{"id":16779,"date":"2020-03-22T08:59:15","date_gmt":"2020-03-22T08:59:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=16779"},"modified":"2022-08-25T12:04:08","modified_gmt":"2022-08-25T12:04:08","slug":"8-consejos-para-una-relacion-duradera","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/8-consejos-para-una-relacion-duradera\/","title":{"rendered":"8 consejos para una relaci\u00f3n duradera"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Let\u2019s face it\u2014we all want love that lasts. But, nowadays, having a committed, labeled relationship is difficult enough. What seems almost impossible is for that relationship to last.<\/p>\n<p>A pesar de que mantener una relaci\u00f3n duradera es todo un reto, se puede conseguir con mucha paciencia y esfuerzo. Aqu\u00ed tienes 8 consejos que te ayudar\u00e1n a que tu relaci\u00f3n sea duradera.<\/p>\n<h2>1. Comunicar<\/h2>\n<p>Nunca se puede esperar tener <a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/us\/blog\/in-practice\/201301\/50-characteristics-healthy-relationships\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">una relaci\u00f3n sana<\/a> sin una verdadera comunicaci\u00f3n. Y no me refiero s\u00f3lo a conversaciones cotidianas o charlas triviales.<\/p>\n<p>Hablo de una comunicaci\u00f3n real y significativa sobre tus sue\u00f1os, esperanzas y miedos.<\/p>\n<p>Habla con tu pareja de lo que te preocupa y s\u00e9 receptivo cuando \u00e9l haga lo mismo. Aseg\u00farate de ser sincero en el proceso.<\/p>\n<h2>2. Conocer a la otra persona<\/h2>\n<p>If you want to have a relationship that will last, you\u2019ll have to put the effort in to really get to know the person you are with. Everything is easier when partners know each other for real.<\/p>\n<p>And I don\u2019t mean that you should just try to find out what his hobbies or interests in life are. You should put the effort in to get to know his personality and character, including the sides of him you don\u2019t like.<\/p>\n<p>This way, you\u2019ll have an easier time dealing with him and there will be fewer surprises in the future.<\/p>\n<h2>3. Don\u2019t try to change each other<\/h2>\n<p>Todo el mundo es una persona individual antes de entrar en una relaci\u00f3n. Y aunque es estupendo que t\u00fa y tu media naranja form\u00e9is un equipo, esta individualidad debe ser respetada y <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/refuse-change-please\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">you shouldn\u2019t change to please anyone<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Esto significa que los dos ten\u00e9is que aceptaros con todas vuestras imperfecciones, porque esos defectos forman parte de lo que sois.<\/p>\n<p>The biggest mistake you can make is to try and change your partner. That will only bring unnecessary tensions to the relationship and you won\u2019t accomplish a thing.<\/p>\n<p>Por supuesto, todos modificamos algunas cosas de nosotros mismos cuando nos asociamos con alguien, pero no se debe esperar que nadie cambie caracter\u00edsticas esenciales de su personalidad.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Relacionado: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/sound-relationship-house\/\">Teor\u00eda de la casa de relaciones s\u00f3lidas y 9 formas de construirla<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<h2>4. Ded\u00edcate tiempo a ti mismo<\/h2>\n<p>Cuando amas a alguien, quieres pasar todo tu tiempo libre con esa persona. Y aunque eso parece interesante al principio, este concepto no es realmente eficaz cuando se trata de relaciones duraderas.<\/p>\n<p>Si quieres que tu relaci\u00f3n dure, ambos deb\u00e9is encontrar siempre tiempo para vosotros mismos e intentar no pasar juntos cada segundo de cada d\u00eda.<\/p>\n<p>Eso te ayudar\u00e1 a apreciar m\u00e1s el tiempo que pas\u00e1is juntos.<\/p>\n<h2>5. Ser socios<\/h2>\n<p>Recuerda que una relaci\u00f3n rom\u00e1ntica es una forma de asociaci\u00f3n, en todos los sentidos de la palabra. Eso significa que t\u00fa y tu pareja sois iguales y as\u00ed deb\u00e9is comportaros.<\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t matter who earns more money or who is older\u2014both of you should have the same say when it comes to your relationship and it is never acceptable for one partner to act like they are above the other person in any way.<\/p>\n<h2>6. Aprender a luchar<\/h2>\n<p>If you think that you\u2019ll have a fight-free long-term relationship, you couldn\u2019t be more mistaken. But if you really want your relationship to last, you\u2019ll have to learn to fight.<\/p>\n<p>That means that both you and your partner need to pick your battles and that you\u2019ll both have to let go of some things from time to time.<\/p>\n<h2>7. Compromiso<\/h2>\n<p>Being selfish is something you\u2019ll have to forget about if you want to have a long-term relationship. You and your partner are now a team and everything you do will be for the benefit of the relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Eso significa que los dos tendr\u00e9is que encontraros a mitad de camino y hacer algunos sacrificios de vez en cuando si quer\u00e9is que las cosas funcionen.<\/p>\n<h2>8. Ser \u00edntimo<\/h2>\n<p>Mature couples know that intimacy is so much more than sex. And although you shouldn\u2019t disregard sex if you want your long-lasting relationship to be successful, you should also make time for other <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/8-cosas-intimas-en-lugar-de-sexo\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">cosas \u00edntimas en lugar de sexo<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Por muy ocupados que estemos, es importante que siempre tengamos tiempo para los dos solos. A veces, cogerse de la mano, abrazarse o simplemente tumbarse juntos refuerza el v\u00ednculo entre las personas m\u00e1s que cualquier otra cosa.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-91045 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/8-tips-for-a-long-lasting-relationship-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"8 consejos para una relaci\u00f3n duradera\" width=\"735\" height=\"1102\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/8-tips-for-a-long-lasting-relationship-pinterest.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/8-tips-for-a-long-lasting-relationship-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/8-tips-for-a-long-lasting-relationship-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 735px) 100vw, 735px\" \/> <!--codes_iframe--> <!--\/codes_iframe--><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Let\u2019s face it\u2014we all want love that lasts. But, nowadays, having a committed, labeled relationship is difficult enough. What seems almost impossible is for that relationship to last. Despite the fact that having a long-term relationship is challenging, it definitely can be done with a lot of patience and hard work. Here are 8 tips&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":16783,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29621],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16779","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-healthy-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29621,"label":"healthy relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/tyler-nix-525373-unsplash.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29621,"name":"healthy relationship","slug":"healthy-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29621,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Explore this part of our site to learn how to recognize and nourish healthy patterns in your relationships and let go of the negative ones with ease.","parent":29620,"count":254,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29621,"category_count":254,"category_description":"Explore this part of our site to learn how to recognize and nourish healthy patterns in your relationships and let go of the negative ones with ease.","cat_name":"healthy relationship","category_nicename":"healthy-relationship","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16779","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16779"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16779\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/16783"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16779"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16779"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16779"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}