{"id":167748,"date":"2024-07-10T07:46:31","date_gmt":"2024-07-10T07:46:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=167748"},"modified":"2024-07-10T07:46:33","modified_gmt":"2024-07-10T07:46:33","slug":"como-no-encarinarse-antes-de-tiempo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-no-encarinarse-antes-de-tiempo\/","title":{"rendered":"La entrenadora de citas revela c\u00f3mo evitar sentir algo demasiado pronto"},"content":{"rendered":"

Getting caught up in feelings early during the dating stage can be a real roller coaster, and I\u2019ve experienced that crazy ride more times than I\u2019d like to admit. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

I used to be the person who would one day casually go out with a guy, and the next thing you know, I\u2019m daydreaming like crazy. We didn\u2019t even set up a second date and I\u2019m already planning our future together!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Estaba tan desesperada por amor que Pensaba que todos los hombres con los que sal\u00eda eran <\/strong>el<\/em><\/strong>sin darme cuenta de que me costar\u00eda muchos desenga\u00f1os. Entonces me top\u00e9 con Shahrzad Parandeh, una coach de citas en TikTok que cambi\u00f3 mi vida.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Enumer\u00f3 todo lo que hab\u00eda hecho mal, pero por suerte tambi\u00e9n aport\u00f3 soluciones. Comenz\u00f3 su v\u00eddeo<\/a> diciendo:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cIf you\u2019re a woman who gets attached early on during the dating phase, I\u2019ve got you, girl! I want you to listen to this, I want you to save this and come back to it because it\u2019s going to change your dating game and it\u2019s going to really help you approach dating in a much healthier way.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Shahrzad explica c\u00f3mo cometi\u00f3 los mismos errores antes y siempre le sali\u00f3 el tiro por la culata<\/strong> but now everything\u2019s different. She shared the things that helped her and that every woman can apply to her life. So try this out next time!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Realize you don\u2019t even know this guy<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Aunque pueda sonar raro al principio, \u00a1tiene sentido! A menudo fantaseamos con una persona inventada en nuestra mente<\/strong> while not knowing anything about them. Who knows if he\u2019s even half of those things you want him to be?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

En lugar de pasar el tiempo convenci\u00e9ndote de que es la persona adecuada para ti, intenta conocerle mejor antes de hacer planes sobre tu futuro. <\/strong>This man might be a convicted criminal while you\u2019re here thinking he\u2019s your perfect match.<\/p>\n\n\n

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Cr\u00e9dito: TikTok<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n

Shahrzad explains you\u2019re focusing on the wrong things:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cYou wanna know whether or not he has what it takes to be with you. Is he gonna be a person that\u2019s reliable, is he trustworthy, is he consistent, is he gonna treat you right?… And if right off the bat, he\u2019s not showing you the qualities that you want, instead of focusing on what do I do to make him come to me, take a step back and say I don\u2019t even know who he is. Let me see if he has the qualities, the real qualities that I want.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

You gotta admit she\u2019s right. How can you think you\u2019re in love when you haven\u2019t even found out much about him? Don\u2019t think you know him fully just from one date and late-night texting.<\/strong> T\u00f3mate tu tiempo para conocerle de verdad y luego decide si te gusta, no la versi\u00f3n imaginaria que tienes en la cabeza. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

No le env\u00edes tantos mensajes<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Todos sabemos que esto puede ser dif\u00edcil, sobre todo cuando te gustan de verdad. Sin embargo, you can\u2019t find out everything about someone immediately.<\/strong> Tambi\u00e9n ser\u00eda aburrido repasar toda nuestra vida r\u00e1pidamente por mensajes y no dejar nada para m\u00e1s tarde.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mencion\u00f3 la importancia de ser realista con uno mismo:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cWhen you\u2019re texting all day and all night, you start to get this false sense of intimacy. You start to have real feelings for someone that\u2019s just texting you. They\u2019re not really dating you when they\u2019re just texting you!\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n

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Cr\u00e9dito: TikTok<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n

S\u00e9 que te sientes muy bien cuando congenias con alguien y tienes muchos temas de los que hablar, pero ella tiene raz\u00f3n. It\u2019s just a nice conversation, nothing more! <\/strong>So why would you invest your feelings as if you\u2019re in a committed relationship when you\u2019re far away from that?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

El entrenador de citas tambi\u00e9n explic\u00f3 it causes unnecessary drama and anxious feelings the moment they\u2019re busy and can\u2019t text you.<\/strong> If you get nervous while waiting for his response and then drop everything the second he answers, that\u2019s the biggest sign you need to step back!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Centra tu energ\u00eda en ti mismo<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Shahrzad termin\u00f3 su v\u00eddeo mencionando el consejo que da a todos sus clientes. Hay que think about all the energy you\u2019re wasting on him and redirect it towards yourself.<\/strong> Como ella dijo:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cAll that attention, all of that beautiful love that you\u2019re freely giving away to someone that you hardly know, you deserve it, so call it back to you. Bring all of that attention back to you. You deserve all of that energy!\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n

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Cr\u00e9dito: TikTok<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n

Imagine you\u2019re spending all this time and energy on someone who\u2019s not even worth it and you\u2019ll forget he existed one month from now. It\u2019s much better to focus on yourself and relax.<\/strong> Don\u2019t fantasize about him, let him show you if he\u2019s what you want.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sus consejos sobre citas ayudaron a muchos.<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

A lot of women in her comments said she read them like an open book and they found this video very helpful. Some even admitted it wasn\u2019t easy to come clean about this problem:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cThis was hard for me to hear\u2026 it\u2019s was only 3 wks and he already ghosted me. It\u2019s been really really draining.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Otra chica lamenta no haber escuchado este consejo a tiempo:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cI wish I would have seen this before he friend-zoned me then ghosted me after 5 weeks. He was a gentleman but now I wonder if he was talking to someone else.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

They\u2019re not the only ones who have been enlightened. I have to admit este entrenador de citas tambi\u00e9n me ayud\u00f3.<\/strong> After implementing everything she talked about, I\u2019ve experienced a huge change!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ya no tengo ansiedad y me siento m\u00e1s relajado y confiado. I try to be open to everything and don\u2019t make any conclusions ahead of time.<\/strong> So definitely try it out and you\u2019ll be thankful to Shahrzad for sharing her wisdom!<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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