{"id":167060,"date":"2024-07-03T11:24:19","date_gmt":"2024-07-03T11:24:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=167060"},"modified":"2024-09-14T15:59:00","modified_gmt":"2024-09-14T15:59:00","slug":"errores-que-cometen-los-hombres-en-las-citas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/errores-que-cometen-los-hombres-en-las-citas\/","title":{"rendered":"Los 10 peores errores que cometen los chicos en las citas y que las mujeres odian"},"content":{"rendered":"

Conozco tantas historias sobre citas que han salido mal que podr\u00eda escribir un libro sobre ellas. Sometimes it\u2019s funny, other times it’s just disappointing and creepy.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

From guys who turned out to be complete narcissists to the ones who are rude and don\u2019t know how to act like gentlemen, I\u2019ve heard it all.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You simply can\u2019t go through life without ending up on at least one bad date. I\u2019ve definitely been on a few dates I wish never happened.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Despu\u00e9s de escuchar a mis amigos quejarse y por mis propias experiencias, me di cuenta de que hay algunas errores comunes que los hombres cometen en las citas y que desaniman a las mujeres. <\/strong>There\u2019s legit nothing worse than when they:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. Llegar tarde<\/h2>\n\n\n
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\"mujer<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

\u00a1Uf, esto es tan desagradable! Llegar tarde a cualquier sitio, excepto si tienes una buena excusa, es una falta de respeto. Llegar tarde crea mala energ\u00eda desde el principio de la cita.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Recuerdo que una vez esper\u00e9 a un chico durante casi una hora. Cuando se me enfri\u00f3 la comida, tambi\u00e9n se enfri\u00f3 mi inter\u00e9s por \u00e9l. As\u00ed que, por favor, prep\u00e1rate a tiempo y ten siempre en cuenta otros factores que pueden afectar a la hora a la que llegas a la cita, como el tr\u00e1fico.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you\u2019re already late and can\u2019t do anything about it, at least send a quick message and make sure you apologize and make up for it. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. Hablar s\u00f3lo de s\u00ed mismos<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Whenever I went out with a guy who couldn’t stop talking about himself, I always felt like he was not interested in me but only wanted to tell someone his whole life story.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Of course, we want to get to know you but conversation requires at least two people, so don\u2019t be the only one talking! I know you want to present yourself in the best light but talking only about yourself is doing the exact opposite! <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Y francamente, we\u2019re not interested in every minor detail about your life. <\/strong>Instead, we want to see if we\u2019re compatible and decide if we\u2019re gonna see each other ever again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Presumir demasiado<\/h2>\n\n\n
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Lo mismo que hablar demasiado de s\u00ed mismos. Nos encantan los chicos seguros de s\u00ed mismos, pero no los que est\u00e1n llenos de s\u00ed mismos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

I once went on a date with a guy who couldn\u2019t stop bragging about how much money he makes, where he travels, and famous people he works with. It was so annoying! It\u2019s nice to know you\u2019re successful but people who are obsessed with materialistic things aren\u2019t attractive at all.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00e9ntrate en establecer una conexi\u00f3n y en cosas que revelen tu personalidad y tus valores<\/strong>no los n\u00fameros de su cuenta bancaria.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. Don\u2019t listen<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Saber escuchar activamente a los dem\u00e1s es una habilidad muy importante y valiosa. Escuchar atentamente y entablar una conversaci\u00f3n<\/strong> to show women you\u2019re interested in them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Don\u2019t only wait for them to finish so you can say something. Try to understand what they\u2019re saying, ask follow-up questions, and validate their opinions and feelings.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

My friend told me she was out with a guy who didn\u2019t pay attention to anything she was saying. She felt like she wasn\u2019t important to him and couldn\u2019t understand why he asked her out since he seemed uninterested. If she talked to the wall it would feel the same!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. Centrarse en sus tel\u00e9fonos<\/h2>\n\n\n
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\"hombre<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

I think it\u2019s pretty clear we all became obsessed with our phones. Seriously, it\u2019s something we should work on. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

