{"id":166282,"date":"2025-02-09T14:00:00","date_gmt":"2025-02-09T13:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=166282"},"modified":"2025-02-06T22:54:27","modified_gmt":"2025-02-06T21:54:27","slug":"reglas-para-una-relacion-rock-solit","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/reglas-para-una-relacion-rock-solit\/","title":{"rendered":"22 reglas para una relaci\u00f3n s\u00f3lida como una roca"},"content":{"rendered":"

Nuestras vidas se basan esencialmente en las relaciones y una de la relaci\u00f3n m\u00e1s importante es la que tenemos con nuestra pareja.<\/strong> Su importancia est\u00e1 estrechamente relacionada con el resto de nuestras relaciones y con nuestro bienestar general.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

El amor es la principal especia de la vida. Cuando amamos y nos sentimos amados, prosperamos en todos los aspectos de nuestra vida.<\/strong> Pero si quieres tener una relaci\u00f3n fuerte y sana, tienes que esforzarte. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

No s\u00f3lo tienes que trabajar en tu relaci\u00f3n, sino tambi\u00e9n en ti mismo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I analyzed what makes a relationship great and strong, and these are 22 core elements of every successful relationship you\u2019ll want to follow.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. Demuestra tu amor. Todos los d\u00edas.<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Don\u2019t just feel it, don\u2019t keep it for yourself like it\u2019s some kind of a top secret.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

D\u00e9jalo salir, que se note en cada movimiento que hagas<\/strong>...por cada palabra que dices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cYour greatest power is to show love, to receive love and to be love.\u201d \u2013 Oprah Winfrey<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. Todo empieza contigo<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Don\u2019t try to change him, you\u2019ll just end up frustrated. Instead, try working on what you can control. That means yourself. Mej\u00f3rese. <\/strong>Hay muchas formas de ayudarse a uno mismo a sentirse mejor: meditaci\u00f3n, mindfulness, yoga, y la lista contin\u00faa. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, nurture your creative force and you\u2019ll thrive in relationships.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You\u2019ll notice how relationships can change you. You\u2019ll become a kinder person or become more self-assured. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cThe meeting of two personalities is like contact of two chemical substances: if there is any reaction, both are transformed.\u201d Carl Gustav Jung<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Deja que tus pensamientos fluyan libremente y tenlo presente<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Deja que tu mente divague<\/strong> y presta atenci\u00f3n a d\u00f3nde va. \u00bfEn qu\u00e9 piensas? En \u00e9l, lo s\u00e9. Y te hace sentir muy bien. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI wanted to tell you that wherever I am, whatever happens, I\u2019ll always think of you, and the time we spent together, as my happiest time.\u201d \u2013 Kazuo Ishiguro<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. Focus on what\u2019s good about you two<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Si usted centrarse en los aspectos positivos<\/strong> and positive aspects of your relationship you\u2019ll be able to live with all the imperfections. And there are always plenty of those, we\u2019re just humans, remember.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

“I saw that you were perfect, and so I loved you. Then I saw that you were not perfect and I loved you even more.” \u2013 Angelita Lim<\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. S\u00e9 feliz contigo mismo<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Only if you’re happy on your own you can be happy with someone else. Una persona feliz hace una relaci\u00f3n feliz.<\/strong> Don\u2019t expect the relationship to make you happy. It\u2019s the other way around.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cA relationship isn\u2019t meant to make you happy. It\u2019s meant to add to that existing happiness. Our own happiness is our responsibility\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

6. Para tener la relaci\u00f3n correcta hay que ser correcto<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Don\u2019t perceive your relationship as something outside of you. It\u2019s you, it\u2019s inside of you.<\/strong> As\u00ed que aseg\u00farate de nutrirlo, ri\u00e9galo<\/em>, and watch it grow. If you\u2019re fine everything around you will be fine. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cFinding the right person means being the right person.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

7. Acepta las imperfecciones<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Accept the imperfections, yours, his, and the ones in your relationship. Don\u2019t let the negative emotions overwhelm you. Aprende a perdonar. S\u00e9 tu mejor yo.<\/strong> You\u2019ll be happier, trust me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cTrue love doesn’t come by finding the perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly.\u201d \u2013 Jason Jordan<\/p>\n\n\n\n

8. Ver lados buenos atraer\u00e1 m\u00e1s buenos<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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When you\u2019re focusing and apreciar los aspectos positivos de la relaci\u00f3n<\/strong> y a tu pareja irradias buenas vibraciones y atraes m\u00e1s cosas buenas hacia ti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cYou attract the energy that you give off. Spread good vibes.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n

9. Perm\u00edtete florecer<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Perm\u00edtase crecer y aprender cosas nuevas.<\/strong> No s\u00f3lo te mejora a ti, sino tambi\u00e9n a tus relaciones.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00a1Aseg\u00farate de florecer!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

“The flower doesn’t dream of the bee. The flower blooms, and the bee comes.” \u2013 Arty Fischel<\/p>\n\n\n\n

10. Celebra tu amor<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Cel\u00e9brate a ti mismo, cel\u00e9bralo <\/strong>y todo lo que os une.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

“You are the finest, loveliest, tenderest, and most beautiful person I have ever known\u2014and even that is an understatement.” \u2013 F. Scott Fitzgerald<\/p>\n\n\n\n

