{"id":167976,"date":"2024-07-10T18:47:48","date_gmt":"2024-07-10T18:47:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=167976"},"modified":"2024-07-10T18:47:48","modified_gmt":"2024-07-10T18:47:48","slug":"un-dia-en-la-vida-de-una-pareja-infeliz","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/un-dia-en-la-vida-de-una-pareja-infeliz\/","title":{"rendered":"Si tu d\u00eda con tu pareja se parece a esto, tu relaci\u00f3n est\u00e1 en terreno pedregoso"},"content":{"rendered":"

Have you ever woken up next to your partner but felt like you were miles away? You\u2019ve been together for quite some time but something\u2019s missing. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Esto es un escenario que todos temen<\/strong>pero, por desgracia, mucha gente lo reconoce y lo entiende demasiado bien. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Las relaciones que antes estaban llenas de deseo y de un amor fuerte a veces pueden convertirse en algo completamente distinto. Yo tambi\u00e9n me he sentido alguna vez vivir con un extra\u00f1o bajo el mismo techo <\/strong>y no un hombre con el que pas\u00e9 a\u00f1os y compart\u00ed todo. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Psicoterapeuta y experta en relaciones, Deborah Krevalin<\/strong> (@debkrevalincounseling<\/a>) arroja luz sobre este tema en su TikTok<\/a> y describi\u00f3 c\u00f3mo suelen ser estas relaciones. Si esto te resulta familiar, puede que haya llegado el momento de tener una conversaci\u00f3n seria sobre el futuro con tu pareja.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cA day in the life of an unhappy couple\u201d<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

When you\u2019re truly in love and satisfied with your partner, each day looks like the first time you felt butterflies in your stomach. You can\u2019t wait to open your eyes in the morning and see them, or to hear about their day when they get back from work.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Disfrutas sinceramente de su compa\u00f1\u00eda y nunca te cansas de ellos. Cada d\u00eda es una nueva y emocionante aventura.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sin embargo, cuando las personas son infelices juntas, las cosas son un poco diferentes. Pierden la chispa que una vez tuvieron y dejan casi por completo de interesarse el uno por el otro.<\/strong> Deborah describi\u00f3 c\u00f3mo suele ser un d\u00eda para esas parejas:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cThey wake up and maybe they say \u2018good morning\u2019, at best. They do their own things, they get ready for the day, and possibly the partner who leaves first says, \u2018See you later, I\u2019m leaving\u2019, maybe \u2018have a good day.\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n

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\"anciana\"
Fuente: TikTok<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

Some people wouldn\u2019t assume this is problematic but Los problemas a menudo se esconden en esas peque\u00f1as cosas, como simplemente no saludarse o reconocerse.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mi ex sol\u00eda mostrarme siempre afecto por la ma\u00f1ana, besarme y acurrucarse conmigo todos los d\u00edas antes de irse a trabajar. Al cabo de un tiempo, empez\u00f3 a actuar exactamente como ella describ\u00eda.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pasar de amantes a extra\u00f1os<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

It doesn\u2019t just end with forgetting you\u2019re not living alone, but also falta de comunicaci\u00f3n y de tiempo de calidad juntos. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

El psicoterapeuta tambi\u00e9n a\u00f1adi\u00f3:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cThere\u2019s no contact during the day, there\u2019s no \u2018What are we doing for dinner?\u2019, nothing like that. You don\u2019t know when the partner is coming home, you guys just sort of arrive when you arrive.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n

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\"vieja
Fuente: TikTok<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

When relationships come to this stage it\u2019s clear something\u2019s not right. Couples tend to get more distant each day and if they don\u2019t put an end to it, rompen o se convierten en completos extra\u00f1os, simplemente coexistiendo en el mismo espacio. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Leaving isn\u2019t always the best option, although it might be the easiest for some. If you\u2019re ready to fight for your love, there\u2019s nothing an honest conversation and a bit of work on your relationship can\u2019t solve. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Deborah also mentioned that another hallmark of unhappy couples is that they don\u2019t even spend time together even if they live under the same roof. She said:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cThen usually during the night you\u2019re reading or watching TV, probably not in the same room, and then you go to bed and rinse and repeat. \u201c<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n

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\"mujer
Fuente: TikTok<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

Por desgracia, esta es la triste realidad de muchas parejas hoy en d\u00eda. <\/strong>While some recognize this toxic pattern and want to fix it, others simply accept their destiny and stay with their partners because they already become comfortable and don\u2019t want to cause drama. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Of course, that can\u2019t lead to anything good and it\u2019s just a matter of time when things will escalate <\/strong>since you can only live in that environment for some time before losing your sanity. One woman said this was her reality once and it didn\u2019t end well:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cBeen there, he didn\u2019t wanna go for a walk, a hike, out to eat, play pool, go watch a sunset. ANYTHING. I was bored, sad, and miserable.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

What\u2019s interesting is that not all people agree this is a miserable life. Some say they live like that and don\u2019t find anything wrong with it<\/strong>mientras que otros preferir\u00edan estar solos que en ese tipo de relaci\u00f3n. <\/p>\n\n\n

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\"comentarios
Fuente: TikTok<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

I don\u2019t think this is a healthy way to live with someone, but I guess cada uno tiene sus preferencias.<\/strong> Maybe some people aren\u2019t keen on affection or need more time alone because they\u2019re introverted, so this lifestyle suits them. Who knows!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Either way, openly discussing your relationship and how would you like things to go is always a good idea. In this way, we can avoid having uncomfortable moments and making the other side feel like they\u2019re neglected. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Every problem can be solved so don\u2019t give up right away! Tu relaci\u00f3n puede florecer como antes <\/strong>if you\u2019re willing to make it work!<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Have you ever woken up next to your partner but felt like you were miles away? You\u2019ve been together for quite some time but something\u2019s missing.  This is a scenario everyone dreads, but unfortunately, a lot of people recognize it and understand it a bit too well.  Relationships that were once filled with desire and…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":167981,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-167976","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/If-Your-Day-With-A-Partner-Looks-Like-This-Your-Relationship-Is-On-Rocky-Ground-1024x576.jpg",1024,576,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/167976","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=167976"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/167976\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":167982,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/167976\/revisions\/167982"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/167981"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=167976"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=167976"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=167976"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}