You live in the real world and get a chance to have fun with someone and build a connection but you choose the virtual world instead? If you check your phone too much on dates, women think whatever you\u2019re looking at is probably more important than them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sea respetuoso y demu\u00e9strales que realmente quieres tener una cita con ellos. <\/strong>No one wants to be with someone who can\u2019t leave their phone alone for a couple of hours.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

6. Hablar de su ex<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

I went out to grab a drink with one guy once and that was the last time I saw him. He talked so much about his ex, how they\u2019re still hanging out, and he told me she\u2019s smart, beautiful\u2026 This whole time I wondered why he wasn\u2019t with her if he liked her that much. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Guys, if you\u2019re still not over your ex, please give yourself some time before engaging with other people. Focus on the person you\u2019re with, not someone you left in the past.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

But even if you\u2019re not on good terms with your ex, don\u2019t talk trash about them! Just avoid mentioning them in any sense. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

7. No tener modales<\/h2>\n\n\n
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I sometimes feel that gentlemen have gone extinct! It\u2019s so easy to be a decent human being and still, some people manage to fail in that!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nothing speaks more about you and your character than the way you behave. Don\u2019t act like a Neanderthal, for God\u2019s sake! \u00c1brele la puerta, ac\u00e9rcale la silla y s\u00e9 educado.<\/strong> \u00a1a la gente que te rodea!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Todas estas son peque\u00f1as cosas que marcan una gran diferencia en lo que pensamos de ti y pueden decidir si queremos volver a verte o fantasmear contigo en las redes sociales.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

8. Actuar insistentemente con contacto f\u00edsico<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

This one might be the biggest turn-off. Some men seriously need to learn what consent means. It\u2019s so important to know how to read someone\u2019s body language so you can see if they\u2019re comfortable around you or not. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Por favor, respect women\u2019s boundaries and don\u2019t be too touchy<\/strong> a menos que sepas 100% que tu cita quiere eso. Si te das cuenta de que se sienten inc\u00f3modos, aunque solo sea un segundo, da un paso atr\u00e1s y disc\u00falpate. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

There\u2019s no need to rush. If you have real chemistry with someone, things will kind of happen on their own without you having to push anything. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

9. Don\u2019t care about their appearance<\/h2>\n\n\n
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Las mujeres hacemos muchas cosas antes de salir con alguien. Nos exfoliamos y afeitamos todo el cuerpo, pasamos horas maquill\u00e1ndonos y eligiendo qu\u00e9 ponernos, nos aseguramos de que nuestro pelo est\u00e9 perfecto y mucho m\u00e1s. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

As\u00ed que puedes imaginarte nuestra decepci\u00f3n cuando salimos con alguien que apenas se ha duchado.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cuando mi amigo me pregunt\u00f3 qu\u00e9 me parec\u00eda su atuendo para una cita, \u00a1me qued\u00e9 de piedra! Quer\u00eda salir con una camisa b\u00e1sica arrugada, con el pelo revuelto y la barba sin afeitar. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ten\u00e9is que hacerlo mejor, amigos. V\u00edstete adecuadamente, ponte una buena colonia y visita a tu peluquero antes de la cita. <\/strong>That\u2019s the least you can do compared to what women go through.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

10. Dejar que las mujeres manden<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Este es probablemente el error m\u00e1s com\u00fan que veo cometer a los chicos. \u00bfCreen que porque hoy hay m\u00e1s mujeres feministas queremos tomar la iniciativa? Oh no, lo hab\u00e9is entendido todo mal.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Queremos igualdad de derechos, pero ser un caballero sigue siendo tu trabajo. As\u00ed que aseg\u00farate de planear esa cita, hacer reservas y organizarlo todo. Show us you\u2019re capable and take initiative.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Women appreciate that more than you think. If you\u2019re not sure what\u2019s her vibe, suggest a couple of different options you have in mind and let her choose. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Remember that a first impression is the most important. Show her you\u2019re interested and enjoy her company. Esfu\u00e9rzate siempre por hacer que la cita sea inolvidable y memorable<\/strong>En un sentido positivo, por supuesto. <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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