{"id":16520,"date":"2020-09-16T08:58:01","date_gmt":"2020-09-16T08:58:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=16520"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:49:15","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:49:15","slug":"deja-de-romper-tu-propio-corazon-el-no-va-a-cambiar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/deja-de-romper-tu-propio-corazon-el-no-va-a-cambiar\/","title":{"rendered":"Deja de romperte el coraz\u00f3n - \u00c9l no va a cambiar"},"content":{"rendered":"

S\u00e9 que te has convencido de que las cosas saldr\u00e1n de otra manera.<\/p>\n

I know you believe it from the bottom of your heart, that you actually want things to change. But unfortunately, we don\u2019t always get the things we want in life.<\/p>\n

S\u00e9 que tu amor te at\u00f3 a este hombre. S\u00e9 que el amor que sientes a veces te da alas, pero la mayor\u00eda de las veces te encadena.<\/p>\n

S\u00e9 que todo tu cuerpo se paraliza cuando piensas en dejarlo.<\/p>\n

El v\u00f3rtice de toxicidad te ha arrastrado demasiado profundo y salir de \u00e9l es ahora como una misi\u00f3n imposible para ti.<\/p>\n

I also know you go through hell on a daily basis and that you handle it all with a smile. The love you feel isn\u2019t healthy.<\/p>\n

The love you\u2019re feeling is breaking you because he\u2019s playing the love card just so he\u2019ll be able to use you.<\/p>\n

\"morena<\/p>\n

But it\u2019s not love when all you get are crumbs of affections, words without actions and tears rolling down your face each night.<\/p>\n

God, how can you not see that love is so much more and you\u2019re worth so much more?<\/strong><\/p>\n

I hate to break it to you but you won\u2019t be able to live like this for long now.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t notice it because you are refusing to open your eyes but even if you don\u2019t want to see it, the fact that your soul is getting drained more and more each day stays.<\/p>\n

And the worst part is you have nothing to refill it with because the one person who should do that is the one who\u2019s killing you. And you call it love.<\/p>\n

Believe me when I tell you that being alone is always a better decision than being with someone who\u2019s sucking the life out of you.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s taking everything and he\u2019s not giving anything in return. That\u2019s qu\u00e9 ego\u00edsta es<\/a>. Y piensa en cu\u00e1nto tiempo has estado dejando que se salga con la suya.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

How long will you be the only one dragging your relationship forward and sacrificing everything for someone who isn\u2019t worth it?<\/p>\n

You\u2019re holding on by a thread. All your hopes are stuck on this picture you have of your future and how things could be but unfortunately it\u2019s only you who sees that.<\/p>\n

And it\u2019s just an illusion. It\u2019s a mirage only you see and trust me when I say that it won\u2019t take long before it disappears, before he does something to shatter it into millions of pieces.<\/p>\n

After all this time, why won\u2019t you open your eyes?  <\/strong>Why can\u2019t you realize what is happening in your life? <\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 dejaste que tu coraz\u00f3n te enga\u00f1ara durante tanto tiempo? <\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 necesitas que otra persona te diga las cosas que t\u00fa mismo ya sabes pero te niegas a aceptar?  <\/strong>He isn\u2019t worth it and he will never be.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Algunas personas son tan ego\u00edstas, tan egoc\u00e9ntricas y tan crueles que ning\u00fan tipo de amor ser\u00eda capaz de cambiarlas, y ni mil oportunidades diferentes ni la persona m\u00e1s amable de este mundo conseguir\u00edan que quisieran cambiar.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Darling, you\u2019re just breaking your own heart. Stop pretending your illusions are real.<\/p>\n

Deja de ver las cosas mucho mejor de lo que son. Deja de malgastar tu vida. Te mereces mucho m\u00e1s. Te mereces vive tu vida al m\u00e1ximo<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Mereces recibir al menos tanto amor como das.<\/p>\n

You deserve to be treated with respect and you deserve a man who\u2019ll take you seriously, who\u2019ll plan his future with you and who\u2019ll make promises he actually intends to keep.<\/p>\n

And what you don\u2019t deserve is a manipulative asshole who\u2019s just going to take advantage of your feelings and use you.<\/p>\n

I know you can\u2019t picture your life without him but I swear you will hate yourself when you realize what kind of man you chose to be your life companion or if you stick by this man who did nothing but take everything you had to offer and gave nothing in return.<\/strong><\/p>\n

No matter how much love you give him, no matter how many chances he receives, no matter how much time passes or what you do for him, he isn\u2019t going to see your worth.<\/p>\n

He isn\u2019t going to appreciate you. He isn\u2019t going to respect you or bother to give you what you deserve.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

And I know it breaks your heart but you need to make this stick in your head and it\u2019s better to do it sooner than later.<\/p>\n

The sooner you accept the truth, the more time you\u2019ll have to react. The more time you\u2019ll have to heal your broken heart. <\/strong><\/p>\n

The less time you\u2019re going to be investing in someone who isn\u2019t worth a second of your time.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Stop breaking your own heart by giving all of yourself to someone who doesn\u2019t deserve you.<\/p>\n

Stop hoping that a man who did nothing but hurt you will be able to make you happy in the future. He isn\u2019t the man you\u2019re looking for.<\/p>\n

Mant\u00e9n la cabeza alta, enjuga las l\u00e1grimas de tus mejillas y da gracias a Dios por la lecci\u00f3n que has recibido.<\/p>\n

Ahora sabes lo que no debes buscar en un hombre. Y puedes hacer todas las cosas que hac\u00edas por el tipo equivocado, por el bueno.<\/p>\n

Trust me, there is someone who\u2019ll kiss the ground you\u2019re walking on. Stop settling for less than you deserve.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Deja<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I know you\u2019ve convinced yourself that things will turn out another way. I know you believe it from the bottom of your heart, that you actually want things to change. But unfortunately, we don\u2019t always get the things we want in life. I know your love tied you to this man. I know the love…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":122180,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29617],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16520","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-heartbreak"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29617,"label":"heartbreak"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/Stop-Breaking-Your-Own-Heart-He-Isnt-Going-To-Change-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29617,"name":"heartbreak","slug":"heartbreak","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29617,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. That's why I've decided to collect different stories of heartbreak - to help everyone going through the same.","parent":38,"count":146,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29617,"category_count":146,"category_description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. That's why I've decided to collect different stories of heartbreak - to help everyone going through the same.","cat_name":"heartbreak","category_nicename":"heartbreak","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16520","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16520"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16520\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":163622,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16520\/revisions\/163622"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/122180"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16520"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16520"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16520"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}