{"id":165346,"date":"2024-06-07T08:47:16","date_gmt":"2024-06-07T08:47:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=165346"},"modified":"2024-06-07T08:47:16","modified_gmt":"2024-06-07T08:47:16","slug":"lo-que-las-mujeres-pueden-perdonar-pero-no-olvidar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/lo-que-las-mujeres-pueden-perdonar-pero-no-olvidar\/","title":{"rendered":"Como mujeres, perdonamos mucho a nuestros maridos, pero \u00bfpodemos olvidar de verdad?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Marriage is sometimes smooth sailing and sometimes it\u2019s a boat in a storm\u2026 If you’ve ever been married, you know this. Good times come and they go\u2026 and the bad ones too. <\/strong>La vida est\u00e1 llena de altibajos, y lo mismo ocurre con los matrimonios.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

De vez en cuando Me pongo tan furiosa con mi marido que siento un fuerte impulso de mudarme inmediatamente.<\/strong> Luego me paso la tarde hojeando anuncios de apartamentos. Unas horas me ayudan a calmarme y todo vuelve a la normalidad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sometimes I wonder if it\u2019s right to forgive him. I noticed every so often, <\/strong>que I do forgive but can\u2019t make myself forget. <\/strong>Ten\u00eda curiosidad por saber qu\u00e9 ten\u00edan que decir otras mujeres sobre perdonar sin olvidar. As\u00ed que ped\u00ed a todas las mujeres que conozco que participaran en una encuesta an\u00f3nima.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cog\u00edan un trozo de papel y escribir breves an\u00e9cdotas sobre cosas que han perdonado <\/strong>to keep their relationships or marriages, but couldn\u2019t forget. Then they would insert the piece of paper in my survey box.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I\u2019ve made a compilation of 20 most hilarious and unforgettable micro-stories about MEN\u2019s wrongdoings that WOMEN had to forgive to save their relationships:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. \u201cHis mom and dad were his primary family\u201d<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n
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\"carta<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

2. \u201cWork was more important than me\u201d<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

A few weeks after we started dating, he got a new job. It was UX\/UI design \u2013 his dream job. As it was all quite new for him (earlier he was a graphic designer) he\u2019d spend nights learning and improving his skills.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

He didn\u2019t have time to see me, except for the weekends.<\/strong> I don\u2019t remember why we broke up after all, as things got better in time, but I still remember how I felt awful when he would rather work than spend time with me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. \u201cHe had to watch the game\u201d<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n
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\"foto<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

4. \u201cTold me I\u2019m overdramatizing\u201d<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Nuestra hija de seis meses se cay\u00f3 de la cama mientras le cambiaba los pa\u00f1ales y yo estaba aterrorizada intentando calmarla. Yo temblaba de miedo y no paraba de repetir que necesit\u00e1bamos ver a un m\u00e9dico.<\/strong> Me dijo que estaba siendo demasiado dram\u00e1tica y que todo ir\u00eda bien.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. \u201cForgot about me\u201d<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n
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6. \u201cI\u2019ve been told I was passing on negative vibes\u201d<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Me acus\u00f3 de ser siempre negativo en todo y dijo que yo le imped\u00eda disfrutar de su tiempo libre.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

This was when my mom was very sick and I was worried we haven’t got much time together.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

7. \u201cMissed our anniversary\u201d<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n
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\"mano<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

8. \u201cLeft me alone to handle the colic\u201d<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Mientras me recuperaba de una ces\u00e1rea me dej\u00f3 alone with a newborn who had horrifying colic and wouldn\u2019t stop screaming.<\/strong> He thought going out with his friends to celebrate our son\u2019s birth was a good idea. I wanted to strangle him when he came back home.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

9. \u201cWas late for our son\u2019s school play\u201d<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n
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10. \u201cNo sympathy when my granny died\u201d<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

I was devastated when my grandma died. As he wasn\u2019t very close to his grandparents he couldn\u2019t sympathize with my grief. So he was minding his own business and didn\u2019t even try to hug me<\/strong> ni decir nada para consolarme.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

11. \u201cBaby fell under his watch\u201d<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n
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\"descripci\u00f3n<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

