{"id":167084,"date":"2024-07-03T11:55:09","date_gmt":"2024-07-03T11:55:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=167084"},"modified":"2024-09-14T15:58:52","modified_gmt":"2024-09-14T15:58:52","slug":"la-verdad-sobre-salir-con-chicos-guapos","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/la-verdad-sobre-salir-con-chicos-guapos\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00bfCrees Que Salir Es F\u00e1cil Cuando Eres Un Chico Guapo? No Tienes Ni Idea.\u00a0"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Como persona muy visual, <strong>Antes me gustaban los t\u00edos guapos,<\/strong> but it changed over time. Not that I\u2019ll miss noticing a handsome man on the street, but now I choose a good personality rather than good looks. If <em>Sr.<\/em> <em>Gran personalidad <\/em>happens to be handsome too \u2013 it&#8217;s a jackpot!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Me llev\u00f3 mucho tiempo empezar a valorar las cualidades reales en los hombres<\/strong> y en busca de aquellos que est\u00e1n bien, un poco promedio en t\u00e9rminos de apariencia, pero con su propio encanto \u00fanico.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>S\u00e9 que las citas pueden ser complicadas y que hay que besar muchas ranas por el camino. Tambi\u00e9n s\u00e9 que puede ser frustrante y que no dejas de hacerte preguntas, <strong><em>\u201cWhy does it take me such a long time to find the right person?\u201d<\/em><\/strong>. Bueno, tal vez sigas tomando malas decisiones.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Quiz\u00e1 tengas expectativas poco realistas, <\/strong>and that\u2019s why it\u2019s hard to get what you want.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But have you ever thought of\u2026&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">\u00bfC\u00f3mo es para la gente atractiva?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>A menudo asumimos que ser <strong>ser guapo garantiza una vida sentimental f\u00e1cil <\/strong>llena de posibilidades infinitas y conexiones sin esfuerzo. Los hombres y mujeres guapos pueden conseguir a quien quieran y encontrar el amor para ellos es m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil que para el resto de nosotros.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pero la realidad es mucho m\u00e1s diferente.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Los hombres y las mujeres despampanantes se enfrentan a sus propios retos a la hora de ligar<\/strong> lo que puede hacer sorprendentemente dif\u00edcil encontrar relaciones aut\u00e9nticas y duraderas.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>They often struggle with being perceived only as a nice face \u2013 <strong>su aspecto eclipsa su personalidad. <\/strong>Sometimes, it\u2019s hard for them to be taken seriously or for others to recognize their deeper qualities and interests.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Cuando se habla de hombres guapos, siempre se recurre a los viejos estereotipos.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s often believed good looks in men come with certain traits such as <strong>carisma, confianza e incluso una personalidad de playboy.<\/strong> Todo ello les somete a presi\u00f3n y les crea grandes expectativas para que cumplan estos ideales.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><em>\u201cHere\u2019s the truth about dating as a handsome guy\u201d<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>A TikToker, Austin Dunham, shared some insights on dating as a handsome guy\u2026&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I couldn\u2019t resist being sarcastic and thought <em>\u00a1Pobres hombres guapos! \u00a1La vida es tan dura, incluso para ellos!&nbsp;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But let\u2019s get real and see what he has to say:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p><em>\u201cMost guys think whenever you increase your looks your attraction is, women are just gonna fly to you and in some cases that can be true, but it\u2019s mostly gonna be a particular type of woman, not the ones you\u2019re thinking about.&nbsp;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>I actually have a theory that if you\u2019re a man you\u2019re gonna attract women in mostly one or two points below your current looks threshold or at least your perceived looks threshold.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>Por lo tanto, afirma que no importa lo despampanante que puedas ser, <strong>you\u2019ll always attract partners who are not as good-looking as you. <\/strong><em>Man, that doesn\u2019t feel fair!<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Then he explains if a man is like eight out of ten, or seven out of ten, he\u2019ll have more \u201cfives\u201d or \u201csixes\u201d looking for his attention. Pretty women will not even consider him, because\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p><em>\u201cWomen who are the eights, nines, and tens they\u2019re feining after the all stars, the athletes, the celebrities, the musicians. And when you become a handsome man, you\u2019re gonna wanna date on your same level.&nbsp;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>However, those women are gonna be increasingly more difficult to actually communicate with, to get in touch with, because the absorbent amount of options that they have.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>Tambi\u00e9n se\u00f1ala que <strong>los hombres guapos sin suficiente dinero, estatus social y redes tienen poco que ofrecer<\/strong> and they\u2019ll be unable to keep the women they attract.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As\u00ed que, adem\u00e1s del aspecto, <strong>a<\/strong> <strong>el hombre tiene que tenerlo todo. <\/strong>Incluso para mantener a esas mujeres <em>uno o dos niveles por debajo de \u00e9l.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p><em>&nbsp;\u201cSure, they think you\u2019re a nice face so have a good time with you, but if you wanna get to the point where you actually wanna keep these women in your life, it\u2019s gonna be that much more harder.&nbsp;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>So that\u2019s why as a man, you have to be well rounded, not just attractive but in every aspect of your life.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>Casi sent\u00ed pena por <strong>all those handsome men who can\u2019t get what they want<\/strong> y tienen que trabajar duro para tener \u00e9xito a pesar de su atractivo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Entonces comprob\u00e9 la secci\u00f3n de comentarios:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><em>\u201cI consider myself a six and I get a bunch of fours and fives\u201d<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Un usuario coment\u00f3 que <strong>los siete anteriores est\u00e1n sobrevalorados, <\/strong>so he prefers lower numbers as they\u2019re easier to handle. Another one said it\u2019s all about money:<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/comments.jpg\" alt=\"comentarios\" class=\"wp-image-167105\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/comments.