{"id":16507,"date":"2018-03-15T13:52:22","date_gmt":"2018-03-15T13:52:22","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=16507"},"modified":"2022-02-26T11:42:49","modified_gmt":"2022-02-26T11:42:49","slug":"fuiste-mi-leccion-mas-dura","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/fuiste-mi-leccion-mas-dura\/","title":{"rendered":"T\u00fa fuiste mi lecci\u00f3n m\u00e1s dura"},"content":{"rendered":"

Cuando llegaste a mi vida por primera vez, estaba seguro de que <\/span>fuiste mi bendici\u00f3n.<\/b> Eras todo por lo que siempre hab\u00eda rezado. <\/span><\/p>\n

You were smart, interesting, handsome and mature. I thought I\u2019d finally found my other half, my soulmate. For the first time ever, my life made perfect sense with you in it. <\/span><\/p>\n

T\u00fa me completaste<\/span>\u2014<\/span>you were the missing part of the puzzle. I\u2019d met someone who understood me, who took care of me and who was always by my side, no matter what. <\/span><\/p>\n

Pero sobre todo, ten\u00eda a alguien que me quer\u00eda incondicionalmente. Al menos eso cre\u00eda yo. Consideraba que su amor por m\u00ed era de otro mundo. <\/span><\/p>\n

Los dos \u00e9ramos una pareja hecha en el cielo.<\/span>\u2014<\/span>El destino debi\u00f3 enviarte a m\u00ed, no hab\u00eda otra explicaci\u00f3n.<\/span><\/p>\n

And then everything changed overnight. Actually, you changed and it probably didn\u2019t happen overnight or maybe you showed your true face? <\/span><\/p>\n

En cualquier caso, me despert\u00e9 una ma\u00f1ana y supe que nuestra relaci\u00f3n estaba condenada. Pero segu\u00ed luchando para mantenerla viva. Segu\u00ed luchando contra ti. Pero nada ayud\u00f3. <\/span><\/p>\n

Te volviste distante y emocionalmente abusivo. Dejaste de demostrarme lo mucho que te importaba<\/span>\u2014<\/span>probablemente porque dej\u00f3 de importarte. <\/span><\/p>\n

I realized that you had been too good to be true in the beginning and I\u2019d finally seen your true colors. You\u2019d become selfish and controlling and then all the affairs started. <\/span><\/p>\n

But I didn\u2019t leave you even then. I lost all the confidence I had and I just waited for you to go back to your old ways. I wasn\u2019t stupid<\/span>\u2014<\/span>Sab\u00eda que me enga\u00f1abas, pero me negaba a aceptar la verdad. <\/span><\/p>\n

I was ready to stay by your side, although it killed me knowing I wasn\u2019t the only one for you. I reassured myself that you only loved me and that not one of these girls were important to you. Until one day, you left me for one of them. <\/span><\/p>\n

Y rompiste todo mi mundo al hacerlo.<\/span><\/p>\n

Cuando me dejaste, <\/span>Pens\u00e9 que era una maldici\u00f3n.<\/b> Pens\u00e9 que era lo peor que me pod\u00eda pasar. \u00bfQu\u00e9 hab\u00eda hecho para merecer algo as\u00ed? <\/span><\/p>\n

Why couldn\u2019t you love me? I did everything right but even that wasn\u2019t enough. Fate had given you to me just to show me what love was. And having to live without you was my curse. <\/span><\/p>\n

Para m\u00ed, mi vida hab\u00eda llegado a su fin<\/span>\u2014<\/span>ya no ten\u00eda prop\u00f3sito ni sentido. <\/span><\/p>\n

When you left, you didn\u2019t just take yourself away from me<\/span>\u2014<\/span>te llevaste mi coraz\u00f3n contigo<\/span><\/a> y no ten\u00eda esperanzas de un ma\u00f1ana mejor. <\/span><\/p>\n

Estaba destrozada, rota en pedazos y nunca imagin\u00e9 que podr\u00eda recuperarme. Me pasaba los d\u00edas esperando a que volvieras, a pesar de c\u00f3mo me tratabas y a pesar de c\u00f3mo me dejaste. <\/span><\/p>\n

That is a period of my life I don\u2019t remember gladly. I just know that I didn\u2019t see the light at the end of the tunnel until one morning, you weren\u2019t the first thing that crossed my mind. <\/span><\/p>\n

And when I realized that during the day, I was ecstatic. I didn\u2019t know how or why it happened but I hoped that I was about to begin my path to recovery. <\/span><\/p>\n

And I was right. It wasn\u2019t easy and it wasn\u2019t fast but it happened. I got over you and I moved on.<\/span><\/p>\n

Y <\/span>ahora me doy cuenta de que no eras ni una bendici\u00f3n ni una maldici\u00f3n. Fuiste una lecci\u00f3n<\/a> Tuve que aprender. <\/b><\/p>\n

I still believe that everything happens for a reason. And you were sent to my life for a reason. Although I don\u2019t think that my life is meaningless without you anymore, I am sure that your existence in it had a bigger purpose. <\/span><\/p>\n

If it weren\u2019t for you, I would never have learned how strong I actually am. You leaving me has made me a lot tougher and braver. Now I know that if I can get over you, I can also take whatever life throws at me.<\/span><\/p>\n

If it weren\u2019t for you, I would never have learned that I shouldn\u2019t believe everyone from the very start. <\/span><\/p>\n

Antes de conocerte, daba por sentado que todos los que me rodeaban eran honestos y no ten\u00edan malas intenciones. <\/span><\/p>\n

Pero despu\u00e9s de ti, me di cuenta de que existen personas malas a las que les gusta fingir que son algo que no son. Hay gente que disfruta jugando con los dem\u00e1s y que disfruta haciendo desgraciados a los dem\u00e1s. T\u00fa eres una de esas personas. <\/span><\/p>\n

If it weren\u2019t for you, I would never have learned that I should never put so much love, effort and patience into someone who doesn\u2019t do the same for me.<\/span><\/p>\n

If it weren\u2019t for you, I would never have known what it is that I don\u2019t want from life.<\/span><\/p>\n

If it weren\u2019t for you, I would have spent the rest of my life without knowing what true love is all about.<\/span><\/p>\n

If it weren\u2019t for you, I would never <\/span>he aprendido a quererme<\/span><\/a>. When you left, I had this enormous amount of love I didn\u2019t know what to do with. <\/span><\/p>\n

Segu\u00ed buscando a alguien a quien dar mi amor, hasta que me di cuenta de que primero ten\u00eda que d\u00e1rmelo a m\u00ed misma, antes de amar a nadie m\u00e1s.<\/span><\/p>\n

As\u00ed que, gracias por entrar en mi vida. Pero a\u00fan m\u00e1s, gracias por dejarla. Y <\/span>thank you for teaching me a lesson I\u2019d never have learned otherwise.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"T\u00fa <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

When you came in to my life for the first time, I was sure that you were my blessing. You were everything I had always prayed for. You were smart, interesting, handsome and mature. I thought I\u2019d finally found my other half, my soulmate. For the first time ever, my life made perfect sense with…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":16509,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16507","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/timothy-barlin-439512-unsplash.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16507","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16507"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16507\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/16509"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16507"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16507"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16507"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}