{"id":167754,"date":"2024-07-10T07:59:36","date_gmt":"2024-07-10T07:59:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=167754"},"modified":"2024-07-10T07:59:38","modified_gmt":"2024-07-10T07:59:38","slug":"razon-por-la-que-los-hombres-espantan-a-las-mujeres","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/razon-por-la-que-los-hombres-espantan-a-las-mujeres\/","title":{"rendered":"El entrenador del amor explica la raz\u00f3n por la que los chicos te hacen ghosting"},"content":{"rendered":"

It\u2019s frustrating to invest yourself in someone only for them to disappear like nothing happened. You think you have this amazing energy going on, everything seems great, and then\u2026poof! It\u2019s all gone!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

We\u2019ve all been there, pregunt\u00e1ndome si dijimos o hicimos algo que los ahuyentara.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Una vez tuve una cita con un chico, nos seguimos mandando mensajes despu\u00e9s de la cita e incluso me dijo que le hac\u00eda ilusi\u00f3n volver a salir conmigo. La qu\u00edmica era una locura.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Esto dur\u00f3 un par de d\u00edas y una noche de repente me dej\u00f3 colgada. Pens\u00e9 que tal vez se hab\u00eda quedado dormido, pero no, recib\u00ed su respuesta tres d\u00edas despu\u00e9s. \u00a1\u00a1Tres d\u00edas despu\u00e9s!! \u00bfTe lo puedes imaginar?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dado que muchas mujeres se enfrentan a este problema, un coach del amor ha decidido por fin tranquilizarnos y explicarnos el porqu\u00e9 de esta situaci\u00f3n. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ultimate test of women\u2019s reaction<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Entrenador del amor, Brody Boyd public\u00f3 un TikTok<\/a> acerca de por qu\u00e9 los chicos desaparecen de repente durante la fase de citas.<\/strong> Al parecer, fantasmearon para ver nuestra reacci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n\n\n

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Cr\u00e9dito: TikTok<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

Brody dice:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cHe won\u2019t text you back or he\u2019ll disappear or go missing to see how you respond. I\u2019m not saying this is great and in fact he could be doing this unconsciously or he could be doing it consciously, but when a guy \u2018goes missing\u2019 or pulls away in that way often it is a test.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Explica adem\u00e1s que lo hacen porque they want to find out what\u2019s your personality like.<\/strong> If you get pissed off immediately and send him a bunch of texts, he\u2019ll think you\u2019re desperate. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

La cuesti\u00f3n es men don\u2019t want a woman who\u2019s needy<\/strong> so by attacking him you can only push him further away and lose him forever. On the other hand, if you keep your cool, don\u2019t bother asking him why he\u2019s not responding, that\u2019s a plus. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Brody says if you continue with your life, this will send a strong message that you know your value and won\u2019t accept this behavior. So he\u2019ll think you have standards and want someone more available. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Women didn\u2019t like what this love coach had to say <\/strong>and didn\u2019t hesitate to write that in the comments. Many said that this is not a test but a huge red flag, and some wrote that acting this way is childish and women don\u2019t have time for playing games. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Una mujer escribi\u00f3:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cWhy do people feel the need to play games anyway! Too old for the BS! Life is already difficult enough to try work out what\u2019s really going on.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Otro a\u00f1adi\u00f3:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cHe can do that for sure. But once my text or call goes unanswered he won’t receive a reply when he decides to come back.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Honestly, I agree and love this energy in the comments. But if you really like him, it can be hard to simply move on with your life. So, what do you do when you just can\u2019t let it go?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Do this when he doesn\u2019t text you back<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

El entrenador del amor sigui\u00f3 con otro v\u00eddeo<\/a> para darle consejos sobre c\u00f3mo actuar si se encuentra en esta situaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n\n\n

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Cr\u00e9dito: TikTok<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

Dijo que lo mejor que puedes hacer es olvidarte de \u00e9l<\/strong> y haz lo que tengas que hacer para no contestar. Como dice Brody:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cMake sure to give him the space and realize that most likely he\u2019s probably not gonna reach back out and the only thing that will probably cause him to reach back out is you not acting needy, not acting desperate, not sending something that you\u2019ll later regret.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Tambi\u00e9n explic\u00f3 que esto te animar\u00eda a no encari\u00f1arte f\u00e1cilmente<\/strong> y molestarte sin motivo para poder centrarte en otras cosas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Then if he eventually texts you back it will only be a pleasant surprise because you weren\u2019t expecting it in the first place. So basically, \u00a1sin ataduras!<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Trust me, I know how hard following this advice can be! It\u2019s like you\u2019re waiting for someone that might never come. However, redirigir tu energ\u00eda y centrarte en otra cosa es realmente \u00fatil.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Whenever I had the urge to take my phone and text him I would tell myself that I shouldn\u2019t chase anyone, and neither should you, girl! Doing something to take my mind off him always does wonders.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Just don\u2019t overthink it! Go out with your girls, and even start dating other people if you want. In that way, you\u2019ll focus on something else that can also bring you joy and satisfaction. Maybe you even find someone who\u2019s more available and ready to give you the attention you need. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

En cualquier caso, haz lo que te haga feliz, y if you\u2019re not in the mood for games, move on and don\u2019t waste your time!<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

It\u2019s frustrating to invest yourself in someone only for them to disappear like nothing happened. You think you have this amazing energy going on, everything seems great, and then\u2026poof! It\u2019s all gone! We\u2019ve all been there, wondering if we said or did something that scared them away. I once went on a date with a…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":167758,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29814],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-167754","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29814,"label":"Stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/Love-Coach-Explains-The-Reason-Behind-Guys-Ghosting-You-1024x576.jpg",1024,576,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29814,"name":"Stories","slug":"stories","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29814,"taxonomy":"category","description":"","parent":29651,"count":242,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29814,"category_count":242,"category_description":"","cat_name":"Stories","category_nicename":"stories","category_parent":29651}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/167754","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=167754"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/167754\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":167762,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/167754\/revisions\/167762"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/167758"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=167754"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=167754"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=167754"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}