{"id":166455,"date":"2024-06-28T08:12:09","date_gmt":"2024-06-28T08:12:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=166455"},"modified":"2024-06-28T08:12:11","modified_gmt":"2024-06-28T08:12:11","slug":"por-que-los-hombres-permanecen-en-relaciones-infelices","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/por-que-los-hombres-permanecen-en-relaciones-infelices\/","title":{"rendered":"10 razones por las que los hombres se atascan en relaciones sin \u00e1nimo (no porque nos guste la miseria)"},"content":{"rendered":"

You\u2019ve been wondering why the heck men stay in relationships that are more misery than joy. We\u2019ve all been there, feeling trapped, pissed off, asking ourselves why don\u2019t we just pack up and leave?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Here\u2019s the deal! When we were little boys they told us to stay strong no matter what, to tough it out, fix things\u2026 So when we feel miserable in a relationship we think: mantente fuerte, aguanta el dolor, \u00a1puedes lograrlo! <\/em><\/strong>It\u2019s built in us. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Una vez pas\u00e9 seis a\u00f1os en una relaci\u00f3n infeliz. Era realmente deprimente y me chupaba la vida. Todo el mundo notaba c\u00f3mo me cambiaba la cara cada vez que ella estaba cerca.<\/strong> La sonrisa se transformaba de repente en inquietud y malestar. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

She was always nitpicking me and complaining about everything. Never satisfied. But to everyone\u2019s surprise, I could not leave her. It was not that simple.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

There are a bunch of reasons why men stick around when they\u2019re not happy. Let\u2019s break it down:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. Ten\u00eda miedo de estar solo<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

First off, there\u2019s a huge fear of being alone. Yeah, I said it. We might not talk about it but la idea de volver a estar soltero, sobre todo despu\u00e9s de mucho tiempo, puede asustar bastante.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

No solo again, thank you. This relationship isn\u2019t perfect or fun either, but it\u2019s MINE. Known. Familiar. Comfy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. El cambio me daba mucho miedo<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"hombre<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Odio el cambio. Lo nuevo y lo desconocido me asustan. I\u2019m the guy who prefers an old worn-out T-shirt rather than a new one. <\/strong>Se siente bien y seguro. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Change freaks me out. That\u2019s why I was kept in the tracks for such a long time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Empezar de nuevo me pareci\u00f3 horrible<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

When you\u2019ve been with your partner for years, incluso pensar en empezar de nuevo da miedo.<\/strong> \u00bfEmpacar las cosas y buscar un nuevo lugar?<\/em> It\u2019s like standing on the brink of the abyss and looking down. Horrifying right?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So I\u2019d rather stay in an old known place than start a new chapter in my life. All safe here, do you feel me?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. Estaba atrapado en un bucle de familiaridad<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

La rutina y la familiaridad pueden atraparte. It\u2019s all so predictable and easy.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s like watching a boring movie because you’re too lazy to get up from your comfy seat to reach the remote control. I hesitated to try something new. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. \u00bfQu\u00e9 dir\u00e1 la gente si la dejo?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Existe una fuerte presi\u00f3n social y un estigma asociado al divorcio y las rupturas. Real men don\u2019t give up<\/em><\/strong>...y ese tipo de conversaciones con las que nos han alimentado desde que \u00e9ramos peque\u00f1os.<\/strong> Soportar la miseria se considera noble<\/em>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00bfDejarla? Imagina lo que la familia, los amigos y todos los dem\u00e1s dir\u00edan<\/em>. Fear of being judged if I leave her is paralyzing, I\u2019m telling you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

6. Esperaba que cambiara<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"_hombre<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Oh, la esperanza. \u00a1Qu\u00e9 cosa tan poderosa!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Esperaba que cambiara. Esperaba que todo mejorara<\/strong>Los problemas se resolver\u00edan solos. Esperaba que saliera el sol en un d\u00eda nublado. Por supuesto, nunca llegaba. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

7. Permanecer en una zona de confort era m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Let\u2019s not underestimate the power of habit. After years of being together incluso una relaci\u00f3n infeliz se vuelve c\u00f3moda a su manera. <\/strong>You know what to expect, you\u2019ve got your routines and familiarity gives you coziness.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

La idea de sacudir todo eso parece aterradora.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

8. Invert\u00ed mucho en la relaci\u00f3n<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Era como un proyecto a largo plazo. Invert\u00ed mucho tiempo y emociones en esa relaci\u00f3n. No pod\u00eda dejarlo todo atr\u00e1s.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tal vez una relaci\u00f3n no era perfecta pero no pod\u00eda simplemente alejarme de all\u00ed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

9. Esperaba un milagro <\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Resulta inc\u00f3modo admitirlo, pero yo era infantil y cre\u00eda de verdad en algo como un remedio m\u00e1gico. M\u00e1gicamente las cosas se arreglar\u00edan. S\u00f3lo ten\u00eda que esperar. <\/strong>Incluso cuando no hab\u00eda ning\u00fan signo de mejora cre\u00eda que era s\u00f3lo un cap\u00edtulo infeliz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

10. Me perd\u00ed en la relaci\u00f3n<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"hombre<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Tras seis a\u00f1os en una relaci\u00f3n infeliz, empec\u00e9 a perder partes de m\u00ed misma. Perd\u00ed un poco mi identidad y olvid\u00e9 qui\u00e9n sol\u00eda ser. <\/strong>My self-esteem was low. I couldn’t remember if I was ever able to make decisions without her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I know you women have the same issues. You\u2019re afraid to leave the comfort zone, to give up on long-term relationships, and are not ready to deal with uncertainty. That\u2019s why YOU TOO tend to stay in bad relationships. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

There\u2019s a huge difference between facing challenges in a relationship and neglecting yourself. You have to encontrar la fuerza para reconocer cu\u00e1ndo algo no tiene arreglo<\/strong> y tener las agallas para seguir adelante. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Leaving an unhappy relationship is a tough choice, I know. It\u2019s scary, it\u2019s hard and it means dealing with uncertainty. What I wanna tell you is this: tu felicidad, tu sentido del valor y tu tranquilidad son lo m\u00e1s importante.<\/strong> \u00a1Deja de torturarte! \u00a1Lib\u00e9rate! <\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s all about reclaiming your life and moving forward toward a happier, brighter future! You deserve to be happy!<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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