{"id":16511,"date":"2020-06-15T14:33:28","date_gmt":"2020-06-15T14:33:28","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=16511"},"modified":"2021-08-11T14:21:23","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T14:21:23","slug":"esto-es-lo-que-pasa-cuando-una-chica-fuerte-baja-la-guardia-por-amor-de-verdad","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/esto-es-lo-que-pasa-cuando-una-chica-fuerte-baja-la-guardia-por-amor-de-verdad\/","title":{"rendered":"Esto es lo que pasa cuando una chica fuerte baja la guardia por amor de verdad"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Un hecho bien conocido es que la mayor\u00eda de los hombres huyen cuando oyen que una chica se ha caracterizado por ser fuerte e independiente. Simplemente hay algunos<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/10-cualidades-que-una-mujer-fuerte-no-puede-soportar\/\"> qualities of strong women that men can\u2019t handle<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Men with fragile egos will always feel intimidated by these types of girls, because they are afraid they won\u2019t be able to handle them. They are scared because they think they will feel inferior next to them.<\/p>\n<p>A man might assume that a strong girl is stubborn, selfish and that she doesn\u2019t know what real love is. He will think she is self-centered and that she only thinks about her success.<\/p>\n<p>Da la impresi\u00f3n de que es dif\u00edcil acercarse a ella y de que tiene un alto nivel de exigencia que no est\u00e1 dispuesta a rebajar tan f\u00e1cilmente.<\/p>\n<p>But what people don\u2019t know is what happens when a strong girl lets her guard down.<\/p>\n<p>What they don\u2019t know is that most of these strong girls who appear to have no emotions were hurt in the past by the people nearest to them. And it happened more times than they could count.<\/p>\n<p>What they don\u2019t know is that this strong girl was not always like this. She used to be a sensitive, loving and caring girl, who was ready to give her time and support to everyone.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96316\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/beautiful-brunette-wearing-sweatshirt.jpg\" alt=\"hermosa morena con sudadera\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/beautiful-brunette-wearing-sweatshirt.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/beautiful-brunette-wearing-sweatshirt-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/beautiful-brunette-wearing-sweatshirt-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/beautiful-brunette-wearing-sweatshirt-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/beautiful-brunette-wearing-sweatshirt-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Era una chica que cre\u00eda que hab\u00eda algo bueno en todo el mundo, una chica que cre\u00eda en el poder del amor, capaz de superar todos los obst\u00e1culos. Por desgracia para ella, confiaba mucho en la gente.<\/p>\n<p>Simplemente asum\u00eda que todo el mundo era como ella y que todos ten\u00edan buenas intenciones.<\/p>\n<p>And most of all, she trusted men too much. When she loved a man, she would give him her entire self. But most of them didn\u2019t appreciate her sacrifices and the effort she was making for them.<\/p>\n<p>None of them appreciated her love. So they caused her a lot of pain\u2014a lot more than she could bear.<\/p>\n<p>La enga\u00f1aron, la manipularon, le mintieron, intentaron cambiarla y controlarla y abusaron emocionalmente de ella.<\/p>\n<p><strong>As\u00ed que ya tuvo suficiente.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ya estaba harta de que la gente, sobre todo los hombres, la maltrataran y <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bustle.com\/articles\/162597-11-signs-youre-being-taken-for-granted-in-your-relationship\" rel=\"noopener\">d\u00e1ndola por sentada.<\/a> She had enough of those who didn\u2019t deserve her, so she decided to give up\u2014to give up on love and to give up on herself.<\/p>\n<p>She changed. She became just like them\u2014cold and closed. She built high walls around herself and she decided not to let anyone in.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96318\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/close-up-of-beautiful-blonde-woman.jpg\" alt=\"primer plano de hermosa mujer rubia\" width=\"800\" height=\"535\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/close-up-of-beautiful-blonde-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/close-up-of-beautiful-blonde-woman-300x201.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/close-up-of-beautiful-blonde-woman-768x514.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/close-up-of-beautiful-blonde-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/close-up-of-beautiful-blonde-woman-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>Decidi\u00f3 esperar al amor verdadero.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Decidi\u00f3 esperar a alguien que curara todas sus heridas. A alguien que la quisiera tal como era, aunque estuviera rota.