12. \u201cHe gambled away our vacation money\u201d<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Llev\u00e1bamos meses ahorrando para pasar las vacaciones en Bali. Despu\u00e9s de un primer trimestre muy dif\u00edcil en el trabajo, Necesitaba descansar bien en un lugar tan ex\u00f3tico.<\/strong> Era consciente de que ten\u00eda ligeros problemas de adicci\u00f3n al juego, pero nunca pens\u00e9 que nos har\u00eda algo tan horrible a los dos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

13. \u201cHe was texting his ex-girlfriend\u201d<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

No estaba comprobando su tel\u00e9fono ni nada parecido, pero el aparato estaba all\u00ed, sobre la mesa, y el sonido de la notificaci\u00f3n me llev\u00f3 a mirarlo. Cuando vi su nombre en la pantalla me volv\u00ed loco.<\/strong> Le ped\u00ed ver todos los mensajes y me dio el tel\u00e9fono. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Allegedly, she only asked for some old friend\u2019s phone number, but I couldn\u2019t be convinced it was the main reason she texted him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

14. \u201cTurned down my dinner invitation\u201d<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n
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\"mujer<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

15. \u201cTold bad things about me in his sleep\u201d<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Siempre hablaba en sue\u00f1os, pero una vez me puse al d\u00eda de algunas cosas muy malas que dijo de m\u00ed. Supongo que so\u00f1aba con tomando una cerveza con su mejor amigo y se quej\u00f3 de c\u00f3mo lo trataba.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

I wasn\u2019t speaking to him for two weeks.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

16. \u201cIgnored my call to \u2018bedroom action\u2019\u201d<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Era un viernes por la noche y pens\u00e9 que podr\u00edamos celebrate the weekend with some \u201cfireworks in bed\u201d<\/strong>. Me puse mi lencer\u00eda seductora, un maquillaje intenso y me alborot\u00e9 el pelo. Entr\u00e9 entusiasmada en el dormitorio y me lo encontr\u00e9 roncando. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Estaba seguro de que se estaba haciendo el dormido, pero feeling so miserable and rejected while standing next to our bed all dressed up for \u201cthe action\u201d<\/strong> I couldn\u2019t humiliate myself more by trying to \u201cwake\u201d him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I only forgave him because tomorrow he swore he was really sleeping and repaired the damage next evening when he was the one initiating \u201cthe call\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

17. \u201cWas secretly purchasing video games\u201d<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n
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\"descripci\u00f3n<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

18. \u201cRead my private emails\u201d<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Mi mejor amiga, Lisa, vive en la Costa Oeste y nos gusta enviarnos correos electr\u00f3nicos una vez a la semana. Nuestros correos son como ensayos en los que compartimos los pensamientos y sentimientos m\u00e1s profundos sobre la vida y las situaciones cotidianas<\/strong>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

He mentioned something that was part of my latest email exchange and that\u2019s how I realized he went through my inbox.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Le perdon\u00e9, pero desde aquel d\u00eda cambio de contrase\u00f1a con regularidad. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

19. \u201cMade our home look like a warehouse\u201d<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

He is a huge fan of comic books, and he\u2019s been collecting them since he was a kid. Besides collecting, necesitaba que se conservaran en cajas, a salvo del polvo y la luz.<\/strong> Varios meses despu\u00e9s de casarnos, nuestra casa se transform\u00f3 en un almac\u00e9n. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

I forgave him when he moved his precious collection to his parent\u2019s house.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

20. \u201cLying about his childhood\u201d<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

While talking to his mom on Thanksgiving, I realized he\u2019s been heavily embellishing his childhood memories. I forgave him and many years later, I realized he wasn\u2019t really lying. Our la memoria es en realidad un proceso muy creativo<\/strong> y a veces almacenamos versiones imaginarias de acontecimientos que hemos vivido.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo perdonamos?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

In the end, we\u2019ll agree forgiving means different things to different women. Some of us will really forgive and move on, but not gonna forget ever. Others will forget it as if it never happened. I know a mi hermana le gusta recordarle a su marido todas sus fechor\u00edas<\/strong>. Honestly, I think she\u2019s a bit mean.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Por supuesto, debe nunca perdonar algo tan grave como el enga\u00f1o o el abuso<\/strong>, but as you could notice, there’s a whole spectrum of ways our partners can hurt us, sometimes unintentionally. Find a way to understand what really made him act in that way and try to forgive.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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