{"id":166562,"date":"2024-06-28T10:49:56","date_gmt":"2024-06-28T10:49:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=166562"},"modified":"2024-06-28T10:49:56","modified_gmt":"2024-06-28T10:49:56","slug":"ultimo-mensaje-enviado-a-un-ex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/ultimo-mensaje-enviado-a-un-ex\/","title":{"rendered":"Qu\u00e9 lleva a la gente a enviar mensajes de texto como estos cuando su relaci\u00f3n termina"},"content":{"rendered":"

Normalmente, cuando decides romper tu relaci\u00f3n por el motivo que sea, siempre existe el temor de dejar cosas sin decir. <\/strong>Incluso cuando terminas impulsivamente porque \u00e9l hizo algo imperdonable, tienes que tener la \u00faltima palabra.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tengo una fuerte deseo de utilizar las palabras como traca final a una relaci\u00f3n que se acaba. <\/strong>Maybe I\u2019m afraid if I keep it to myself it\u2019ll become poisonous and destroy my insides.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sometimes you\u2019re not even aware that it will be the last text exchange as he suddenly decides to ghost you. Or if YOU leave without saying anything \u2013 that is a message too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Anyway, I asked my friends to share some of the hilarious last texts they\u2019ve sent or received and I promise you\u2019ll be amused.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. \u201cWas he any good?\u201d<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Lo intu\u00ed un par de semanas antes, y un d\u00eda vi a su compa\u00f1era de trabajo saliendo a hurtadillas de nuestra casa mientras yo aparcaba el coche (volv\u00ed antes del trabajo). Cuando entr\u00e9 Mir\u00e9 su cara sonrojada y su cabellera y supe que acababa de acostarse con \u00e9l.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

I didn\u2019t tell her anything, I started packing my things. She was following me around and kept asking \u201cWhat are you doing? What\u2019s wrong?\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ten\u00eda que ir a alg\u00fan sitio, I couldn\u2019t stand being in that house for another second.<\/strong> I drove to my parent\u2019s place and texted her when I got there.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Brian (29)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. \u201cYou made me feel like a hostage. You\u2019re sick.\u201d<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n
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\"texto<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

He couldn\u2019t stop it. He was so possessive and pathologically jealous. I had to answer his calls immediately otherwise he would continue calling until the battery would die. Once Cog\u00ed el tel\u00e9fono y hab\u00eda 27 llamadas perdidas suyas. <\/strong>Psycho, I\u2019m telling you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ten\u00eda ninguna otra opci\u00f3n que desaparecer en el aire.<\/strong> Acabo de enviarle un mensaje, le he aconsejado que busque ayuda profesional y le he bloqueado para siempre.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Emma (40)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. \u201cDon\u2019t ever text me again!\u201d<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

I\u2019ve sent this and then blocked him on social media. He cheated on me and when I found out about it, he said it all happened accidentally and he didn\u2019t mean to be unfaithful.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00a1Qu\u00e9 imb\u00e9cil!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Janet (22)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. \u201cYou\u2019ll never find someone as good as I was\u201d<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Mi ex me mand\u00f3 un mensaje cuando le dej\u00e9 tras siete a\u00f1os de noviazgo. Hab\u00eda no queda chispa entre nosotros,<\/strong> no estaba dispuesto a esforzarse en nuestra relaci\u00f3n y me daba por sentada.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cuando me di cuenta \u00e9ramos b\u00e1sicamente amigos que viven juntos <\/strong>I couldn\u2019t take it anymore. I thought I deserved more than that.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hannah (30)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. \u201cYou’re a heartless bastard!\u201d<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n
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\"texto<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

Escrib\u00ed esto cuando despu\u00e9s de una gran pelea Volv\u00ed a un apartamento vac\u00edo.<\/strong> Se llev\u00f3 todo lo que pudo, incluso algunas de mis pertenencias personales.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sarrah (34)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

6. \u201cI could never forgive you! I never wanna see you again!!!\u201d<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Le envi\u00e9 este mensaje cuando me suplic\u00f3 que le diera una segunda oportunidad despu\u00e9s de haberme enga\u00f1ado con mi mejor amigo. Estaba destrozado, a la vez perd\u00ed a un amigo y a la mujer que amaba.<\/strong> Pero estaba seguro de que no quer\u00eda verla nunca. \u00a1Nunca m\u00e1s!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Joshua (43)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

