{"id":165693,"date":"2024-06-19T07:08:28","date_gmt":"2024-06-19T07:08:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=165693"},"modified":"2024-06-19T07:08:29","modified_gmt":"2024-06-19T07:08:29","slug":"rasgos-que-aman-los-hombres-con-problemas-de-compromiso","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/rasgos-que-aman-los-hombres-con-problemas-de-compromiso\/","title":{"rendered":"5 rasgos que hacen que los chicos con problemas de compromiso permanezcan en una relaci\u00f3n\u00a0\u00a0"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u00bfAlguna vez has amado al que parece ser al\u00e9rgico al compromiso? S\u00ed, todos lo hemos hecho. Pas\u00e9 a\u00f1os tratando de averiguar <strong>c\u00f3mo atraerlo y hacer que se quede.<\/strong> Sin embargo, siempre hu\u00eda cuando hab\u00eda la m\u00e1s m\u00ednima posibilidad de una relaci\u00f3n seria.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I know it can be incredibly frustrating when you really want him and you see he likes you too but he just can\u2019t take that next big step.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Recurr\u00ed a entrenadores de citas y le\u00ed numerosos blogs en los que revelaban por qu\u00e9 los hombres dudan en comprometerse y qu\u00e9 les hace quedarse. Todos coincid\u00edan en que los hombres con problemas para comprometerse quieren una mujer que:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">1. Evita dramas innecesarios<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>No one wants a relationship that\u2019s like the most dramatic Spanish telenovela, right? <strong>El drama es un gran desv\u00edo para estos tipos.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pongamos un ejemplo. Una vez se me estrope\u00f3 el coche de camino a nuestra cita y, en lugar de asustarme, llam\u00e9 a una gr\u00faa y me re\u00ed con \u00e9l de este inconveniente. Me dijo que no le gustar\u00eda que yo entrara en p\u00e1nico y me pusiera nerviosa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Being with a woman who\u2019s a drama queen and makes a problem out of every little thing is pretty exhausting. And annoying if we\u2019re honest. <strong>Habla de cualquier problema que puedas tener y mant\u00e9n la calma. <\/strong>He\u2019ll appreciate that more than you think.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>People who are unwilling to commit are often like that for a reason. Maybe they\u2019ve been in a relationship that was nothing but arguments and stupid fights so now they\u2019re scared of reliving that experience again. If you keep things peaceful and chill, he\u2019ll stay around forever.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">2. Crea un espacio seguro y comprende<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/serious-man-sitting-on-the-rooftop.jpg\" alt=\"hombre serio sentado en la azotea\" class=\"wp-image-165694\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/serious-man-sitting-on-the-rooftop.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/serious-man-sitting-on-the-rooftop-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/serious-man-sitting-on-the-rooftop-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/serious-man-sitting-on-the-rooftop-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/serious-man-sitting-on-the-rooftop-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/serious-man-sitting-on-the-rooftop-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/serious-man-sitting-on-the-rooftop-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/serious-man-sitting-on-the-rooftop-1200x801.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Los hombres con problemas de compromiso arrastran mucho equipaje, ya sea de relaciones fracasadas o de su vida pasada e incluso de su infancia. <strong>Tienes que estar preparado y ser capaz de manejar todo el l\u00edo emocional<\/strong> que viene en un paquete con ellos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You might be his first serious and healthy relationship so there\u2019ll probably be a lot of work to do until he feels comfortable with you and lets his true personality shine.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Crea una zona libre de juicios si quieres que se abra <\/strong>so he finally gets a sense that someone is willing to listen and understand him. You don\u2019t need to be his psychologist, just give yourself time to build trust and that\u2019ll be a huge step towards your commitment.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">3. Disfruta de la vida y la mantiene interesante<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Olv\u00eddate de la pereza y de pasarte el d\u00eda viendo series de Netflix. \u00a1Lev\u00e1ntate y explora el mundo!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Si quieres atraerlo, <strong>it\u2019s time to think about being more spontaneous<\/strong>. Plan an unexpected trip away, do things out of your comfort zone, and apply for that cooking course you\u2019ve always wanted! These men want something new every day, both unpredictable and fun!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Una vez fui a uno de esos eventos de vino y pintura con mi <em>\u201chard to catch\u201d <\/em>date and mind you, I don\u2019t even know how to hold a brush, let alone paint a whole picture! My attempt at painting definitely turned into something nowhere near artistic, unlike his work of art. But he found it funny and we had a great time!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>By being adventurous and fun, you\u2019ll always keep things interesting so he\u2019ll want to stay and be part of your journey. Also, <strong>cada nueva experiencia es una excelente oportunidad para estrechar lazos<\/strong>y crear recuerdos que s\u00f3lo pueden unirles m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">4. Goes with the flow and doesn\u2019t stress<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/couple-hugging-on-the-couch-1.jpg\" alt=\"pareja abraz\u00e1ndose en el sof\u00e1\" class=\"wp-image-165695\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/couple-hugging-on-the-couch-1.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/couple-hugging-on-the-couch-1-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/couple-hugging-on-the-couch-1-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/couple-hugging-on-the-couch-1-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/couple-hugging-on-the-couch-1-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/couple-hugging-on-the-couch-1-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/couple-hugging-on-the-couch-1-1080x716.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/couple-hugging-on-the-couch-1-1200x795.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s the same as with unnecessary drama \u2013 they want peace. I know you really want to put a stamp on your relationship but slow down! There\u2019s enough time and no need to rush that process.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Disfruta del viaje, deja que todo ocurra a su ritmo<\/strong>, and show him you\u2019re not desperate. Constantly pushing him and adding additional pressure will scare him away. And that\u2019s not something you want.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You want to be his calm place, someone he thinks about when he\u2019s stressed and knows you\u2019d calm him down just by being there. That\u2019s why <strong>necesitas tener una energ\u00eda relajada<\/strong> y cr\u00e9eme, si lo haces, nunca te dejar\u00e1 ir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">5. Tiene sus intereses y no es pegajosa<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>If there\u2019s something men are scared of more than commitment, it\u2019s having someone glued to them 24\/7. <strong>They don\u2019t want to be with someone who acts obsessively.<\/strong> Feeling required to please someone&#8217;s needs every millisecond is just tiring.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When you have your own thing going on it makes you instantly more attractive to everyone! Why? Because you show your happiness and well-being don\u2019t depend on someone else. You can enjoy a day without them and let them have their freedom without holding resentment.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I used to think I needed to leave everything behind when I got into a relationship and this wasn\u2019t healthy at all. It just created unnecessary chaos in our lives because I wouldn\u2019t let him breathe.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Tener tus propias aficiones e intereses tambi\u00e9n es bueno para ti.<\/strong> It can help you lead a fulfilled life and at the same time, it\u2019ll take the pressure off him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I think the universe works in mysterious ways. You\u2019ll see that <strong>the moment you stop chasing something, it\u2019ll come your way.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Besides this, it\u2019s important to know that some people are just not destined for us and that\u2019s okay. Maybe not having them as part of your life is actually good for you.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>By letting go of what\u2019s not good for you, you\u2019re making space for what is meant for you. However, these traits are good to have just in case!<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Have you ever loved the one that seems to be allergic to commitment? Yeah, we all did. I spent ages trying to figure out how to attract him and make him stay. However, he always kept running away when there was even the slightest chance of a serious relationship. I know it can be incredibly&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":165696,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-165693","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/5-Traits-That-Make-Guys-With-Commitment-Issues-Stay-In-A-Relationship--1024x678.jpg",1024,678,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? 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