<\/p>\n<p>Por un hombre que le diera su amor y apoyo incondicionales. Decidi\u00f3 esperar un <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/man-thinks-worthy-will-come-along\/\">hombre que pensara que ella era digna<\/a>. &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Y cuando ese hombre finalmente llegue, ella mostrar\u00e1 su verdadero yo.<\/p>\n<p>At first, she\u2019ll appear hard to get. But that doesn\u2019t mean that she will play with him for her ego. She is only careful because life taught her to be like that.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Pero <\/strong><b>cuando decida que hay un hombre digno de ella, le dar\u00e1 todo lo que tiene.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>No digo que vaya a ser f\u00e1cil. Tendr\u00e1 que tener mucha paciencia para que ella le crea.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96319\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/people-woman-girl-clothing-eye.jpg\" alt=\"gente mujer chica ropa ojo\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/people-woman-girl-clothing-eye.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/people-woman-girl-clothing-eye-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/people-woman-girl-clothing-eye-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/people-woman-girl-clothing-eye-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/people-woman-girl-clothing-eye-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Esta chica ha pasado por mucho y necesitar\u00e1 tiempo antes de sentir que puede volver a confiar en alguien. Pero una vez que lo haga, se entregar\u00e1 a \u00e9l por completo.<\/p>\n<p>Tendr\u00e1 que esforzarse mucho para ganarse su confianza. Aprendi\u00f3 a no confiar en nadie antes de que le demuestre que es digno de confianza.<\/p>\n<p>Pero una vez que se gane su confianza, ella le confiar\u00e1 su vida. Pondr\u00e1 todas sus esperanzas en este hombre.<\/p>\n<p>Necesitar\u00e1 tiempo antes de que ella llegue a quererle. Ha aprendido a ser muy cuidadosa y a no entregar su coraz\u00f3n a cualquiera.<\/p>\n<p>But once she loves him, that won\u2019t be the half-assed love he is used to. She will love him with all of her heart, a way no other woman ever loved him. He will have no doubt that he is the most loved man on the planet.<\/p>\n<p>Y cuando eso ocurra, todo lo pasado habr\u00e1 merecido la pena.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00ed, probablemente esta chica parece desafiante y dif\u00edcil de manejar. Y s\u00ed, cuando llegue un hombre de verdad, tendr\u00e1 que invertir mucho para conquistarla.<\/p>\n<p>But, trust me\u2014she\u2019ll know how to recognize him and she will give him everything back and more.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-96320 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/This-Is-What-Happens-When-A-Strong-Girl-Lets-Her-Guard-Down-For-Real-Love-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Esto es lo que pasa cuando una chica fuerte baja la guardia por amor de verdad\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/This-Is-What-Happens-When-A-Strong-Girl-Lets-Her-Guard-Down-For-Real-Love-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/This-Is-What-Happens-When-A-Strong-Girl-Lets-Her-Guard-Down-For-Real-Love-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/This-Is-What-Happens-When-A-Strong-Girl-Lets-Her-Guard-Down-For-Real-Love-Pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/This-Is-What-Happens-When-A-Strong-Girl-Lets-Her-Guard-Down-For-Real-Love-Pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/This-Is-What-Happens-When-A-Strong-Girl-Lets-Her-Guard-Down-For-Real-Love-Pinterest-1448x2048.jpg 1448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/This-Is-What-Happens-When-A-Strong-Girl-Lets-Her-Guard-Down-For-Real-Love-Pinterest-150x212.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/This-Is-What-Happens-When-A-Strong-Girl-Lets-Her-Guard-Down-For-Real-Love-Pinterest.jpg 1587w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A well-known fact is that most men run away when they hear a girl has been characterized as strong and independent. There are simply some qualities of strong women that men can\u2019t handle. Men with fragile egos will always feel intimidated by these types of girls, because they are afraid they won\u2019t be able to&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":96321,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16511","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/This-Is-What-Happens-When-A-Strong-Girl-Lets-Her-Guard-Down-For-Real-Love.jpg",800,550,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":1,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16511","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16511"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16511\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/96321"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16511"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16511"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16511"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}