{"id":165243,"date":"2024-06-05T08:33:09","date_gmt":"2024-06-05T08:33:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=165243"},"modified":"2024-06-05T08:33:13","modified_gmt":"2024-06-05T08:33:13","slug":"banderas-verdes-en-casa-de-los-hombres","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/banderas-verdes-en-casa-de-los-hombres\/","title":{"rendered":"Un terapeuta explica lo que las mujeres consideran banderas verdes en casa de todo hombre"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Estaba planeando nuestra boda en mi cabeza hasta que fui a su casa una noche.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It\u2019s not an exaggeration to say I was shocked! Immediately at the door, I was greeted by his shoes which were everywhere but in the cabinet!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This man\u2019s home looked like nobody lived in it for years! Trash everywhere, piles of dirty dishes in the sink and mess all over the place.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Queridos hombres,<strong> we don\u2019t expect your home to be spotless<\/strong>, ours isn\u2019t either. But not living in a dumpster is definitely a good start! Of course, to be considered a real catch in women\u2019s eyes, you will need more than just a clean living space.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">As\u00ed que.., <strong>what tells a woman you\u2019re a \u2018green flag guy\u2019<\/strong> cuando venga a tu casa?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">El terapeuta Jeff Guenther decidi\u00f3 ayudar a su p\u00fablico masculino y comparti\u00f3 valiosos consejos. Pidi\u00f3 a las mujeres que revelaran cu\u00e1les consideraban que eran esas banderas verdes y las comparti\u00f3 en TikTok.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It\u2019s not surprising that women had a lot to say, so he made a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@therapyjeff\/video\/7372573417175911723?embed_source=121374463%2C121433650%2C121404359%2C121351166%2C121331973%2C120811592%2C120810756%2C72248227%3Bnull%3Bembed_name&amp;refer=embed&amp;referer_url=www.upworthy.com%2Ftherapist-lists-green-flags-women-look-for-when-visiting-a-potential-partners-home&amp;referer_video_id=7372573417175911723\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">v\u00eddeo<\/a> compuesto de los principales comentarios que dejaron. Incluso Jeff piensa que estas cosas son realmente f\u00e1ciles de implementar y podr\u00edan a\u00f1adirse a su hogar en poco tiempo.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Quick and easy improvements she\u2019ll love<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Many things could improve your living space so much. This one can be done in two minutes \u2013 <strong>manta en el sof\u00e1.<\/strong> Las mujeres suelen pasar fr\u00edo, as\u00ed que esta es una soluci\u00f3n perfecta para ello. Adem\u00e1s, puedes aprovecharlo para acurrucarte mientras mantienes a tu reina calentita.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Para que este ambiente sea a\u00fan mejor, <strong>ten a mano una vela o dos.<\/strong> They look and smell nice, women love them, and you\u2019ll be considered a romantic soul! What\u2019s better than that?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Los mimos y las velas podr\u00edan llevarte al dormitorio, as\u00ed que aseg\u00farate de tenerlo todo preparado all\u00ed, como <strong>\u00a1Lindas s\u00e1banas en la cama!<\/strong> Jeff dice que las s\u00e1banas negras o azul marino no son muy atractivas para las mujeres, as\u00ed que puedes destacar f\u00e1cilmente entre los dem\u00e1s con s\u00f3lo incorporar un poco de color a tu casa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/modern-bed-with-grey-sheets.jpg\" alt=\"cama moderna con s\u00e1banas grises\" class=\"wp-image-165256\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/modern-bed-with-grey-sheets.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/modern-bed-with-grey-sheets-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/modern-bed-with-grey-sheets-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/modern-bed-with-grey-sheets-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/modern-bed-with-grey-sheets-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/modern-bed-with-grey-sheets-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/modern-bed-with-grey-sheets-1080x716.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/modern-bed-with-grey-sheets-1200x795.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Estos son los imprescindibles del ba\u00f1o<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When it comes to the bathroom, we\u2019re starting strong with a bidet. Although this wouldn\u2019t come to your mind at first, <strong>bid\u00e9 es en realidad una cosa muy \u00fatil para tener<\/strong> con o sin mujeres en su casa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/White-ceramic-toilet-and-bidet-in-modern-restroom.jpg\" alt=\"Inodoro y bid\u00e9 de cer\u00e1mica blanca en un aseo moderno\" class=\"wp-image-165257\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/White-ceramic-toilet-and-bidet-in-modern-restroom.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/White-ceramic-toilet-and-bidet-in-modern-restroom-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/White-ceramic-toilet-and-bidet-in-modern-restroom-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/White-ceramic-toilet-and-bidet-in-modern-restroom-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/White-ceramic-toilet-and-bidet-in-modern-restroom-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/White-ceramic-toilet-and-bidet-in-modern-restroom-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/White-ceramic-toilet-and-bidet-in-modern-restroom-1080x716.