{"id":168001,"date":"2024-07-11T07:41:24","date_gmt":"2024-07-11T07:41:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=168001"},"modified":"2024-07-11T07:41:27","modified_gmt":"2024-07-11T07:41:27","slug":"como-encontrar-el-amor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-encontrar-el-amor\/","title":{"rendered":"El secreto para encontrar el amor sin buscarlo"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00bfT\u00fa tambi\u00e9n est\u00e1s harto de o\u00edr a la gente decir: \u201cOh, you\u2019ll find someone when you stop looking.\u201d<\/em>?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

S\u00ed, yo tambi\u00e9n. Pon\u00eda los ojos en blanco cada vez que alguien me dec\u00eda eso. S\u00e9 que ten\u00edan buenas intenciones y quer\u00edan hacerme sentir mejor, pero sinceramente, lo odiaba. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nunca entend\u00ed c\u00f3mo dejar de buscar a alguien cuando realmente, realmente, quer\u00eda estar en una relaci\u00f3n comprometida. \u00bfQu\u00e9 es eso de fingir hasta conseguirlo? \u00bfEs eso? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00bfEs tan malo querer tener a alguien a tu lado? \u00bfC\u00f3mo puedo conocer a alguien si elimino todas mis aplicaciones de citas, dejo de lado los eventos para solteros y dejo de intentar encontrar a mi alma gemela?<\/strong> Nunca tuvo sentido para m\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Wouldn\u2019t I be seen as someone who\u2019s not interested in relationships and guys would get a totally different message from me? These are all the things that would spin around my mind until I finally realized what people meant by saying I\u2019ll find love when I stop searching for it. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Por eso quiero compartir contigo las cosas que me ayudaron a encontrar el amor sin ni siquiera intentarlo. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cDon\u2019t worry about finding the right person, focus on being the one\u201d<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"hermosa<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

This quote describes the essence of what people actually want to say to you. It\u2019s not really about not looking for love, it\u2019s about not forcing something that isn\u2019t meant to be.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Although we think we know what\u2019s best for us, I think that\u2019s not always the case. We might think we\u2019re ready to commit and give our everything to another person but in reality, we\u2019re far away from that.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

That\u2019s why I really believe the universe sometimes saves us from misery and trouble by not letting us have what we want at some moment.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A menudo pensamos que necesitamos a otra persona para sentirnos realizados, pero la verdad est\u00e1 muy lejos de eso. <\/strong>Lo que necesitamos es centrarnos y trabajar en nosotros mismos. Estar segura de m\u00ed misma y ser feliz me ayud\u00f3 mucho a encontrar a mi alma gemela.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You don\u2019t need your \u201cother half\u201d, you\u2019re already whole<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"mujer<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

People rush to meet someone while they don\u2019t even know themselves fully.  This is dangerous as it could resurface later in your relationships and cause issues. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Adem\u00e1s de esto, si necesitas a otra persona para ser feliz, cari\u00f1o, tienes un gran problema. Nadie quiere estar con alguien que est\u00e1 desesperado.<\/strong> I don\u2019t know, it\u2019s just not attractive.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, people don\u2019t want their partner to be clingy all the time and suffocate them just because they can\u2019t live without them. Do you understand now where I\u2019m going with this?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

S\u00ed, as\u00ed que b\u00e1sicamente tienes que aprender a pasar tiempo a solas y disfrutar de la solter\u00eda.<\/strong> Es el momento en que puedes hacer absolutamente todo lo que quieras sin tener que pensar en nadie m\u00e1s. Todas las decisiones importantes dependen de ti y de lo que desees. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

So use that time wisely to live life however you want. When you see how happy you can be even when you\u2019re alone, you won\u2019t depend on anyone else for your happiness. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This is really important and will come in handy if you realize at some point you don\u2019t want to be in a relationship anymore. You\u2019ll know there\u2019s nothing bad about being alone and it\u2019s better than being miserable with someone else.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

You don\u2019t want to be the person who stays with someone even if they\u2019re a horrible person just because you don\u2019t want to be single, right? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vive tu propia vida al m\u00e1ximo<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"mujer<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The key is not to completely give up on love and then expect it will find us, it\u2019s just to shift our focus from desperately searching for el<\/em> a algo que amamos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s crazy how many people I attracted once I looked satisfied with where I was in life and didn\u2019t force anything. That\u2019s what you need as well!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Adem\u00e1s de centrarse en la superaci\u00f3n personal, puedes hacer literalmente lo que te haga feliz. <\/strong>Viaja, adquiere nuevas aficiones, sal a divertirte con tus amigos, monta tu propio negocio, \u00a1lo que sea! <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vivir la vida as\u00ed y no preocuparte constantemente por encontrar a alguien te har\u00e1 darte cuenta de que tener pareja es s\u00f3lo una ventaja, no una necesidad. <\/strong>When people see what kind of life you have, they\u2019ll naturally want to be a part of it. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Exponerse a los dem\u00e1s es tambi\u00e9n la forma m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil de conocer a alguien inesperadamente, y las personas que conoces as\u00ed suelen ser las mejores.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So stop overthinking already, damn it! By forcing things, you\u2019re just setting yourself up for failure. You\u2019ll see that once you shift your energy from finding true love, it\u2019ll come quicker than you expect and surprise you.<\/strong> <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Are you also sick of hearing people say: \u201cOh, you\u2019ll find someone when you stop looking.\u201d? Yeah, I was too. I would roll my eyes every time someone said that to me. I know they had good intentions and wanted to make me feel better, but honestly, I hated it.  I never understood how to…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":168007,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-168001","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/The-Secret-To-Finding-Love-Without-Searching-For-It-1024x678.jpg",1024,678,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","parent":29643,"count":442,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29648,"category_count":442,"category_description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","cat_name":"dating tips","category_nicename":"dating-tips","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/168001","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=168001"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/168001\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":168011,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/168001\/revisions\/168011"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/168007"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=168001"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=168001"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=168001"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}