{"id":16642,"date":"2018-03-20T08:19:02","date_gmt":"2018-03-20T08:19:02","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=16642"},"modified":"2022-01-09T22:09:20","modified_gmt":"2022-01-09T22:09:20","slug":"7-razones-para-dejarlo-ahora-mismo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/7-razones-para-dejarlo-ahora-mismo\/","title":{"rendered":"7 razones para dejarle ahora mismo"},"content":{"rendered":"

I know you\u2019re not going to. And it\u2019s fine. Really. It\u2019s your life. As your friend, I admit, it\u2019s a little painful to watch but I can\u2019t live it for you. In any case, I thought you should have a list that you can keep handy in case you ever need a little nudge.<\/p>\n

1. It\u2019s going to hurt now, or it\u2019s going to hurt later. Rip the Band-Aid off.<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

La ventaja de hacerlo ahora es que, cuando llegue el momento, lo habr\u00e1s superado. Un sabio amigo me dijo una vez que se puede superar cualquier cosa en nueve meses; si se puede crear y hacer crecer a un ser humano entero en ese tiempo, es l\u00f3gico que se pueda hacer lo mismo. superar cualquier obst\u00e1culo<\/a> in the same amount of time. I mean, it\u2019s a total fallacy but since it seems you are already hurting, you might as well put a deadline on it. But, of course, if you want to prolong your own agony, by all means hurt now, AND later. Peel that Band-Aid off nice and slow\u2014see where that leaves you.<\/p>\n

2. Your friends are tired of hearing you complain about the same things for the last, oh I don\u2019t know, forever?!<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

You are not happy, you haven\u2019t been in so long you can\u2019t even remember what it feels like. You have become so entrenched in your shitty situation that it seems like there is no other way. There is. Get out of your shitty relationship and get back to the awesome person you were before you became blinded by your own misery.<\/p>\n

3. Puedes hacerlo mejor por ti mismo, por ti misma.<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

Maybe you\u2019ve forgotten who you were before you became locked in a dungeon, but you were absolutely a kick-ass chick. You did not need anyone or anything to validate you. I know you thought you found the one, and he was for awhile. But for a long time now, I want to say he\u2019s been bringing you down, but I don\u2019t think that\u2019s fair to him, he\u2019s just being who he is\u2026 and you are just being who he wants you to be because it\u2019s easier to placate him than to express yourself. If the before him you could see you now, she would be very disappointed that you\u2019ve fallen prey to such a misogynist.<\/p>\n

4. Your parents don\u2019t like him.<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

It\u2019s all fun and games to rebel when you\u2019re a teenager, and to date someone to piss off your pops, but we\u2019re grown now and our priorities have changed. You want to have a partner you can have around your family because you like your family and you spend a lot of time with them. You have to know that at this point in life your parents only want what is best for you and they want to see you happy. If they don\u2019t like your partner, it\u2019s probably because he\u2019s a fucking douche.<\/strong><\/p>\n

5. You know what? I\u2019m gonna go ahead and say it. Your friends don\u2019t like him either.<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

They don\u2019t mind him as a person, to have a conversation with in passing, but they don\u2019t like him for you. He doesn\u2019t bring out your best self and that is what a partner is supposed to do, or at the very least not bring out your worst with little provocation. \u00bfTe gusta qui\u00e9n eres con \u00e9l?<\/strong> Have you ever asked yourself that? Perhaps it\u2019s time you did.<\/p>\n

6. It\u2019s not going to get any easier.<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

The longer you wait, the worse it will get. You have been doing this thing where you keep waiting for something to change and it doesn\u2019t. It won\u2019t. He doesn\u2019t even want to change<\/a> and he\u2019s pretty much told you that flat out. It\u2019s not going to get any better than it is now, it does not make sense to wait for it to get worse.<\/p>\n

7. Ser infeliz es motivo suficiente para marcharse.<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

And really, from the sound of it, he\u2019s not any happier than you are. Do you both a favor and put yourselves back on the market to find partners with whom you will be more compatible.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I know you\u2019re not going to. And it\u2019s fine. Really. It\u2019s your life. As your friend, I admit, it\u2019s a little painful to watch but I can\u2019t live it for you. In any case, I thought you should have a list that you can keep handy in case you ever need a little nudge. 1….<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":16643,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16642","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/george-gvasalia-447649-unsplash.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","parent":29620,"count":544,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29622,"category_count":544,"category_description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","cat_name":"relationship advice","category_nicename":"relationship-advice","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16642","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16642"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16642\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/16643"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16642"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16642"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16642"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}