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/White-ceramic-toilet-and-bidet-in-modern-restroom-1200x795.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Unlike the bidet, some things shouldn\u2019t be found in the bathroom like hair on the vanity. We can be guilty of this as well so we understand. However, <strong>intenta mantener el ba\u00f1o limpio y sin los recortes de tu barba<\/strong> <strong>en todas partes<\/strong>al menos antes de tener invitados.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Estos no son los \u00fanicos elementos esenciales que las mujeres desean tener en el cuarto de ba\u00f1o, <strong>productos de \u00e9poca<\/strong> <strong>como compresas y tampones <\/strong>are also nice to have around. You don\u2019t know what to buy? Then ask your girlfriends what they use and buy it all, Jeff advises.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Lo siguiente en la lista es incluso tonto de mencionar, pero Jeff dice:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cHand soap and hand towel in the bathroom. How\u2019s this not already a staple in everyone\u2019s bathroom? On behalf of all men, I apologize. Do better!\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">While we\u2019re already there, <strong>a<\/strong> <strong>papelera<\/strong> <strong>en el cuarto de ba\u00f1o. <\/strong>\u00bfNecesitamos explicarlo?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Las tres primeras banderas verdes<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When you decide to decorate your shelves with candles, here\u2019s one more thing you can add there \u2013 <strong>libros interesantes, \u00a1preferiblemente con autoras! <\/strong>Pero hacer esto s\u00f3lo por echar un polvo, no te llevar\u00e1 muy lejos. \u00a1Queremos ver que realmente lees esos libros!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Now, although you maybe didn\u2019t plan to become a cat dad, this might be a good time to visit an animal shelter. <strong>Los hombres que aman a los animales y cuidan bien de ellos son la bandera verde instant\u00e1nea. <\/strong>Se preguntar\u00e1, \u00bfpor qu\u00e9 espec\u00edficamente un gato?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Well, it\u2019s easy to love a dog who happily greets you at the door every day, loving a cat that\u2019s grumpy 90% of the time is a skill. If you can care well for an animal that barely loves anyone, we\u2019ll probably be happy with you as well.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Lo primero de la lista es tener plantas. <\/strong>Jeff termin\u00f3 el v\u00eddeo diciendo:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cNo surprise to me at all but plants that are alive, preferably plants that are not only alive but are thriving. If the plants are happy to be there, then so are the women.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">En los comentarios, las mujeres se mostraron de acuerdo con todo lo dicho, pero tambi\u00e9n mencionaron que <strong>el<\/strong> <strong>los est\u00e1ndares para los hombres son demasiado bajos.<\/strong> Una mujer coment\u00f3:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cBAR. SOOO. LOW. If any of my female friends couldn\u2019t check all these boxes, I would question their sanity. But collectively most cis, hetero dudes have kept the bar so low that these are green flags.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So guys, don\u2019t let your home look like it\u2019s abandoned. We don\u2019t ask for much! Invest in a couple of things and keep it clean, we\u2019ll appreciate it more than you know!<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I was planning our wedding in my head until I went to his place one night. It\u2019s not an exaggeration to say I was shocked! Immediately at the door, I was greeted by his shoes which were everywhere but in the cabinet! This man\u2019s home looked like nobody lived in it for years! Trash everywhere,&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":165258,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29814],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-165243","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29814,"label":"Stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/Therapist-Explains-What-Women-Consider-As-Green-Flags-In-Every-Mans-Home-1024x576.jpg",1024,576,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29814,"name":"Stories","slug":"stories","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29814,"taxonomy":"category","description":"","parent":29651,"count":244,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29814,"category_count":244,"category_description":"","cat_name":"Stories","category_nicename":"stories","category_parent":29651}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/165243","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=165243"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/165243\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":165260,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/165243\/revisions\/165260"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/165258"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=165243"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=165243"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=165243"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}