\u2019s not interested. One girl gave her friendly advice:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cIf he\u2019s not organizing a second date it\u2019s simple, he\u2019s not interested in you, and that\u2019s ok, move on girl.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

It looks like sometimes some texts send a clear message, we just need to open our eyes and be real with ourselves. However, even if you\u2019re dating someone with an age gap, don\u2019t lose hope! <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Siempre puedes ens\u00e9\u00f1ales a enviar mejores mensajes de texto y a ser directos con tus necesidades<\/strong>. If they really care about you, sending an emoji here and there, and leaving formal texting for work colleagues shouldn\u2019t be an issue!<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I remember this one time when I was chatting with a millennial guy. He was awful at texting, no emojis, gifs, nothing! I was always trying to decode his feelings behind the messages he sent me. Safe to say I could never fully relax. Although there wasn\u2019t much chemistry going on, I decided to go…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":165043,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29814],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-165019","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29814,"label":"Stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/Gen-Z-Woman-Questions-Her-Decision-To-Date-Millenials-After-Receiving-This-Message-1024x678.jpg",1024,678,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29814,"name":"Stories","slug":"stories","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29814,"taxonomy":"category","description":"","parent":29651,"count":242,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29814,"category_count":242,"category_description":"","cat_name":"Stories","category_nicename":"stories","category_parent":29651}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/165019","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=165019"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/165019\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":165049,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/165019\/revisions\/165049"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/165043"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=165019"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=165019"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=165019"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}