{"id":165878,"date":"2024-06-20T10:08:35","date_gmt":"2024-06-20T10:08:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=165878"},"modified":"2024-07-08T09:20:13","modified_gmt":"2024-07-08T09:20:13","slug":"signos-de-bombardeo-amoroso","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/signos-de-bombardeo-amoroso\/","title":{"rendered":"Me bombardearon por amor y ni siquiera me di cuenta"},"content":{"rendered":"

Mi \u00faltima relaci\u00f3n parec\u00eda demasiado buena para ser verdad. En serio. Nunca pens\u00e9 que podr\u00eda experimentar tanto amor de alguien y se sent\u00eda incre\u00edble. He was everything I\u2019ve ever wanted. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Esa sensaci\u00f3n de que alguien se obsesiona contigo, te colma de atenciones y amor es lo que toda mujer desea. Lo disfrut\u00e9 mucho, sobre todo despu\u00e9s de mi exnovio, que era extremadamente t\u00f3xico y me dej\u00f3 el coraz\u00f3n roto.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I was ready for a new beginning and wanted someone to take care of me and show me all his love. And that\u2019s exactly what I got. However, that la dulce fase de luna de miel dio un giro inesperado<\/strong> y termin\u00f3 como otro gran desenga\u00f1o.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u00e1s tarde, me di cuenta de que estaba ciega porque me bombarde\u00f3 amorosamente. En mi defensa, \u00bfc\u00f3mo pod\u00eda saber que me har\u00eda tanto da\u00f1o despu\u00e9s de actuar como el mejor hombre que jam\u00e1s haya existido?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I bet I\u2019m not the only one who has fallen for this. So let me share some signs that can help you realize it\u2019s not true love before you get your heart broken.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. Te sientes presionado a comprometerte demasiado pronto<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"hombre<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The first moment I met James I felt something I couldn\u2019t even explain. There was a lot of chemistry and romance going on and we immediately knew we had something special.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

On our third date, he had already mentioned moving in together and wanted to meet my family. Although it was flattering to hear that, I can\u2019t say I wasn\u2019t caught off guard. He said that like it was nothing and no big deal but to me it was huge!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I didn\u2019t really feel ready to take that big step and was anxious as hell but me aseguraba que est\u00e1bamos enamorados y que no hab\u00eda necesidad de perder el tiempo.<\/strong> That\u2019s the moment he slowly started his manipulation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. Os ha enga\u00f1ado y convencido de que os conoc\u00e9is bien<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

James would always say things insinuating that he feels like we\u2019ve known each other for ages. He would often talk about something we had in common, things we both like, and opinions we share.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Me convenci\u00f3 de que \u00e9ramos almas gemelas y est\u00e1bamos hechos el uno para el otro.<\/strong> Me sent\u00ed muy bien al pensar que finalmente encontr\u00e9 el<\/em>. Pero entonces algo hizo clic en mi mente y me di cuenta de que siempre estaba de acuerdo con todo lo que dec\u00eda y amaba absolutamente todas las peque\u00f1as cosas que hac\u00eda. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Parec\u00eda irreal, \u00a1porque lo era! It\u2019s impossible for someone not to have their own personality.<\/strong> James tried so hard to make a connection that didn\u2019t even exist. He would shower me with sweet words and I loved it. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Te alaba y te colma de afecto<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"hermosa<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

While women are always complaining their men don\u2019t show them enough love, I was almost sick of all the attention I was getting. Sometimes I felt like I couldn\u2019t take a breath without him being by my side.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

He would tell me he never met someone like me, that I was the most beautiful woman he\u2019d seen, and that he couldn\u2019t even imagine his future without me. It wasn\u2019t only compliments James was giving me all the time, it was also the affection. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Constant kissing, hugging, holding hands \u2013 it seemed like he couldn\u2019t get enough of me! <\/strong>Al principio era agradable, pero luego empez\u00f3 a parecerme falso, como si cada vez intentara obtener algo a cambio. A veces todav\u00eda me pregunto si algo de lo que dec\u00eda era verdad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. Dice cosas que quieres o\u00edr<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Si conoc\u00eda a alguien perfecto con las palabras, ese era James. Y esto es lo que realmente me enganch\u00f3. Siempre sab\u00eda qu\u00e9 decir para que me derritiera. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

It doesn\u2019t matter what I was talking about, my goals, insecurities, or trauma, James had the perfect response for everything! Oh, I enjoyed it so much. I thought I finally found someone who wanted to listen to me and I felt understood after a long time. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Lo hizo s\u00f3lo para ganarse mi confianza, pero me di cuenta demasiado tarde.<\/strong> It wasn\u2019t honest at all, it was just his little game to make me think we actually have a deep connection. And that\u2019s exactly what I was thinking.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. You receive gifts like it\u2019s your birthday every day<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"Hombre<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

James didn\u2019t only give me all the words I wanted to hear, he also gave me gifts, a lot of them! There wouldn\u2019t be a date we would go on without him bringing something for me.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

A veces era algo peque\u00f1o, como flores o ese chocolate que tanto me gusta, pero otras veces lo hac\u00eda por todo lo alto. Una vez me regal\u00f3 billetes de avi\u00f3n para un viaje sorpresa. Aunque me sent\u00eda halagada y especial, empec\u00e9 a aprender this wasn\u2019t as genuine as I thought.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

He was buying my loyalty and making slow steps to ensure I felt like I owed him something. Every time I complained about his behavior he would mention the sweet things he\u2019s done for me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

6. Se pone a la defensiva cuando se le cuestiona<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

When I finally realized something wasn\u2019t right and gained the courage to bring it up, he went nuts. James always acted as a victim and guilt-tripped me into believing there wasn\u2019t anything wrong.<\/strong> Era inseguro y ten\u00eda problemas de confianza, me dijo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Every discussion he didn\u2019t want to have looked the same. I would try to talk nicely, but he would get defensive and then accuse me of being the crazy one.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00a1La forma en que ese hombre actu\u00f3 como si estuviera herido fue incre\u00edble! \u00a1Alguien deber\u00eda darle un premio de la Academia o algo as\u00ed! Todo esto me hizo sentir culpable<\/strong> so I stayed thinking my feelings weren\u2019t valid.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

7. Te quiere s\u00f3lo para \u00e9l.<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"pareja<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

A medida que avanz\u00e1bamos en nuestra relaci\u00f3n, James quer\u00eda que todo el mundo girara a su alrededor. Cada vez que quer\u00eda salir con mis amigos o visitar a mi familia, se enfadaba. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

A veces incluso fing\u00eda estar enfermo para que yo me quedara a cuidarle. Poco a poco empec\u00e9 a perder a mis amigos y me sent\u00eda sola. No ten\u00eda a nadie m\u00e1s que a \u00e9l y de alguna manera se las arregl\u00f3 para aislarme de todo el mundo. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Este era el \u00faltimo paso de su juego enfermizo y una oportunidad perfecta para manipularme en todo lo que quisiera.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Por suerte, mi hermana me hizo entrar en raz\u00f3n y sal\u00ed de la burbuja en la que viv\u00eda. ITodo se aclar\u00f3 una vez que me distanci\u00e9 de \u00e9l.<\/strong> Who knows where I\u2019d be if I stayed in that relationship but all I know is that I\u2019m happy I\u2019ll never find out. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Next time someone acts this way with you think twice before diving into something serious you\u2019ll regret 100%. Remember that el amor verdadero nunca se siente sofocante o controlador.<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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