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/comments-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/comments-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/comments-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/comments-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/comments-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/comments-1080x716.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/comments-1200x795.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Cr\u00e9dito: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@basedaustindunham\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">@basedaustindunham<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>Entonces, alguien llam\u00f3 <em>Testorenesandwich,<\/em> se describi\u00f3 a s\u00ed mismo como <em>\u201chandsome dude\u201d <\/em>who doesn\u2019t need money, and <strong>las mujeres son felices a su alrededor. <\/strong>Una mujer dijo que los hombres guapos son para jugar pero no para comprometerse.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/comments-on-social-media.jpg\" alt=\"comentarios en las redes sociales\" class=\"wp-image-167108\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/comments-on-social-media.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/comments-on-social-media-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/comments-on-social-media-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/comments-on-social-media-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/comments-on-social-media-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/comments-on-social-media-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/comments-on-social-media-1080x716.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/comments-on-social-media-1200x795.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Cr\u00e9dito: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@basedaustindunham\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">@basedaustindunham<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>Este sobre los pelirrojos me hizo estallar de risa:<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/comments-on-social-media-platform.jpg\" alt=\"comentarios en plataformas de medios sociales\" class=\"wp-image-167107\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/comments-on-social-media-platform.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/comments-on-social-media-platform-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/comments-on-social-media-platform-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/comments-on-social-media-platform-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/comments-on-social-media-platform-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/comments-on-social-media-platform-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/comments-on-social-media-platform-1080x716.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/comments-on-social-media-platform-1200x795.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Cr\u00e9dito: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@basedaustindunham\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">@basedaustindunham<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>As\u00ed que parece que las citas no son sopa de pato, ni siquiera para los hombres atractivos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Aunque ser guapo tiene sus ventajas, tambi\u00e9n conlleva grandes expectativas si quieren conservar a su pareja. <strong>It\u2019s nice they\u2019re handsome, but they must be smart and successful too, <\/strong>tienen poder, contactos y dinero&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Se espera que los hombres guapos lo tengan todo.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Vea el v\u00eddeo aqu\u00ed:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-tiktok wp-block-embed-tiktok\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<blockquote class=\"tiktok-embed\" cite=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@basedaustindunham\/video\/7332127592306232607\" data-video-id=\"7332127592306232607\" data-embed-from=\"oembed\" style=\"max-width:605px; min-width:325px;\"> <section> <a target=\"_blank\" title=\"@basedaustindunham\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@basedaustindunham?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">@basedaustindunham<\/a> <p>La realidad de las citas con hombres guapos<\/p> <a target=\"_blank\" title=\"\u266c sonido original - Austin Dunham\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/music\/original-sound-7332127901334850335?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">\u266c original sound &#8211; Austin Dunham<\/a> <\/section> <\/blockquote> <script async src=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/embed.js\"><\/script>\n<\/div><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>As a very visual person, I used to have a thing for hunky guys, but it changed over time. Not that I\u2019ll miss noticing a handsome man on the street, but now I choose a good personality rather than good looks. If Mr Great Personality happens to be handsome too \u2013 it&#8217;s a jackpot! It&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":167106,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29814],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-167084","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29814,"label":"Stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/Do-You-Think-Dating-Is-Easy-When-Youre-A-Handsome-Guy-You-Have-No-Idea-1024x576.jpg",1024,576,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29814,"name":"Stories","slug":"stories","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29814,"taxonomy":"category","description":"","parent":29651,"count":242,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29814,"category_count":242,"category_description":"","cat_name":"Stories","category_nicename":"stories","category_parent":29651}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/167084","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=167084"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/167084\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":167110,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/167084\/revisions\/167110"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/167106"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=167084"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=167084"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=167084"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}