\u201cBefore I was pregnant, he used to go to his soccer games (and, more importantly, the drinking afterward) twice per week, and he went running on Sunday and\/or on his day off for hours on end. There used to be weeks when we would only see\/talk to each other for a few minutes in bed.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n
As\u00ed que, como era de esperar, su mujer quer\u00eda que pasara m\u00e1s tiempo con ella y su reci\u00e9n nacido. Ella escribi\u00f3:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\n\u201cSince I got pregnant, I asked him to scale back his soccer\/drinking to once a week and to plan his runs closer to home so that he\u2019s not gone an entire day. He reluctantly agreed after lots of fighting and drama.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n
Un d\u00eda, cuando volvi\u00f3 a casa del trabajo, se march\u00f3 despu\u00e9s de s\u00f3lo dos horas. La barbacoa con los amigos era m\u00e1s importante para \u00e9l que pasar tiempo con su familia. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Since he didn\u2019t come back until 11 p.m., she texted him saying to sleep downstairs so he wouldn\u2019t wake her and the baby up. Una petici\u00f3n aparentemente peque\u00f1a se convirti\u00f3 en una gran discusi\u00f3n.<\/strong> Fue entonces cuando empez\u00f3 a quejarse de todo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n\u201cMy husband says I\u2019m taking away his freedom\u201d<\/h2>\n\n\n\nSu marido pensaba que las expectativas que ten\u00eda eran injustas. Ella se lo explic\u00f3:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\n\u201cApparently, he believes I take away his freedom when I ask him to let me know when he will be home. He needs to \u2018feel the atmosphere of the night\u2019 before he can decide when to come home. I ask him so I at least know something so I can plan my night accordingly, but to him, that is unfair.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n
But it didn\u2019t end there. He continued complaining about how Sacrificar una noche a la semana ha sido duro para \u00e9l.<\/strong> The baby\u2019s only been with them for one week, and he\u2019s already tired? Poor guy. She continued by writing:<\/p>\n\n\n\n\n\u201cHe has also said that taking care of my needs during pregnancy (so basically giving up one night of soccer and drinking) has pushed him to the edge of burnout. During pregnancy, he threatened to leave me if he would not be allowed to do whatever he wanted once the baby arrived.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n
\u00a1Imag\u00ednate la audacia! \u00a1Creo que el padre act\u00faa m\u00e1s como un beb\u00e9 que como su propio hijo! Oh, qu\u00e9 sorpresa, tenemos que renunciar a nuestro tiempo libre una vez que tenemos hijos. \u00a1\u00bfQui\u00e9n esperar\u00eda eso?!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
People also agreed he\u2019s acting selfish and is not setting his priorities straight. One person commented:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\n\u201cHe’s behaving like this with a 3-week-old child? I’m all for parents finding a way to make both solo and couple social time happen, but the ink on that baby’s birth certificate isn’t even dry yet. Home needs to be his first priority 100% of the time right now.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n
I couldn\u2019t agree more! At this point, divorcing him now wouldn\u2019t change anything since she\u2019s living like a single parent either way.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sin embargo, no todo el mundo piensa que el padre es el \u00fanico equivocado aqu\u00ed.<\/strong> Some say that he deserves to have his free time since he\u2019s the one working. Someone wrote:<\/p>\n\n\n\n\n\u201cIN MY OPINION, you’re both wrong. He seems to work quite a bit, and he needs to take a break from that as well. However, the same courtesy needs to be applied to BOTH of you. If you are a SAHM, and\/or you don’t have your own friends, you are relying on HIS interaction with you to be your social fill and that is asking for a lot from a person. He needs to do his part as a parent too, but, realistically, if you both do your part and give each other grace, you both will get your needs taken care of.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n
\u00bfLe parece justo? Porque working shouldn\u2019t be an excuse for not taking care of your family<\/strong>, especially in these important moments. No one wants to be tired but that\u2019s just life. Women are often exhausted but still, no one bothers to ask them if they need a break.<\/p>\n\n\n\nLas madres lo dan todo y sacrifican su cuerpo, mente y alma <\/strong>during 9 months of pregnancy and even after. And dads can\u2019t let go of one night with the boys. Talk about disrespect! <\/p>\n\n\n\nMientras que algunos padres hacen m\u00e1s de lo que pueden por sus familias, otros no lo hacen. hay que recordar a los hombres que tambi\u00e9n deben cuidar de sus hijos<\/strong> (chocante, \u00bfverdad?). Todo es m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil y divertido cuando se hace en equipo. Y la paternidad no es una excepci\u00f3n. Al fin y al cabo, el trabajo en equipo hace realidad el sue\u00f1o.<\/em> <\/p>\n\n\n\nAs\u00ed que, la pr\u00f3xima vez que decidas tener hijos, mantener una conversaci\u00f3n abierta y sincera con su pareja<\/strong> sobre sus expectativas. Puede que te sorprenda lo que alguien considera normal y razonable. <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Ladies, be honest. Who does more work around the baby, you or your partner? Yeah, that\u2019s what I thought. This new chapter is amazing and filled with joy but also full of sleepless nights and many challenges. Everything\u2019s easier when you have a devoted man by your side who\u2019s not afraid of dirty diapers and…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":165534,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-165533","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/Man-Refuses-To-Sacrifice-One-Night-A-Week-To-Help-His-Wife-With-A-Newborn-1024x576.jpg",1024,576,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/165533","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=165533"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/165533\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":165538,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/165533\/revisions\/165538"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/165534"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=165533"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=165533"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=165533"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}
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