{"id":165600,"date":"2024-06-14T15:14:16","date_gmt":"2024-06-14T15:14:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=165600"},"modified":"2024-07-08T09:16:02","modified_gmt":"2024-07-08T09:16:02","slug":"piensa-en-esto-antes-de-quedar-con-ex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/piensa-en-esto-antes-de-quedar-con-ex\/","title":{"rendered":"7 preguntas importantes que debes hacerte antes de reunirte con tu ex"},"content":{"rendered":"
Algunas invitaciones para ponerse al d\u00eda tomando un caf\u00e9 son m\u00e1s emocionantes que otras. Y requieren una mejor preparaci\u00f3n, tanto emocional como f\u00edsica. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Getting a text from your ex wanting to meet up can be both confusing and unexpected at the same time. Suddenly, all the memories come to your mind, emotions are going on a roller coaster, and you\u2019re not even sure what to do.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00bfExiste la posibilidad de un nuevo comienzo, de conseguir alg\u00fan cierre o ser\u00e1 un completo desastre? <\/strong>I\u2019ve been there so I completely understand and get what you feel. You have a full right to simply block him and ignore the text. But if you decide to go out with him, <\/strong>don\u2019t rush anything.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Before jumping on that wagon, consider some crucial questions. You don\u2019t wanna end up having another heartbreak, do you? Then listen to me and ask yourself:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
1. \u00bfQu\u00e9 quiero conseguir con esto?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<\/figure>\n\n\n\n
Saber cu\u00e1l es tu objetivo es un poco importante en todo lo que haces. Puede que os encontr\u00e9is con ideas completamente distintas en la cabeza. Por eso ser\u00eda bueno check if you\u2019re on the same page.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00bfNecesitas un cierre, quieres recuperarlos o simplemente quieres ponerte al d\u00eda amistosamente sobre vuestras vidas? Conociendo what you want or why you\u2019re meeting up with them <\/strong>har\u00e1 que toda la experiencia sea mucho m\u00e1s fluida y dejar\u00e1 menos posibilidades de decepci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Una vez qued\u00e9 con mi ex y en mi cabeza pensaba que simplemente charlar\u00edamos y bromear\u00edamos. Acab\u00f3 desahog\u00e1ndose, haci\u00e9ndome millones de preguntas y rog\u00e1ndome que le diera otra oportunidad. As\u00ed que s\u00ed, me arrepent\u00ed de haberle visto.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
2. \u00bfTodav\u00eda tengo el coraz\u00f3n roto?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
My friend warned me that a guy I broke up with one week ago would be at his party and I didn\u2019t think anything of it. I was such a fool for going anyway. I tried to avoid him the whole night and then cried myself to sleep when I got back home.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Don\u2019t repeat my mistakes. T\u00f3mate tu tiempo para curarte del todo <\/strong>and when you reach the stage you don\u2019t feel even the slightest bit of heartache when someone mentions him, you\u2019re ready!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Meeting up with your ex too soon is like wanting to take off your bandaid 5 minutes after putting it on, it\u2019s stupid, painful, and doesn\u2019t make sense.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Having too many unrealistic expectations is like setting yourself up for disappointment. Don\u2019t be your biggest enemy. If you think others will follow fake scripts you came up with in your head, you\u2019re fooling yourself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Lo mejor es ir sin expectativas<\/strong>S\u00e9 realista, rel\u00e1jate y d\u00e9jate llevar. Ser realista te salvar\u00e1 de otra crisis. Y si ocurre algo bueno, puede que te lleves una grata sorpresa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
4. \u00bfPuedo afrontar todos los resultados?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
My friend came to me crying after she met up with her ex. She thought there was a possibility for a new beginning and he straight up told her he met someone really special. I\u2019ve never seen her so devastated.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Un caf\u00e9 con tu ex puede llevar a un trill\u00f3n de cosas diferentes. Y deber\u00edas prep\u00e1rate para manejar cualquier resultado con gracia. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n
Can you accept that they\u2019ve moved on? What if they\u2019re living a better life without you? How would you react if they wanted you back and you continued with your life? These are all valid questions you should think about before hurting them or yourself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
5. \u00bfEspero algo m\u00e1s que un caf\u00e9?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<\/figure>\n\n\n\n
Are you accepting that invitation while secretly hoping something more will come out of it? Coffee is amazing but if you\u2019re going to drink it while hoping it will taste revolutionary, you might end up with a bitter taste in your mouth.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
If you can\u2019t meet up with them without expecting a happily ever after end to your story, then tal vez deber\u00edas darte m\u00e1s tiempo.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n
Setting high expectations is also not fair to your ex who\u2019s maybe only looking for a friendly date and doesn\u2019t want to feel responsible for your meltdown. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
6. \u00bfHay preguntas sin respuesta?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
It\u2019s hard to move on while some questions are still spinning in your head. But don\u2019t be like my ex and transform your coffee date into a quiz without any warning.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ask them beforehand if they\u2019re comfortable with answering some questions you have. But also be aware that aunque obtenga respuestas, puede que no sean las que esperaba<\/strong> so you\u2019ll end up even more disappointed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A veces es mejor dejar algunas preguntas sin respuesta y algunos problemas son demasiado profundos para resolverlos en una reuni\u00f3n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Piensa en ti mismo por un momento. \u00bfC\u00f3mo se siente? \u00bfEst\u00e1s estable y curado o te sientes m\u00e1s como un paquete de FedEx con una pegatina que dice \u201cfragile\u201d<\/em>?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
After seeing my ex, I started overthinking for days and my emotional state was in chaos. So, if you think meeting with them will return you to day one when you felt awful, it\u2019s not worth it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Only when you\u2019re sure that it could help you move on with your life, then it\u2019s a good idea. Otherwise, leave it be. It\u2019s important to compr\u00e9ndete a ti mismo y cuida de tu bienestar. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n
Recuerda, ponte t\u00fa primero, s\u00e9 honesto y deja las expectativas locas en casa antes de salir. Mucha suerte.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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