{"id":168034,"date":"2024-07-11T10:28:49","date_gmt":"2024-07-11T10:28:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=168034"},"modified":"2024-07-11T10:28:49","modified_gmt":"2024-07-11T10:28:49","slug":"la-intrigante-sabiduria-de-un-experto-en-citas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/la-intrigante-sabiduria-de-un-experto-en-citas\/","title":{"rendered":"Esta mujer te dejar\u00e1 boquiabierto con sus intrigantes consejos sobre citas"},"content":{"rendered":"

Siempre me pregunto cu\u00e1nto tiempo debo esperar antes de que las cosas se <\/strong>f\u00edsico<\/em><\/strong> con mi cita.<\/strong> It\u2019s a tough call!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00bfTercera cita, d\u00e9cima cita, un mes?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00bfEs demasiado pronto?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00bfDeber\u00eda esperar a que nos conozcamos mejor? <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Si espero demasiado, \u00bfse ir\u00e1?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Probablemente usted tenga las mismas dudas. S\u00e9 que navegar una relaci\u00f3n rom\u00e1ntica puede ser una emocionante monta\u00f1a rusa,<\/strong> sobre todo a la hora de decidir el momento adecuado para pasar al siguiente nivel.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pero esc\u00fachame, un entrenador de relaciones, Louise Perry ha dejado caer una revelaci\u00f3n bomba<\/strong> that\u2019s turning heads!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Louise Perry es una escritora, periodista y presentadora de podcasts brit\u00e1nica. recientemente se encendi\u00f3<\/strong> \u201cThe Diary Of A CEO\u201d <\/em><\/strong>podcast<\/strong> con su nueva visi\u00f3n de las citas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

En el YouTube <\/em>episodio<\/a>, she dove into her book\u2019s advice for waiting three months before hitting the sheets. But here\u2019s the kicker:\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Her real advice is to wait until there\u2019s a ring<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Charlando con el presentador Steve Bartlett, Louise didn\u2019t hold back about her thoughts<\/strong> en que las mujeres intimen antes de que exista un compromiso s\u00f3lido.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Perry, que antes era una ferviente defensora de la cl\u00e1sica regla de los tres meses, ahora ha dado la vuelta al gui\u00f3n y aconseja a las parejas que hold off on getting intimate until there\u2019s a proposal and a ring.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n

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\"mujer<\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n

Yes, you heard that right \u2013 no ring, no fling!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Este sorprendente giro est\u00e1 dando mucho que hablar en el mundo de las citas.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cuando Steven hizo la gran pregunta sobre el momento oportuno, Louise declar\u00f3 audazmente: <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cI think, probably, actually waiting until engagement is a better call.\u201d <\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Reconoce it\u2019s tough to stick to this in a culture where waiting can seem \u201cweird\u201d<\/strong> a menos que sea por motivos religiosos, y podr\u00eda significar perderse posibles parejas: <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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“You basically cut out a big chunk of your possible matches by insisting on that.”<\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Perry admiti\u00f3 que sugiri\u00f3 la espera de tres meses en su libro simplemente porque parec\u00eda m\u00e1s pr\u00e1ctico y factible, <\/strong>evitando reacciones de asombro en las cr\u00edticas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

La regla de los tres meses de cita sirve de periodo de prueba,<\/strong> giving couples a chance to truly get to know each other before taking things seriously. After all, first impressions can be deceiving, and\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Este enfoque permite establecer una conexi\u00f3n m\u00e1s profunda<\/h2>\n\n\n
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\"mujer<\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n

Las citas se han vuelto muy complejas, ya que hombres y mujeres suelen tener objetivos y expectativas diferentes:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cAnd of course there\u2019s this whole game about how like, man might want to have s.x with more people, woman want to tie a man down. Like it’s a really complicated game.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

That\u2019s why it is necessary that we have some costumbres de citas y matrimonios,<\/strong> como en cualquier otra cultura.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

El experto en relaciones una nueva perspectiva sobre las citas, basada en sus estudios de antropolog\u00eda.<\/strong> que exploran c\u00f3mo conviven diversas sociedades de todo el mundo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Destaca la importancia de las normas sociales: <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cLack of social rules sets everyone up to fail.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Se pregunta por qu\u00e9 pensamos que podemos vivir sin algunas normas y costumbres al respecto y por qu\u00e9 creemos que podemos<\/strong> \u201chave just free-for-all\u201d. <\/em><\/strong>Dice que la gente no puede hacer lo que le d\u00e9 la gana, debe haber cierto orden: <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cWhat anthropology tells us is that actually we need structure, we need conventions and we need constraints, and templates.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Louise tambi\u00e9n subraya que los hombres a menudo malinterpretan las se\u00f1ales sociales, mientras que las mujeres luchan por poner l\u00edmites sin parecer antip\u00e1ticas. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Following this advice and making it custom, will protect women. Because\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n

El truco est\u00e1 en el compromiso<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Esperando, las mujeres pueden asegurarse con alguien que est\u00e9 realmente comprometido,<\/strong> reducir el riesgo de agitaci\u00f3n emocional. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

She\u2019s aware this advice might be difficult to follow in today’s culture, where waiting is often seen as unconventional.<\/strong> But there are many benefits you\u2019ll discover along the way.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

En primer lugar, este enfoque ayuda a las mujeres a evitar las complicaciones emocionales<\/strong> que pueden surgir porque son m\u00e1s propensas a sentirse vinculadas emocionalmente a trav\u00e9s de la intimidad que los hombres. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, she stressed that engaging in intimacy with someone you wouldn\u2019t want to have children with is a significant risk.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ning\u00fan m\u00e9todo anticonceptivo es 100% seguro y you don\u2019t want to end up being pregnant with someone you don\u2019t see yourself with.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n

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\"compartir<\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n

Human reproduction is a very complex and delicate thing and there\u2019s a huge coordination problem related to it:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cYou\u2019ve got to find the right person, you\u2019ve got to find them at the right time, you\u2019ve got to like ensure commitment from them.\u201d <\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

As\u00ed que esperar es una buena estrategia para garantizar una relaci\u00f3n sana y feliz.<\/strong> Because\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cA lot of young women go along with (being intimate) even if they don\u2019t want it.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Entonces acaban sinti\u00e9ndose desgraciados, ya que la intimidad hace que las mujeres se sientan m\u00e1s apegadas emocionalmente que los hombres.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Don\u2019t let society decide when you should sleep with the man you\u2019re dating! Sure, this idea might sound a bit controversial, but piensa en c\u00f3mo puede protegerte de muchas maneras. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Lo entiendo, esperar es duro, pero \u00bfpor qu\u00e9 precipitarse a tener intimidad f\u00edsica con alguien que quiz\u00e1 no sea adecuado para ti? C\u00e9ntrate primero en encontrar puntos en com\u00fan y crear un v\u00ednculo s\u00f3lido.<\/strong> Entonces el dormitorio hable<\/em> ser\u00e1 mucho m\u00e1s agradable.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I always wonder how long I should wait before things get physical with my date. It\u2019s a tough call! Third date, tenth date, one month? Is it too soon? Should I wait until we get to know each other better?  If I wait for too long will he go away? You probably have the same…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":168065,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-168034","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/This-Woman-Will-Blow-Your-Mind-With-Intriguing-Dating-Advice-1024x576.jpg",1024,576,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/168034","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=168034"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/168034\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":168069,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/168034\/revisions\/168069"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/168065"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=168034"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=168034"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=168034"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}