{"id":165706,"date":"2024-06-19T08:14:52","date_gmt":"2024-06-19T08:14:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=165706"},"modified":"2024-06-19T08:14:52","modified_gmt":"2024-06-19T08:14:52","slug":"normas-en-las-relaciones","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/normas-en-las-relaciones\/","title":{"rendered":"Una mujer revela 5 reglas no negociables que su novio debe seguir"},"content":{"rendered":"

Todo el mundo tiene expectativas diferentes cuando se trata de la pareja de sus sue\u00f1os. Puede que yo haya tenido demasiadas. Sin embargo, siempre pens\u00e9 it\u2019s good to be direct with what you want and communicate your boundaries <\/strong>so there\u2019s no room for misunderstanding.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Aunque a veces asumimos que algunas expectativas son normales y comunes, para algunos pueden ser escandalosas. We differ in our opinions of what\u2019s right and wrong<\/strong> and therefore it\u2019s important to be clear from the very beginning.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Definitivamente, Taylor Donoghue se expres\u00f3 alto y claro al mostrar su lista de 5 reglas al mundo entero en TikTok<\/a>! Now guys can\u2019t say they didn\u2019t know what they got themselves into!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. \u00a1Nada de mejores amigas!<\/h2>\n\n\n
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\"hombre<\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n

Comenz\u00f3 el v\u00eddeo declarando su primera y principal regla:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cFirst is super obvious, but I would never allow my boyfriend to have a girl best friend. I don\u2019t believe in them.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Before anyone gets pissed off, she explained that it\u2019s okay if he has female acquaintances, but \u00a1el puesto de mejor amigo est\u00e1 reservado s\u00f3lo para hombres! <\/strong>A\u00f1adi\u00f3 que tener una mejor amiga podr\u00eda ser complicado y nadie quiere eso. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Some agreed with this and one woman even said she didn\u2019t think this would be a problem so she allowed her boyfriend to have a girl roommate. Let\u2019s just say it didn\u2019t end well. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. La ubicaci\u00f3n debe estar encendida en todo momento.<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Esta es una gran se\u00f1al de alarma para algunas personas. Consideran que invade la intimidad de su pareja, pero Taylor thinks it\u2019s more a safety measure.<\/strong> Dijo:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cI feel like you get to a point where when you\u2019ve been dating someone for so long, having each other\u2019s like locations on like \u201cFind My iPhone\u201d is more of a safety thing. I just want to make sure he\u2019s okay.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

However, she\u2019s not purely concerned with safety because she also thinks not letting your partner know where you are is shady. Others think she just has trust issues.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I kinda agree because me and my partner never have our locations on. If he tells me he\u2019s going to some pub with the boys, I know he\u2019s going there. But we\u2019re also grown-ups who have free will to go where we want without someone breathing down our neck.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. \u00a1Los clubes de striptease son un gran NO!<\/h2>\n\n\n
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\"pies<\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n

Continu\u00f3 con la tercera regla diciendo que esto podr\u00eda ser controvertido, pero her record is set straight \u2013 no strip clubs!<\/strong> Como ella misma explic\u00f3:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cThe third thing I never allow my boyfriend to do is go to strip clubs. And I feel like this is a controversial one, and some couples go to them together. But nope, not our scene. You can go to bars, you can have a guys\u2019 night, but strip clubs\u2026 Absolutely not.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Are there really people who allow their significant others to go to strip clubs? Couldn\u2019t be me, but you do you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. Las finanzas se reparten al 50%.<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

I feel like guys really loved this one\u2026wonder why. Las mujeres del otro bando ten\u00edan opiniones diferentes.<\/strong> Creen que los hombres deber\u00edan al menos pagar por sus citas. Sin embargo, Taylor dijo:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cThe fourth thing I would never allow my boyfriend to do is pay all the bills. I feel like the men paying for 100% of everything is just like wrong. And I\u2019m not even trying to sound \u2018pick me.\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

I think paying 50-50 is slowly becoming a standard set for women. They want us to be homemakers but also contribute financially. And while this would be fine if men did the same, they mostly don\u2019t participate in the homemaking part at all. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. Est\u00e1 prohibido que te gusten las fotos en bikini.<\/h2>\n\n\n
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\"hombre<\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n

Taylor thinks liking provocative pictures of girls on Instagram is a major red flag saying it simply doesn\u2019t look good from the perspective of others:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cI feel like there\u2019s been so much more awareness on this, but it always makes me sad when I see someone that\u2019s like married with kids or just in a relationship and they\u2019re like, liking girls\u2019 photos, especially very like provocative ones. I\u2019m just like, it\u2019s not a good look.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Considera que se trata de una expectativa bastante obvia<\/strong> that doesn\u2019t need further explanation. And while some agreed with everything she listed, others said it doesn\u2019t make sense to have these rules. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00bfEs controladora o razonable?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Uno dijo que estos son los fundamentos:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cI agree with you on every one of these. It is basic respect and for the health of the relationship.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Alguien estuvo de acuerdo diciendo:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cThese are all completely normal things everyone should expect in a relationship. How is it a red flag? Basic respect has just gone\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Un hombre se sorprendi\u00f3 por los comentarios negativos:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cWhat are these comments!? it’s not controlling or being insecure. It’s called being reasonable and having standards.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

A lot of people said Tayor is controlling and they wouldn\u2019t set these rules:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cI hope this works for you cause there\u2019s no way I\u2019m telling my man what\u2019s allowed and what\u2019s not\u2026 he\u2019s an adult.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Some think we shouldn\u2019t have any rules:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cI have one rule \u2026 you won\u2019t tell me what I can and can\u2019t do and vice versa. Been happily married for 25 years.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Mientras la gente discut\u00eda si esto era normal o no, otros quer\u00edan saber si su novio ten\u00eda algunas reglas para ella<\/strong> y ella felizmente hizo otro v\u00eddeo<\/a> sobre eso.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Her boyfriend said he only has 4 simple rules \u2013 no flirting with guys, no liking pictures of other men, and no lip fillers. He also said he wants her to update him every hour or two when she\u2019s out without him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Everyone seemed more chill with his boundaries and said this is a bare minimum. Of course, everything\u2019s fine and nothing\u2019s \u201ccontrolling\u201d or \u201cinsecure\u201d when it comes to men sharing their rules. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00bfQu\u00e9 opina usted? \u00bfTienes reglas en tu relaci\u00f3n? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vea el v\u00eddeo completo a continuaci\u00f3n:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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@taylordonoghuee<\/a>

Hot take but just my opinion \ud83e\udd37\ud83c\udffd\u200d\u2640\ufe0f<\/p> \u266c original sound – Taylordonoghuee<\/a> <\/section> <\/blockquote>