Las rupturas son siempre dif\u00edciles de manejar y afrontar. Nunca entramos en una relaci\u00f3n esperando que llegue a su fin. Cuando nos enamoramos, decidimos dar parte de nosotros a esa otra persona.<\/p>\n
We are ready for compromises and sacrifices, all because we believe in that lifelong love. So, it\u2019s completely normal to be devastated and broken once that relationship comes to an end.<\/p>\n
Pero, \u00bfy si te dijera que hay otra forma de afrontarlo? \u00bfQue hay m\u00e1s cosas de las que estar orgulloso que de las que lamentarse?<\/p>\n
If you\u2019ve pasado por un infierno<\/a> of your own recently and you\u2019re still trying to find a way to grasp all of it and move on, read the list below and see that you did something fucking good for yourself and your own well-being.<\/p>\n Cuando dedicamos nuestro amor a una persona, tambi\u00e9n dedicamos nuestro tiempo y nuestra vida. As\u00ed que, ahora que has decidido alejarte y ponerte a ti primero, puedes volver a conectar con tus amigos y tu familia.<\/p>\n Y te dar\u00e1s cuenta de que s\u00f3lo porque os separasteis durante un tiempo, en realidad nunca separasteis tambi\u00e9n vuestros corazones. Seguir\u00e1n teniendo un lugar para ti en sus vidas y te dar\u00e1n todo el apoyo que necesites en este momento.<\/p>\n Without thinking what the other person would think, you can follow your dreams and passions. If you feel like clubbing all night and hiking all day, there\u2019s nothing stopping you\u2014except maybe your job, but that\u2019s still something you can handle.<\/p>\n Yet when you\u2019re constantly worrying if you\u2019re going to upset him or piss him off, there is no way you can enjoy yourself.<\/p>\n Even if you get some time for yourself, you are still thinking about him and his needs. Now, it\u2019s finally time for you to do whatever your heart desires.<\/p>\n If you need weeks to get back on your feet, you can take them. If you need some alone time to process all of the torture you\u2019ve been through, you can finally take it.<\/p>\n Ya no tienes que ocuparte de nadie y por fin puedes centrarte en tu propia felicidad. Porque t\u00fa tambi\u00e9n mereces ser feliz.<\/p>\n You deserve to have someone who will support and love you. Not someone who will emotionally drain you. And now it\u2019s time for you to own the world once more.<\/p>\n You finally left that intoxicated air and atmosphere you\u2019ve been trapped in. You let go of the juegos mentales<\/a> and emotional hell to save what\u2019s left of yourself. And even if it hurts now, even if you feel like you will never be happy again, you will.<\/p>\n Trust me\u2014pain is one hell of a motivator and there is nothing that will push you harder and stronger than the pain itself.<\/p>\n You learned what kind of love you don\u2019t want to have. Now you will never settle for someone\u2019s half-assed love and games. You will never settle just because it\u2019s expected of you or because you\u2019re afraid of being alone.<\/p>\n Because you learned the hard way that it\u2019s better to be alone than to be with the wrong person. I guess you can thank him for raising your standards and expectations.<\/p>\n Te negaste a conformarte y te alejaste cuando alejarse era lo m\u00e1s dif\u00edcil y lo que m\u00e1s miedo daba.<\/p>\n Para eso hace falta mucha fuerza, y cuando esos pensamientos intrusos empiecen a perseguirte y a decirte que eres un derrotista, recuerda que no merece la pena luchar por algunas personas.<\/p>\n A veces, por mucho que lo intentemos y luchemos, algunas cosas no est\u00e1n destinadas a salir bien.<\/p>\n It\u2019s time for you to find your way back and to walk on it alone. Yes, it looks scary to be all alone after being with someone for so long, but you did it way before you met him and you can do it again.<\/p>\n You walked through hell and made friends with the devil\u2014there is no reason for you to not do it again.<\/p>\n And that\u2019s not him. That\u2019s not someone who lies and cheats, someone who is incapable of committing and loving the way you deserve. And now, you know that you deserve more than someone who makes you wait and wonder if you are enough.<\/p>\n Te mereces algo m\u00e1s que juegos t\u00f3xicos y cicatrices en el coraz\u00f3n. Y deber\u00edas estar muy orgullosa de haberte dado cuenta y haber buscado tu propia felicidad.<\/p>\n Love has a way of changing us\u2014sometimes for the good and sometimes for the bad. True love makes us thrive together and become the best versions of ourselves. But the toxic one takes pieces of us and leaves us shattered in pieces, gasping for air and picking up what\u2019s left.<\/p>\n Y tienes una nueva oportunidad de reconstruirte, de redescubrir qui\u00e9n eres. Algunas personas nunca tienen esa oportunidad porque el miedo las ata y las deja atrapadas en su propio infierno. Aprovecha la oportunidad que tienes y s\u00e1cale el m\u00e1ximo partido.<\/p>\n1. Puedes volver a conectar con tus seres queridos<\/span><\/h2>\n
2. Puedes volver a ser espont\u00e1neo<\/span><\/h2>\n
3. Puedes centrarte por completo en ti mismo y en tu propio bienestar<\/span><\/h2>\n
4. Puedes volver a respirar<\/span><\/h2>\n
5. Tu nivel de exigencia y tus expectativas aumentan<\/span><\/h2>\n
6. Encontraste tu fuerza y tu valor<\/span><\/h2>\n
7. Consigue eabraza tu independencia<\/a> de nuevo<\/span><\/h2>\n
8. Has descubierto lo que quieres y lo que mereces<\/span><\/h2>\n
9. Podr\u00e1s redescubrir qui\u00e9n eres<\/span><\/h2>\n
10. Aprendes a quererte de nuevo<\/span><\/h2>\n