{"id":165237,"date":"2024-06-05T07:45:15","date_gmt":"2024-06-05T07:45:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=165237"},"modified":"2024-06-05T07:45:15","modified_gmt":"2024-06-05T07:45:15","slug":"hombre-herido-esposa-no-mostraba-emociones","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/hombre-herido-esposa-no-mostraba-emociones\/","title":{"rendered":"Un hombre sorprendido de que su mujer no le suplicara que se quedara cuando le pidi\u00f3 el divorcio"},"content":{"rendered":"

Women are told that they\u2019re too dramatic their whole life. We\u2019re too sensitive when people hurt us, too emotional when something goes wrong, and doing too much when we\u2019re happy. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Por si fuera poco, los hombres solemos atribuirlo todo a nuestros s\u00edntomas del s\u00edndrome premenstrual y \u201cthat time of the month\u201d<\/em>, and even go so far as to declare us crazy. So, we end up being labeled just because they don\u2019t know how to deal with our emotions!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Los hombres siempre esperan que las mujeres tengan rabietas por un divorcio y hagan un caos<\/strong>, but they don\u2019t know that a divorce for some women is actually a blessing, not a curse.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

When we finally hit rock bottom and can\u2019t tolerate any more nonsense we calmly leave, then everyone\u2019s surprised we didn\u2019t show any emotions. So, who\u2019s the crazy one here?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Divorcio inesperado<\/h2>\n\n\n
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\"mujer<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

Imagine saying to someone you don\u2019t love them anymore but then you feel hurt when they decide to leave. Some people are just incredibly entitled! <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Esto le ocurri\u00f3 exactamente a una mujer que comparti\u00f3 su historia en Reddit<\/a> para desahogarse. Al parecer, su marido lleg\u00f3 a casa un d\u00eda y le dio los papeles del divorcio sin explicaciones. <\/strong>She didn\u2019t even know why as she explains in her post:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cI read them over and asked why, he told me he was in love with somebody else, his co-worker, and wanted to marry her. I said ok and began the process of moving out.\u201d <\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Dijo que por suerte ten\u00eda su casa donde pod\u00eda quedarse, as\u00ed que decidi\u00f3 ir all\u00ed. Tras llevarse todas sus cosas, incluido todo lo que hab\u00eda pagado, simplemente se march\u00f3. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

She was also smart enough to get herself a lawyer to represent her. Since she works at a law firm, her colleague agreed to help her in the process. You would think that this is where the story ends, but actually it\u2019s just starting!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Esperaba que ella luchara por \u00e9l<\/h2>\n\n\n
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\"pareja<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

Aunque su marido fue quien solicit\u00f3 el divorcio, result\u00f3 estar m\u00e1s enfadado que ella. Ella escribi\u00f3:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cMy husband contacted me a couple of weeks ago, angry that I had taken all of my things and moved out. He was even more angry that I didn’t have any emotional response and didn’t \u2018fight for him.\u2019 I explained that there was no use throwing a tantrum about divorce and that I take time to process things.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Esto realmente hiri\u00f3 su ego as\u00ed que la acus\u00f3 de ser fr\u00eda y empez\u00f3 a insultarla<\/strong> in multiple ways. But it didn\u2019t end there. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tras su comparecencia ante el tribunal, continuaron los insultos. No s\u00f3lo la insult\u00f3, sino que le dijo que la enga\u00f1aba...<\/strong> on him with her attorney. She finished her post by saying she\u2019s happy she divorced him even though he now seems to regret it. What a surprise!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00a1Manej\u00f3 el divorcio como una jefa!<\/h2>\n\n\n
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\"hombre<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

Recibir los papeles del divorcio no es una sensaci\u00f3n agradable. Sin embargo, actuar como un loco y desesperado no te llevar\u00e1 a ninguna parte.<\/strong> If anything it can only make the other side more satisfied. That\u2019s why it\u2019s always interesting to see someone surprised because you didn\u2019t react in the way they expected. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This lady set an example of how divorce should be handled! Don\u2019t give them the satisfaction of begging them to stay, because that\u2019s exactly what they want.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Los usuarios de Reddit tambi\u00e9n apoyaron a la mujer diciendo she definitely broke this man\u2019s fragile ego!<\/strong> Alguien coment\u00f3:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cHe leaves you for someone else and then gets mad that you don\u2019t scream and cry for him, not because he would consider changing his mind, but because he wanted the ego boost.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Otros la elogiaron por su confianza y ella incluso respondi\u00f3 diciendo le llev\u00f3 a\u00f1os tener la suficiente confianza<\/strong> actuar as\u00ed y que sus colegas del bufete la ayudaron a fortalecerse. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Al final de esta salvaje experiencia, tambi\u00e9n lleg\u00f3 a la conclusi\u00f3n de que he<\/strong> probablemente estaba celosa de su abogado.<\/strong> A\u00f1adi\u00f3:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cMy colleague is everything that my STBX is not. He has a stable job, owns a house, drives a nice car, is pretty conventionally attractive, and has confidence. I think my STBX is jealous and I didn’t realize that.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Well, this surely explains a lot of things, don\u2019t you think? I even wonder if there ever was a co-worker he wanted to leave her for or if it was part of his plan and intento fallido de hacerla no s\u00f3lo celosa sino tambi\u00e9n desesperada y suplicante.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Or\u2026hear me out! He was just testing the waters and nunca esper\u00e9 que dijera s\u00ed al divorcio <\/strong>sino quedarse a su lado y tolerar su comportamiento de mierda como hacen algunas mujeres. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00bfCu\u00e1l es su opini\u00f3n? \u00bfDeber\u00eda haber reaccionado de otra manera?<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Women are told that they\u2019re too dramatic their whole life. We\u2019re too sensitive when people hurt us, too emotional when something goes wrong, and doing too much when we\u2019re happy.  On top of that, men often attribute all of it to our PMS symptoms and \u201cthat time of the month\u201d, and even go so far…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":165244,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29814],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-165237","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29814,"label":"Stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/Man-Surprised-His-Wife-Didnt-Beg-Him-To-Stay-When-He-Asked-For-Divorce-1024x678.jpg",1024,678,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29814,"name":"Stories","slug":"stories","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29814,"taxonomy":"category","description":"","parent":29651,"count":242,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29814,"category_count":242,"category_description":"","cat_name":"Stories","category_nicename":"stories","category_parent":29651}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/165237","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=165237"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/165237\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":165245,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/165237\/revisions\/165245"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/165244"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=165237"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=165237"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=165237"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}