{"id":16661,"date":"2020-03-20T11:46:12","date_gmt":"2020-03-20T11:46:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=16661"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:15:22","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:15:22","slug":"es-por-eso-que-ella-no-cree-que-la-amas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/es-por-eso-que-ella-no-cree-que-la-amas\/","title":{"rendered":"Esta es la raz\u00f3n por la que ella no cree que la amas"},"content":{"rendered":"

Antes le prometieron amor y se qued\u00f3 sin \u00e9l.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

Le dijeron que la quer\u00edan y aun as\u00ed se qued\u00f3 sola. Crey\u00f3 en los dem\u00e1s, solo para ver c\u00f3mo esa confianza se volv\u00eda en su contra.<\/p>\n

Y ella tambi\u00e9n quiere creerte pero el dolor sigue ah\u00ed, manteniendo todos esos muros en alto.<\/p>\n

The pain is still there, keeping you out and keeping her safe. She wants to believe you and she doesn\u2019t, both at the same time. Because how could you love her? When no one else did, how could you?<\/p>\n

Antes dejaba entrar a la gente, s\u00f3lo para que asaltaran su coraz\u00f3n y su alma.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Cogieron lo que necesitaban y se fueron, dej\u00e1ndola vac\u00eda y agotada.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Dej\u00e1ndola a levantarse<\/a>Cuando sab\u00eda que no hab\u00eda nadie que pudiera echarle una mano. Cuando cre\u00eda que ella era la raz\u00f3n, la causa de su propio dolor.<\/p>\n

When she was left wondering if there was something she could\u2019ve done differently. Was there a chance for them to work out if she had only tried a little bit harder?<\/p>\n

And with time, she slowly realized that no matter how hard she tries, she can\u2019t make people stay when they don\u2019t want to.<\/p>\n

Entonces, \u00bfpor qu\u00e9 querr\u00edas quedarte?<\/p>\n

Ella sol\u00eda creer en el amor, \u00bfsabes? Cre\u00eda que amar\u00eda a alguien de todo coraz\u00f3n y que \u00e9l tambi\u00e9n la amar\u00eda.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Cre\u00eda que tendr\u00eda a alguien a su lado con quien envejecer. Alguien que la amar\u00eda incluso cuando su pelo se volviera gris y su cara estuviera toda arrugada por el tiempo.<\/p>\n

But it wouldn\u2019t matter because he would love her for who she was.<\/p>\n

It wouldn\u2019t matter because when he looked at her, he would see the woman he fell in love with.<\/p>\n

Una mujer con ondas de pelo casta\u00f1o, pecas en la cara y mejillas sonrojadas, que ama la vida y lucha contra las adversidades.<\/p>\n

She used to believe but she no longer does. She used to fight, but she gave up a long time ago. Why haven\u2019t you given up yet?<\/p>\n

Se qued\u00f3 sola demasiadas veces<\/a>.<\/strong> <\/em><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

People who swore to love her for eternity, ghosted her. People who promised her they would be there, weren\u2019t there when she needed them.<\/p>\n

La gente que le quit\u00f3 su amor y su calor, la dej\u00f3 para que se congelara.<\/p>\n

And when you promise her that you will be there, to love her, she fears you\u2019ll leave too.<\/p>\n

When you tell her that she\u2019s the one for you, she already sees you walking away, like all the others before you did.<\/p>\n

Cuando la abrazas fuerte, ya siente la soledad que la golpear\u00e1 cuando te vayas.<\/p>\n

Quiere creerte pero la idea de que te quedes es lo que la aterroriza a muerte.<\/p>\n

The idea of someone making her believe all over again, only to break her, is what\u2019s worrying her.<\/p>\n

She is afraid to trust you, because after the calm comes the storm. And she knows she can\u2019t survive another one.<\/p>\n

She was convinced that she\u2019s both too much and not enough.<\/strong> <\/em><\/p>\n

She is too much to handle and not enough to hold onto. She\u2019s too much to take in and not good enough to love.<\/p>\n

Estaba convencida de que cada parte de ella estaba mal. \u00bfC\u00f3mo te recuperas de algo as\u00ed?<\/p>\n

How do you get back on your feet when they\u2019re too broken to keep you standing? How do you keep on going when there\u2019s nothing left to look forward to?<\/p>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

And even when she seems like she has it all under control, there are still days when she can\u2019t get out of bed.<\/p>\n

Y hay d\u00edas en los que se levanta de la cama, s\u00f3lo para caminar vac\u00eda y hueca.<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1 en piloto autom\u00e1tico, haciendo lo que se espera de ella, pero sin vivirlo. No las ama. No se ama a s\u00ed misma. Entonces, \u00bfc\u00f3mo puedes amarla?<\/p>\n

Quiere confiar en ti. Quiere que pases por encima de todos sus mecanismos de defensa, quiere que seas t\u00fa quien recomponga los millones de piezas.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Quiere que seas la raz\u00f3n por la que escucha canciones de amor y las entiende. Quiere que seas la causa de sus mariposas y el motivo de su sonrisa.<\/p>\n

Quiere desnudar su alma y mostrarte su parte m\u00e1s tierna y vulnerable. Pero necesita que te pongas de su parte.<\/p>\n

She needs to know you\u2019re in it as much as she is. Tell her that you\u2019re afraid too.<\/p>\n

Tell her that the thought of giving your heart to someone terrifies the shit out of you but that she\u2019s worth it.<\/p>\n

She\u2019s worth all of it. Make her believe that you love her and she will. Show her that there\u2019s no one else for you and she will be all you ever looked for.<\/p>\n

Once she lets you in, that\u2019s the only home you\u2019re ever going to need. And you\u2019ll be hers too.<\/p>\n

\"Esta<\/p>\n

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