11. Deja que tus actos hablen por ti<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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La mayor\u00eda de las veces lo que haces y c\u00f3mo lo haces expresa el amor mejor que las palabras.<\/strong> Puedes decir \u201cI love you\u201d <\/em>de muchas maneras diferentes sin decir una palabra. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cThoughts do more. Words do much. Actions do much more.\u201d \u2013 Israelmore Ayivor<\/p>\n\n\n\n

12. Pasar por alto los defectos<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Accept what annoys you and let it go. You can live with some of his flaws. You\u2019re not flawless, either.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Agradece lo que es. <\/strong>Demuestre cu\u00e1nto aprecia a su pareja. Elogia sus virtudes y dale las gracias cuando haga algo por ti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cTo be fully seen by somebody, then, and be loved anyhow\u2014this is a human offering that can border on miraculous.\u201d Elizabeth Gilbert<\/p>\n\n\n\n

13. Qui\u00e9rete a ti mismo<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Trabajar el amor propio y el cuidado de uno mismo. <\/strong>Take care of yourself first, be well, and then your relationship will be well too. When you learn to love yourself first you\u2019ll become lovable and able to give love.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cOne of the greatest gifts you can give your husband is your own wholeness.\u201d \u2013 Stormie Omartian<\/p>\n\n\n\n

14. Vive el momento<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Estar presente en el AHORA<\/strong> y c\u00e9ntrate en cada momento memorable que compart\u00e1is juntos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cLove like there\u2019s no tomorrow, and if tomorrow comes, love again.\u201d \u2013 Max Lucado\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

15. Mantener el compromiso<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Mantente fiel y coherente en tu relaci\u00f3n. Crea confianza. Toma decisiones meditadas. Significa you\u2019re loyal even during the storms.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cIt\u2019s simple really, you have to be willing to go through the valleys as much as you are willing to go through the peaks. Put yourself all in and stay in it for the long haul.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

16. Haz algo especial y amable cada d\u00eda<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Mantente amable y generoso, haz algo bonito, sorpr\u00e9ndele.<\/strong> Las sorpresas mantendr\u00e1n fresca tu relaci\u00f3n. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Incluso el m\u00e1s peque\u00f1o acto de amabilidad reforzar\u00e1 vuestro v\u00ednculo y os recordar\u00e1 por qu\u00e9 est\u00e1is juntos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cTry to be a rainbow in someone’s cloud.\u201d Maya Angelou<\/p>\n\n\n\n

17. Forja tu futuro con las lecciones del pasado<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Aprender de los errores del pasado<\/strong> en las relaciones y haz que \u00e9sta sea armoniosa y confortable. Da forma a tu futuro. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

“Study the past if you would define the future.” \u2014 Confucius<\/p>\n\n\n\n

18. Disfrutar de tiempo de calidad juntos<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Cuanto m\u00e1s inviertas en tu relaci\u00f3n, mejor ser\u00e1. Programe una cita al menos una vez a la semana.<\/strong> \u00a1Me refiero a una cita de verdad!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ve al cine, cena en un restaurante elegante o haz otras cosas divertidas que os gusten a los dos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cHaving a good time together is the essence of lovingness and the best means of increasing it.\u201d \u2013 Benjamin Spock<\/p>\n\n\n\n

19. Peque\u00f1as cosas<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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It\u2019s all about little things. <\/strong>Don\u2019t underestimate the small, almost unnoticeable gestures and actions you do every day! They express your love better than great acts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cIt’s the little details that are vital. Little things make big things happen.\u201d \u2013 John Wooden<\/p>\n\n\n\n

20. Dar apoyo y pedir apoyo<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Be supportive in hard times. Make sure you\u2019re there for him when he needs you, but also ask for help when YOU need it. Be his rock and promise to \u201c<\/strong>always have his back through thick and thin\u201d<\/em><\/strong>.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWhen I feel the support that I have from him, I feel invincible. There’s someone behind you on your good days and someone in front of you on your bad days.” \u2014Emily Blunt<\/p>\n\n\n\n

21. Hablar abiertamente<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Don\u2019t expect him to read your mind, tell him how you feel and let him know if something upsets you. Expresa tu vulnerabilidad y deja que \u00e9l haga lo mismo.<\/strong> S\u00e9 tambi\u00e9n un buen oyente.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cuando puedes hablar con tu pareja abiertamente y sin cortapisas, se refuerza la conexi\u00f3n emocional entre los dos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cA lot of problems in the world would be solved if we talked to each other instead of about each other.\u201d \u2013 Nicky Gumbel<\/p>\n\n\n\n

22. Mantenga su relaci\u00f3n<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Cuida y nutre tu relaci\u00f3n. <\/strong>Cuando los dos parezc\u00e1is rotos, haz todo lo posible por arreglaros. Resolved los conflictos con respeto. La relaci\u00f3n es como un coche. De vez en cuando necesita una revisi\u00f3n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cA relationship is like a house. When a light bulb burns out you don\u2019t go and buy a new house, you change the lightbulb.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00bfHas tomado nota? \u00a1Utiliza todos estos consejos y deja que tu relaci\u00f3n florezca!<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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