{"id":16636,"date":"2018-03-20T07:42:10","date_gmt":"2018-03-20T07:42:10","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=16636"},"modified":"2022-02-01T01:18:58","modified_gmt":"2022-02-01T01:18:58","slug":"4-cosas-que-hacer-si-se-esta-desenamorando-de-ti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/4-cosas-que-hacer-si-se-esta-desenamorando-de-ti\/","title":{"rendered":"4 cosas que hacer si se est\u00e1 desenamorando de ti"},"content":{"rendered":"

Una de las peores cosas que puedes experimentar es ver c\u00f3mo tu pareja se desenamora de ti. Es doloroso y humillante al mismo tiempo.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t hate or blame him but you also can\u2019t lie to yourself because you can see that his emotions are slowly fading away.<\/p>\n

Puedes ver que este hombre se te escapa de las manos y piensas que no hay nada que puedas hacer. Y ah\u00ed es donde te equivocas.<\/p>\n

A continuaci\u00f3n te indicamos algunas medidas que pueden ayudarte a superar esta situaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

1. Dale espacio<\/span><\/h2>\n

Cuando sospeche que tu pareja est\u00e1 perdiendo poco a poco el inter\u00e9s por ti<\/a>lo primero que debes hacer es darle algo de espacio.<\/p>\n

En primer lugar, es posible que necesite tiempo para reflexionar y que tenga otras cosas en la cabeza aparte de vuestra relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

S\u00e9 que probablemente pienses que es lo \u00faltimo que deber\u00edas hacer, pero si tu novio muestra el deseo de alejarse, dale esa oportunidad. Te est\u00e1 mostrando inconscientemente que necesita un poco de espacio para despejarse.<\/p>\n

Es posible que est\u00e9 atravesando un periodo dif\u00edcil de su vida y que s\u00f3lo necesite algo de tiempo para s\u00ed mismo.<\/p>\n

Adem\u00e1s, quieres estar con alguien que est\u00e9 100% seguro de que tambi\u00e9n quiere estar contigo, as\u00ed que deber\u00edas permitirle que tome ese tipo de decisi\u00f3n por s\u00ed mismo.<\/p>\n

2. Don\u2019t be too needy<\/span><\/h2>\n

Cuando vemos que alguien intenta alejarse de nosotros, nuestro primer impulso es volvernos demasiado necesitados y pegajosos.<\/p>\n

Lo hacemos inconscientemente, por miedo, pensando que as\u00ed se acercar\u00e1n m\u00e1s. Pero, cuando empiezas obsesionarse con alguien<\/a>Por lo general, tiene el efecto contrario, sobre todo si esa persona est\u00e1 perdiendo inter\u00e9s en ti.<\/p>\n

Ser demasiado pegajoso<\/a> y demasiado necesitado revela tus inseguridades y aleja a\u00fan m\u00e1s a tu pareja de ti. Lo peor es que empieces a chantajearle emocionalmente o que empieces a jugar la carta de la culpa, record\u00e1ndole todo lo que hiciste por el bien de vuestra relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Besides being pathetic, you don\u2019t want him to be with you out of gratitude or because he feels obligated, do you? If you see that your partner doesn\u2019t initiate contact, you can either decide that you won\u2019t wait for him and move on with your life immediately or you can peacefully wait for him to make a final decision.<\/p>\n

But please avoid bothering him all the time, because that won\u2019t lead you anywhere.<\/p>\n

3. Recu\u00e9rdale los buenos tiempos<\/span><\/h2>\n

Si sientes que tu novio se est\u00e1 desenamorando de ti, eso significa que obviamente necesita que le recuerdes las cosas que hicieron que se enamorara de ti en primer lugar.<\/p>\n

But instead of nagging all the time and talking to him about all the beautiful memories directly, be a little more subtle. Show him what he\u2019ll miss if he walks away from you and show him all the reasons he fell in love with you.<\/p>\n

Give yourself the opportunity to be seductive. Is it possible that the two of you were together for so long that you\u2019ve started taking each other for granted and that neither of you tries to win over the other person anymore?<\/p>\n

Well, maybe it\u2019s time for you to change things and to start investing in your relationship once again.<\/p>\n

4. C\u00e9ntrate en tu vida<\/span><\/h2>\n

Another thing you need to do when you see that your partner is falling out of love with you is to focus on your life. If you keep yourself busy, you\u2019ll have less time to think about him and your relationship and that will be more than beneficial for both of you.<\/p>\n

Muchas mujeres ponen su vida en pausa, en cuanto notan que su la pareja pierde inter\u00e9s<\/a>, esperando a que \u00e9l tome una decisi\u00f3n respecto a su relaci\u00f3n. S\u00e9 que probablemente perdi\u00f3 la voluntad de todo, pero esto es lo peor que puedes hacer a ti mismo.<\/p>\n

You probably want to spend your days waiting for him to call or come around but why would you give so much importance to someone who maybe doesn\u2019t care about you anymore?<\/p>\n

Instead of doing this, devote this time to yourself. Find the things that make you happy and enjoy them. Besides feeling better about yourself, you\u2019ll also show him that you can live without him. And when you stop making him a priority, be certain that he\u2019ll feel it and that he will come to you first.  <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

One of the worst things that you can experience is seeing your partner falling out of love with you. It is painful and humiliating at the same time. You can\u2019t hate or blame him but you also can\u2019t lie to yourself because you can see that his emotions are slowly fading away. You can see…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":16637,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16636","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/alexandre-st-louis-297037-unsplash.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","parent":29620,"count":544,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29622,"category_count":544,"category_description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","cat_name":"relationship advice","category_nicename":"relationship-advice","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16636","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16636"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16636\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/16637"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16636"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16636"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16636"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}