{"id":165698,"date":"2024-06-19T07:56:13","date_gmt":"2024-06-19T07:56:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=165698"},"modified":"2024-06-19T07:56:13","modified_gmt":"2024-06-19T07:56:13","slug":"encuentra-un-hombre-que-te-aprecie","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/encuentra-un-hombre-que-te-aprecie\/","title":{"rendered":"Nunca Te Conformes Con Menos, Hay Un Hombre Que Te Apreciar\u00e1 De Verdad. Lo Prometo"},"content":{"rendered":"

Llego a casa despu\u00e9s del trabajo, me lavo las manos y me apresuro a ir a la cocina. Luego cojo los ingredientes para a cooking masterpiece I\u2019ve been creating in my head while driving back home.<\/strong> Creo que cocinar es una forma de demostrarle mi amor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I\u2019m preparing the dish that Creo que dejar\u00e1 a Ryan impresionado.<\/strong> Pronto, oigo el sonido de \u00e9l entrando en la casa. Pregunta:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2013 \u201cHey babe, what\u2019s for dinner?\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2013 \u201cChicken and veggie stir-fry. My specialty.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2013<\/em> \u201cI think I\u2019ll order a burger.\u201d<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Toda la magia desaparece al instante y quiero tirar mi sart\u00e9n que huele delicioso junto con un salteado de pollo y verduras casi hecho. <\/strong>I\u2019m not even hungry anymore.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Of course, I\u2019m mad at him. He never once said \u201cthank you\u201d<\/em> o \u201cI appreciate that you spent time on this.\u201d<\/em> I\u2019ve wasted so much food because he orders fast food <\/strong>instead of eating what I make. He didn\u2019t even apologize. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Estaba todo crudo y sin sabor<\/h2>\n\n\n
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\"mujer<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

Por mucho que lo intentara, siempre encontraba algo mal. And it wasn\u2019t just my cooking, nothing I did seemed to be good enough. <\/strong>The way I walked, talked or dressed, everything was just \u201cbland\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Una noche, despu\u00e9s de otra cena decepcionante, <\/strong>Acab\u00e9 sentada sola en la cocina, llorando. \u00bfTan terrible soy?<\/em> Convirti\u00f3 lo \u00fanico que me gustaba en una actividad estresante y desagradable. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ahora cocinar parec\u00eda un proyecto desalentador <\/strong>que ten\u00eda que presentar a mi siempre decepcionado jefe.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Adem\u00e1s de nuestras peleas de cocina, nuestro Las actividades de dormitorio tampoco eran muy divertidas.<\/strong> Or to use Ryan\u2019s language \u2013 \u201cThey were raw and tasteless\u201d<\/em><\/strong>.<\/strong> Maybe because of all the tension we had revolving around my cooking\u2026 <\/p>\n\n\n\n

He was never really satisfied with anything I did. I don\u2019t remember getting compliments for my promotion at work, nunca me mir\u00f3 con admiraci\u00f3n,<\/strong> and actually\u2026 When I think about it now, he really took me for granted.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWill you cook with me?\u201d<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n
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\"pareja<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

Un viernes por la noche, invitamos a unos amigos a cenar. My best friend\u2019s brother, Kevin, came too.<\/strong> Me enamor\u00e9 de \u00e9l cuando era adolescente, pero nunca pas\u00f3 nada entre nosotros.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ryan estaba comiendo bocadillos explicando que tuvo un almuerzo masivo durante una reuni\u00f3n de negocios.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2013 \u201cRyan doesn\u2019t like my cooking.”<\/em><\/strong> Me quej\u00e9 a mis amigos.<\/strong> \u201cNothing I ever cook is better than a burger.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kevin me mir\u00f3 intensamente y sugiri\u00f3,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

 \u2013 “Why don\u2019t you come over tomorrow and cook with me? I\u2019ll show you some of my special tricks and I\u2019m willing to taste your specialties.”<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Al d\u00eda siguiente, me reun\u00ed con Kevin en su cocina. Nos re\u00edmos, compartimos historias y cocinamos juntos. Kevin me ense\u00f1\u00f3 algunas t\u00e9cnicas \u00fatiles y me anim\u00f3 a probar nuevos sabores.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The way he looked at me\u2026 oh boy, suddenly I felt good about myself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ryan nunca me mir\u00f3 de esa manera, supongo todo en m\u00ed era demasiado soso para su gusto.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Traje a casa un plato que hab\u00edamos hecho juntos. Ryan ten\u00eda dudas, pero lo prob\u00f3. \u201cNot bad but I\u2019m not really hungry.\u201d <\/em>En ese momento, quer\u00eda darme un pu\u00f1etazo en las tripas para que me doliera tanto f\u00edsica como emocionalmente.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Don\u2019t settle for less than you deserve<\/h2>\n\n\n
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\"hombre<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

Kevin y yo llevamos saliendo un a\u00f1o. <\/strong>Y ese a\u00f1o me hizo darme cuenta de lo imb\u00e9cil que era. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ya nadie me toma el pelo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I\u2019m not begging for crumbs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I\u2019m not bending over backwards to be loved. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Somebody appreciates me and I didn\u2019t do anything extra to \u201cearn it\u201d.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

We do enjoy our time cooking together but our passion doesn\u2019t stop in the kitchen.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pasamos las tardes en el sof\u00e1, cogidos de la mano y viendo Netflix juntos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nos gustan los largos paseos y las conversaciones significativas.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

I finally feel valued, loved, and accepted for who I am. I know I talk a lot about cooking, but that\u2019s my passion and I didn\u2019t need to change it or myself for someone ungrateful. I just needed to leave toxic surroundings and find someone who\u2019d appreciate me and all my spices.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Not being the least interested in what turns my spark into a whole damn blaze should be the biggest red flag and I don\u2019t know how I missed it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I think Ryan needed to happen so I could learn what love isn\u2019t, so I could learn not to be an idiot.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

As\u00ed que, chica, \u00bfpor qu\u00e9 conformarte con algo suave cuando tu relaci\u00f3n puede ser una maldita llama? Te mereces a alguien que realmente vea qui\u00e9n eres. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Alguien que incluso ama tus defectos. Alguien que <\/strong>sabe que tiene la opci\u00f3n de irse en cualquier momento, pero aun as\u00ed se levanta cada ma\u00f1ana y elige quedarse. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

You\u2019re not demanding, or dramatic. You deserve ridiculous, consuming, \u201ccan\u2019t live-without each other\u201d love. <\/strong>A love that wouldn\u2019t risk letting you get away!<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I come home after work, wash my hands, and hurry up to the kitchen. Then I take the ingredients for a cooking masterpiece I\u2019ve been creating in my head while driving back home. I believe cooking is a way of showing my love for him. I\u2019m preparing the dish that I believe will leave Ryan…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":165701,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-165698","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/Never-Settle-For-Less-Theres-A-Man-Wholl-Truly-Appreciate-You.-I-Promise-1024x678.jpg",1024,678,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","parent":29620,"count":544,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29622,"category_count":544,"category_description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","cat_name":"relationship advice","category_nicename":"relationship-advice","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/165698","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=165698"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/165698\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":165705,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/165698\/revisions\/165705"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/165701"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=165698"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=165698"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=165698"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}