7. \u201cI hope she will cheat on you!\u201d<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n
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\"texto<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

We met during master\u2019s studies and started seeing each other three weeks before the end. Then he had to go back to his hometown but the plan was to continue a long-distance relationship. But simplemente dej\u00f3 de responder. <\/strong>Lo \u00faltimo que supe de \u00e9l fue en el aeropuerto.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Entonces mi amiga ten\u00eda un viaje de negocios en su ciudad natal y lo vio cogido de la mano con una mujer. Hizo una foto y me la envi\u00f3 inmediatamente y reconoc\u00ed a su ex.<\/strong> I couldn\u2019t believe he was such a liar!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Alicia (24)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

8. \u201cI\u2019m sorry I ever loved you!\u201d<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Utiliz\u00f3 algunos detalles embarazosos sobre mi vida pasada en mi contra durante las vistas del divorcio.<\/strong> \u00a1Qu\u00e9 imb\u00e9cil!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Le envi\u00e9 un mensaje de texto despu\u00e9s de que terminara su diatriba tratando de humillarme ante el juez y nuestros abogados.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Jada (51)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

9. \u201cCan I come up?\u201d<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Le envi\u00e9 un mensaje despu\u00e9s de nuestra primera cita. No la bes\u00e9 en la puerta y me qued\u00e9 un par de minutos pensando qu\u00e9 hacer. Por supuesto, Esperaba darle algo m\u00e1s que un beso si dec\u00eda que s\u00ed.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Al d\u00eda siguiente no contest\u00f3 a mis mensajes ni a mis llamadas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Jason (32)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

10. \u201cI miss you.\u201d<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Rompimos despu\u00e9s de estar juntos 8 meses y sab\u00eda que era lo correcto ya que segu\u00edamos discutiendo y no \u00e9ramos el uno para el otro.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

But the next weekend I got drunk and texted him at 4 am. He didn’t reply, luckily. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Maeve (19)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

11. \u201cAre you out of your mind?! I can\u2019t be your friend.\u201d<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n
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\"mensaje<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

Todav\u00eda sent\u00eda algo por \u00e9l y estaba muy afligida. Era una idea loca y I didn\u2019t want any contact after he dumped me.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

No volv\u00ed a saber nada de \u00e9l despu\u00e9s de este mensaje.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Aaliyah (20)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

12. \u201cLeave me alone, you psycho!\u201d<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

He wouldn\u2019t stop stalking me in real life and virtually. Then I waited across the street until he came out of his apartment building. I started gritando su nombre y diciendo que era un enfermo que no dejaba de acosarme. <\/strong>La gente abr\u00eda las ventanas y se quedaba mir\u00e1ndole.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Luego me fui y le envi\u00e9 este mensaje. Finalmente dej\u00f3 de acosarme.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Jessica (46)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

13. \u201cDamn it! Stop ignoring me!\u201d<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

I\u2019ve sent her a mini novel made of diecinueve textos explicando lo mucho que me hiri\u00f3<\/strong> cuando se fue a pasar unas vacaciones con chicas. Me enfad\u00e9 mucho e intent\u00e9 hacerla cambiar de opini\u00f3n y que volviera.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ella nunca respondi\u00f3<\/strong> and obviously blocked me. I ran into her on the street after a few months and she pretended she didn’t know who I was.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

 Owen (23)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

14. \u201cLife is so much better without you. Goodbye forever.\u201d<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n
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\"mensaje<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

En Me liber\u00e9 de una relaci\u00f3n t\u00f3xica<\/strong> I finally felt what it is like to live without constant pressure. Life was good. I couldn\u2019t believe I tortured myself for such a long time by being with someone who was so mean to me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Finalmente, pude respirar <\/strong>y ten\u00eda que compartir lo feliz que era sin ella cerca. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Jake (39)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

15. \u201cAre you happy now?\u201d<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

\u00c9l quer\u00eda que yo fuera una ama de casa y pele\u00e1bamos todas las ma\u00f1anas antes de ir a trabajar.<\/strong> Siempre llegaba tarde por su culpa, y un d\u00eda me despidieron.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I\u2019ve emailed him the termination of my employment contract <\/strong>junto con los papeles de divorcio con el asunto \u201cAre you happy now\u201d.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Shania (40)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cu\u00e1ntas historias de miedo. \u00bfCu\u00e1l fue TU \u00faltimo dardo envenenado dirigido a tu ex?<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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